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Can I tell you a secret? You don’t have to be in a relationship.    I mean it. I know they force it down your throat until you choke on it. Girls aren’t pretty unless they’re wanted. Boys aren’t men unless they’re having sex with someone. People aren’t lovable until they’re dating someone.    But a relationship won’t always make you happy, and as wonderful as romance is, it isn’t the only love that exists. I have seen friendships that are deeper and more pure than couples who swear it’s forever - and yet the friendship is the one people ignore.    I have heard so often “nobody loves me” out of the mouths of people who are single. And it kills me because if you ask them: where are your parents, your teachers, your classmates, your pets - they say, yes, okay, but it doesn’t count. Of course it counts, love doesn’t diminish just because someone doesn’t want to have sex with you. In fact, doesn’t it sort of make that love more real that they want nothing - not even a date - out of you?   It is pretty to be in love. It’s magical, I’m sure. But it’s also wonderful to stop for ice cream in your prom dress with six other girls. It’s also wonderful to go visit the world with nothing but a bunch of buddies who are really excited about learning.    The problem is: we’ve made everything about “the one”. But maybe “the one” is just you, loving yourself, having fun, and being happy. Maybe instead of looking for our other halves, we should be piecing ourselves together.   Maybe I wasn’t born unfinished. Maybe I am the one who makes myself better.

Single serving size // r.i.d (via inkskinned)

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do you ever want to just go back and not even change anything but just go back, just to be in that moment again, just so you can relive it, i want to, i really want to, or instead of going back, just being with the people in that memory again, cause i know where i would go back...
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its crazy, its like one day you know somebody as good as you can know them, and then the next day you guys are strangers, sometimes it happens over time but sometimes, it happens in a flash, and its crazy how you walk past this stranger and then all of a sudden these millions of memories pop into your head, some are happy some are sad some make you angry, but you still want to think of these memories because its something that happened to you and its crazy because this person that was in all your memories is now a total stranger
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they keep asking about you...