im dying over this thread of algorithmically-generated/otherwise low-effort Kindle covers
don't forget
grossly inappropriate copy of animal farm that is on my nightstand at this very moment
...When you're getting ready to design a book cover and you're not sure what you do is going to be good enough.. it's always reassuring to see something like [all of the above].
"In just seven days, I can make you a man. Dig it if you can."
The Rocky Horror Picture Show (1975)
[ID in alt]
Beetlejuice (1988) Directed by Tim Burton
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cinderella but instead of a glass slipper it's her glass butt plug
"good evening, citizen, i'll just be needing to check how well this fits up ur daughter's ass now, please step aside"
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Sexual themes
Learn to articulate how you're feeling without accusing anyone of having bad intentions. You can say "I'm afraid of being alone" without saying "you're just going to leave me like everyone else." You can say "I need some reassurance" without saying "you probably don't love me anymore." You can say "I'm afraid I've hurt your feelings and I'd like to talk it through" without saying "you don't even like me anymore." You can say "I want to spend more time with you" without saying "you've gotten tired of me." You can say "I feel misunderstood" without saying "you always judge me." Try not to let your emotions get the best of you. Have a conversation focused on finding solutions instead of escalating the conflict.
i feel like disability advocacy and homeless advocacy go hand in hand. like overlap aside, if you can't be normal about homeless people then you probably can't be normal about disabled people either
i know there's an overlap in these demographics btw but like. both groups:
- difficulty getting healthcare (if not denied all together)
- treated like shit when visibly disabled/homeless
- may have the police called on them for being in public
- ignored + not looked at + not talked to. as if ppl are afraid to acknowledge these ppl as ppl.
- difficulty accessing public spaces for various reasons
- treated like they have no value to society as living breathing people
- often thought of as inherently drug seeking
etc etc. and being disabled can make you homeless and being homeless can make you disabled and society is a pit for people who are considered to be at the bottom of it
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Sexual themes
Me flirting: You wanna watch lord of the rings:*seductive voice*extended edition
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Reminder
18+ means 18+, not “I’m 14 but I don’t get offended by your posts” or “I’m 16 but I’m mature for my age”
// If you’re a minor, get off my page, this isn’t for you //
"you're so pretty. you're so fucking pretty."
praising you while you cum
Aftercare
I’ve organized some of the things I need from aftercare (in person or long distance) into 4 components, and thought it could be helpful for others too! I’ve put some examples for each, but it will of course look different for everyone.
1. Physical Care/Needs -
- Wiping away tears
- Helping up from floor
- Getting a warm towel
- Soothing bruises
- Getting a glass of water
2. Physical Comfort/Affection -
- Gentle kisses and hugs
- Holding eachother tight
- Breathing with eachother
- Cuddling and/or napping together
- Brushing fingers through hair
3. Scene Validation -
- “That was so fun/sexy”
- “That felt so good when you ____”
- “You were such a good ____ for me”
- “I love the bruises/marks you gave me”
- “Thank you for (carrying out some fantasy) with me”
4. Human Affirmations -
- “I love you; I care about you”
- “I’m so grateful to have you in my life”
- “I always have a great time when I’m with you”
- “You’re a wonderful/kind/etc person”
- Mentioning a non-sexual part of your relationship that you like, or reiterating that you value eachother as more than just a sub/dom(me)
I think that this can work whether you have a deeper connection or a more casual play partner! I always feel best when all of these components are covered during aftercare.
These things can obv be done in person, and I think it’s also really important to give this kind of care when you’re long distance, even if it’s just through words after sexting… for example-
“When we were done, I would help you up and wipe away your tears, bring you a warm towel and make sure you’re ok. Then I’d love to cuddle, with your head on my chest, and give you forehead kisses while telling you how good you made me feel and how wonderful of a person I think you are.”
Thanks for reading! Be safe everyone 💕💕
Hope it's okay to add on but in the Human Affirmations category I find
"You are not below me"
"I see you as my equal"
and "You are my partner and I don't look down on you in any way"
very helpful!!<3
If you don’t mind me adding some dom/top affirmations:
“The things you said or names you called me weren’t to harsh/hurt my feelings”
“That was a lot of work do you want water”
“Are your arms/hands sore?”
“Please let me know if you need to catch your breath at any point”
Yesss aftercare for doms + tops is super important. Especially if exploring something new or spicy like cnc, humiliation etc... these things are a big ask of someone psychologically and a bit of reassurance goes a long way. On both sides, before and after. Reassurance sandwiches for all!
Imagine taking pictures of my cute pussy after you ruin it