“men dont like that. its such a turn off” good . turn off . where is ur off button . shut up . please stop making noise
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Just because they are your soulmate doesn’t mean that you should be together forever.
I want to talk about “soul groups” and the philosophy of yogic karma for this post. It is hypothesized have something called a “soul group”. A “soul group” is thought to be a group of souls that not only wait for each other to be out of their physical bodies, but to reincarnate together so we can be involved with each other once again. (perhaps at slightly different times, but it is so they can play specific rolls in your life) So technically, everyone in the “soul group” will be a “soulmate”. Some of these “soulmates” are therapists, friends, teachers, family members, lovers, etc. The thought of one “soulmate” is probable, but the idea of it is mostly derived from referring to a lover, and our culture mostly values monogamy. If you only apply it to romantic love and you are polyamorous, you may feel like they are all soul mates. A western explanation also implies that you will be with one person forever and no matter what. Psychics and ancient historians have come to the conclusion that soulmates aren’t limited to one person. This idea of having one soulmate could be a way to spiritually manipulate the masses into staying with one person no matter what, because you are “supposed to be together”. Now, they might supposed to be with you, but the reason you would not necessarily be together forever with one of your soul mates is because of karmic ties you have from past lives with one another. For example, you had a soul mate reincarnate to become a teacher in your life, and they strayed far from their spiritual path because of the limitations of the human body and did not fulfill their duties, they may reincarnate as a child of yours to not only neutralize the karmic ties, but to help the soul that was once a teacher overcome human limitations so they can learn from YOU instead. There is a great book called “Many Lives Many Masters” that can explain the concept of multiple soulmates in depth. So, what happens if you have multiple lovers as soulmates? Well, they may be temporary. If one soul is destined to be with you karmically, they may appear as a lover. You are both supposed to learn from each other, and when you have learned what you were supposed to, you just sometimes aren’t meant to be together after that. That’s why exes can feel like soulmates, but it just doesn’t work out. That’s why friends, teachers, and even therapists feel spiritually connected to you. When it comes to someone breaking their karmic ties and straying from their life path, they aren’t going to be spiritually fulfilling to your life path. If the universe is trying to tell you that you are ready to move onto the next best thing, because we are always evolving do it. It is scary, but the unknown is always scary. There are many factors to a soulmate breakup. They may go against the universes signs and their own gut feelings. This can not only stall them, but can corrupt the timeline between the two of you. There are infinite factors on why you might not be together forever. That doesn’t mean they aren’t spiritually significant or meant to be with you for a short period of time. Go with your gut. Never risk your physical and mental health for someone else because you believe you have to stay with them forever. Listen to what the universe wants you to do… there are likely more soulmates to come.
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“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
— Jenny Han, It’s Not Summer Without You (via picsandquotes)
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simultaneously wishing i were a woodland fairy, a maiden in the scottish highlands who is actually a selkie, a victorian naturalist who scandalously wears pants, a 1960s schoolgirl by the sea, a friendly forest witch, a reef-dwelling mermaid, a ghostly gothic heroine, or maybe a cat
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Y'all better be going to bed at a reasonable time, don’t make me tuck you in and kiss you goodnight
don’t threaten me with a good time
Last warning before I sing you a lullaby, fucker
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You don’t realize how much you have neglected yourself until you make yourself a priority again.
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I’ve come a long way in managing my depression and anxiety. I’ve heard the voices of suicide, and took the steps to stay instead. It’ll never feel easy, and I have a long way to go, forever really, but I want to. Need to.
Candace Ganger, “What Depression Looks Like When You’re a Mom” (via twloha)
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High-functioning depression is a slow-burn, invisible but powerful. I can be all the things everyone expects me to be. At the same time, the fire inside will eventually consume me, if left to its own volition. These kind of fires—unhealed wounds—will never die without the acceptance that I’m not capable on my own. It’s a battle to be fought with an army. Through our typical days here, when I find a moment of solitude within, I see the acceptance of the real version of me—the one not buried by the depression.
Candace Ganger, “What Depression Looks Like When You’re a Mom” (via twloha)
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Our minds and bodies are wired to avoid pain. At a deep, primal level. Our instinctual reactions are to protect ourselves, to keep ourselves safe. So what happens when our pain is an emotional, heart kind of pain? What happens when the solution to our heart pain is not only counter-intuitive, it’s against our very nature? What if the only way to get through the storm, is to walk through the rain? What if the only way to heal the pain, is to feel the pain?
Maria Shockey, “The Only Way Out is Through” (via twloha)
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Petition to change “he looked at her like she was the sun” to “he looked at her like she was the moon” and any other variation bc I look at the moon in wonder and love and amazement while I’ve only ever just squinted angrily at the sun
He looked at her like she was the sun, in that he never looked at her except in frustration. He basked in her warmth, he complained when she was gone, but he never looked. On days she was muted, he complained. On days she was stronger, he hid from her. He never looked at her until she was leaving, and in the beauty of the sunset he wondered how he’d never seen her before.
dude
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There is something so intimate about standing alone under the stars
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Source: zodiacspot.co
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Girls love each other like animals. There is something ferocious and unself-conscious about it. We don’t guard ourselves like we do with boys. No one trains us to shield our hearts from each other. With girls, it’s total vulnerability from the beginning. Our skin is bare and soft. We love with claws and teeth and the blood is just proof of how much. It’s feral.
And it’s relentless.
Leah Raeder, Black Iris (via lilgivenchyprincess)
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For I can’t help falling in love with you
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Source: zodiacspot.co