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@ohmysterekheart

Crissy. 27. American. Opinionated and passionate. Overly emotional about fictional characters. Currently obsessed with Derek Hale and Sterek. Forever a Harry Potter and Drarry fangirl.
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I find it fascinating that people who choose not to have children are generally assumed to feel really strongly about not having children (or even to feel really strongly against children, anyone’s children, in general). I am probably not going to have children, not because I REALLY REALLY HATE the idea of having children, but because I don’t really really love it. Out of all the major decisions I will make in my life, this one is the only irreversible one. I can sell a house, quit a job, divorce a spouse, whatever. I cannot unhave a child. I cannot opt out of being a parent once I become a parent. I can’t even take a step back for the sake of self-care or whatever, or else my child will suffer.

So for me, having children is fuck yes or not at all. The default will be to remain childfree. Having children should be an opt-in decision, not an opt-out one. Until/unless I develop really strong feelings about wanting to have children, I won’t have them, even if that means I never end up having them at all.

Sometimes you just come across something that puts into words what you have yet been unable to.

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kcsplace

As someone who was born becaue ‘it was what you did, have children’ and had a mother who alternated between utterly disinterested and violently abusive, if you aren’t in love with and desperate to be a parent (not have a baby, but be a parent, that is not the same thing at all and you need to want to be a PARENT not have a baby) don’t have children.  Just don’t

Please

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sexhaver

i cant even read the news any more and function as a person without being paralyzed by dread. it really feels like the world is going to end in the next decade and im supposed to just have a career and pay taxes

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artemis69

Though I do love discovering a new fic, I don’t think we take the time to express how reading again and again old fave is important. 

I have fics that I could quote by heart, and I’m getting excited just knowing that that paragraph is coming soon, and I have to physically restrain myself from jumping ahead. 

Some of them, I will just start reading again halfway through, because it was a shitty day and I just know that the comfort in this h/c is beautiful, and I don’t feel like suffering for it atm. 

Sometimes, I’ll do the opposite. 

I just love how good familiar fics make me feel, this certainty that somewhere deep in my computers there are words that I already know are perfect and just waiting for me if I don’t feel like looking through all the new stuff. 

So you know, thank you fanfic writers. I love you very much

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Sterek Week is coming! …In four months, Sterek Week will be back for the last week of October!

Sterek Week 2019 is in need of staff members

If you think you’ll be available to help manage the blog between now and October, please send us a message! There’s not alot of work needed, just the following:

Reblog Squad- We’re going to need help looking through the Sterek Week tag DURING Sterek Week to find what needs to be reblogged; Needed: During Sterek Week, you don’t have to be on all the time, but atleast once a day would be GREAT

Graphic Makers- We need atleast one graphic maker to make the graphics for each day, as well as to make promotional graphics, ideally, we’d love to have more than one, if you want to help make graphics I PROMISE you- you can! There is no limit to how many graphic makes we’ll accept, EVERYONE will get atleast one graphic to do; Needed: Now through October, depending on what graphics you make will obviously determine how long you’re needed, if you’re only available over the summer or during a certain month, you can feel free to send us the graphic way in advance and we’ll set it up from there, as long as we can get a total of 10-12 graphics we’re cool

Promoters- We all know the Sterek blogs that have enough followers to practically fill a city, but you don’t have to have a huge following to promote, just spread the word! Obviously you can promote if you aren’t staff- like, please and thank you- but if you want to take promoting to a brand new level and make graphics, art, fic, or even just reblog like a reblogging demon, your help would be GREATLY appreciated!! Needed: Year-round Now through October, you can come and go as you please!

If you don’t have time, energy, or desire to be staff- no worries! You can always participate in Sterek Week, just keep a sharp eye out for us and remember, Sterek Week WILL be the last week of October, I’m currently trying to decide the official dates but as long as you’re looking for us at the end of October, you’ll find us! Sterek Week accepts ALL art: videos, graphics, art, fic, and fanmixes, check out last year’s AH-MAZ-ING submissions to see what we’re all about!

If you’re interested in Sterek Week, please like, reblog, follow, and make sure to mark your calendars!

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halinski

STEREKS LOOKIE HERE

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Tbh I want Sterek to thrive more now to spite Jeff Davis cause Sterek is forever, Teen Wolf was just a fade.