Hidden in the Shadows

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We accept the love we think we deserve.

This guy was driving in the desert when he found a dog in the middle of the road. He had no idea that he had just found the most FEARLESS adventure buddy ever — who was even down to jump off a cliff with his dad!

Anonymous asked:

How'd you both decide on monogamy if you don't mind me asking? Was it something you talked about or was your gf just not into being open? I've only been in one monogamous relationship, my first boyfriend in highschool, since then I've only been open. I'm pansexual as well. My current gf wasn't open to an open relationship either, we kept it monogamous for about 3 months. I couldn't do it, luckily for me she's bi & understanding, so we're currently both sleeping with an awesome cop & his wife.

I had never been in a monogamous relationship before my current one. I never really believed it could work. Funnily enough, it was actually me who told her I wanted us to be monogamous. One night, I was talking with her in the bath about staying in the city with a (male) friend of mine and she had assumed I wanted to sleep with him. The second that became clear all I wanted to do was reassure her that it wasn’t the case. As soon as I’d said that, I realised that I didn’t want to be with anyone else ever again. She fulfills everything. Before, I used to think of love and lust as two separate things. That you can be in love with someone but still lust over another. But now, all I do is lust over her. Previously, I was with a man so I guess I felt as though I was lacking in certain things in the bedroom. So yeah, I pushed it and told her I didn’t want anyone else’s hands on her, and respectfully promised her that I am completely hers in return.

In saying that, I do believe that ‘open’ relationships work, as long as you follow rules and really trust each other. Your SO has to be able to reserve the right to you being with a particular person if it makes them uncomfortable, and you should always be honest with them. Also, your SO should ALWAYS come first. Don’t cancel plans with them to hook up with someone else. And just keep it fun. You’re in this to screw around and enjoy your youth, not to fall for someone else. It’s important that they still feel like no.1 for an open relationship to work.

I’ve been monogamous now for nearly a year and haven’t even entertained the thought of anyone else. I guess I’m saying it can work either way… just be honest and respectful first and foremost. I hope this helps!

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Day 121

She throws me down in the middle of our bed. I throw the blanket over her shoulders as she moves between my legs. I feel her tongue press gently against my clit and I try my best to keep my hips still as she teases me. I feel myself losing awareness of everything except her hair tickling my thighs and her fingers digging in to my hip bones, and her mouth getting me closer to cumming with every motion of her tongue. She breathes heavy and groans as I start to shake with the build up. She edges me towards orgasm as she slowly moves her right arm, stroking my wet pussy with her fingers. A deep moan escapes me in anticipation, and I grab a fistful of her hair as she moves inside me. She fucks me while she sucks on my clit, licking my piercing and moving her fingers deeper and harder as I moan louder and louder. She moves, pressing her face in to my stomach and fucking me even harder, and I moan and swear and say her name in a way that makes her moan with me. I grab her arm and hold her as deep as I can as I finally explode and cum all over her. My pussy is suddenly so sensitive that I have to push her off me. She lays on her back with her head hanging over the end of our bed, and I have to taste her. I can’t control myself and I press my mouth hard in to her pussy. She moans almost instantly and starts swearing, almost sounding surprised at how quickly I’m getting her off. I slide inside her and feel her, dripping wet, warm and tight against my fingers. I let them curl upwards as I move deeper and she makes a noise that tells me I’ve hit the spot. I keep eating her, slowly, and fucking her to the rhythm of her hips as she gets closer and closer to cumming. She presses her hand on the back of my head, then slides it down to scratch my back. I tell her, “you’d better scratch me harder”, daring her to try and hurt me. She does, dragging her nails over my shoulder blade. The burn only gets me off more, and I lift my head to look at her body. She’s incredible. Her boobs are bouncing and her skin looks incredibly soft, she throws her head back off the bed and uses her hands to hold herself against the speaker. I couldn’t care less if she falls off, I’m not stopping until she screams my name.  I curl my fingers more and press as hard as I can against the inside of her pussy, and she cums even harder. I can feel her muscles squeezing my fingers and a rush of wetness covers my hand and wrist. She swears at me as she pushes my hand away, feeling that same intense sensitivity she’d had given me earlier. I turn over and feel her kneel behind me, between my legs. Her fingers slide inside my pussy and I have to bury my head in to the pillow. She starts gently, slowly sliding in and out as she grips my hips with her left hand. I moan deep and long, and I have to arch my back and press my ass in to her, to feel her fill my pussy as deep as possible. I hold myself up on my knees, legs spread for her, and lean against our headboard. She follows my lead and grips it with her left hand, instantly able to fuck me a little harder and a little deeper with the leverage. She makes this noise that will resound in my brain for days after. Like she’s looking at the best sight in the world, and she’s feeling the best feeling in the world, but at the same time… it’s raw. Desperate. Animalistic. It’s the fucking sexiest thing I’ve ever heard, and hearing her in that state over me gets me off twice as fast. I feel her tongue gliding over my ass and it makes me so fucking wet. She knows from the noises I’m making that I’m close, so she licks her fingers and reaches her left hand around to my clit, applying pressure and moving the palm of her hand at the same time as her fingers… and I’m fucking done. I cum so hard that I’m sure I’m screaming, and everything is covered in me. Her hands, the sheets, my legs are all soaking wet.

She is so incredible in bed. I mean, she’s incredible in general, but I’m also having the best sex of my life. I don’t know what I ever thought was good until now…