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cozypoems
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cozypoems
“1. Tell him how much you appreciate him. He almost certainly feels like he isn’t enough for you, and he deserves to know how truly grateful you are. 2. Let him know that you will always and unconditionally be there, even when it feels like the whole world is against him. He needs to know that you’re there for him just as much as he is for you. 3. Compliment him. Tell him how phenomenal of a kisser he is, or how muscular his back feels under your small hands. Let him know how handsome he is. Tell him he’s the sweetest person you know. Trust me, he needs it. 4. Be his cheerleader. Celebrate his successes, no matter how small, like he just won the lottery. Go to all of his games or presentations or performances, and kiss him like you mean it when they’re done. 5. Hold him while he’s crying. Wrap your arms around his neck and play with his hair. Be his shoulder to cry on, and let him know that this is okay. 6. Kiss him hard. Kiss him with so much passion that he smiles against your lips. Kiss his lips, his cheeks, his forehead, his hands, anywhere that will make him smile. 7. Tell him you love him when he’s happy, when he’s sad, or mad, or excited, or proud, or anxious, or even when you’re fighting. This will keep him strong throughout his days. I promise.”

— 7 Small Gestures to do for your Boyfriend. Boys Need Loving, too. 

coffeeandpoetrydarling
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Mamá
He never gave you flowers,
or a ring,
or a necklace.
But you’re the least materialistic person I know;
You never longed for the tangible items,
but rather
for a kiss on the cheek,
a sincere smile,
for him to say your name in a way that yelled how much he loved the way it rolled off his tongue.
n.g // i want to give you the world
zebona
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zebona
5 easy ways on how to get over someone who wasn’t even yours to call: 1. please delete all pictures of him because even if you say it won’t do anything, it will still help. 2. delete their contact. their number, snapchat, instagram, everything that deals with him. 3. i know you want to look at him but please don’t. what good will that even give you? you’ll just feel even more heartbroken over him and nobody wants you to feel like that. act as if he isn’t even there, as if their is no him in this world. do this until you know you’re ready to speak to him again without feeling the dreadful sting inside your heart. 4. avoid saying their name for now, don’t bring their name up. and don't panic if someone brings them up, it’s going to be okay. don't panic if he’s in the same room or group of friends with you also. act normal. avoid awkward eye contact and act as if everything is alright, show him that you don’t need him. 5. let him go. if he doesn’t feel the same towards you, it’s his loss. you’re amazing and so beautiful, don’t let his opinion define you. realize that you can do so much better than him. he’s just some dumb boy. do not wait for him. do not overthink things and think there still might be a chance. now, there might be a chance in the future but not right now. i repeat, do not wait for him. let him go and realize how you don’t need someone like him. it’s his loss, baby.

my own personal advice. [@woahjawlines] (via woahjawlines)

solutione
Sometimes you’re 23 and standing in the kitchen of your house making breakfast and brewing coffee and listening to music that for some reason is really getting to your heart. You’re just standing there thinking about going to work and picking up your dry cleaning. And also more exciting things like books you’re reading and trips you plan on taking and relationships that are springing into existence. Or fading from your memory, which is far less exciting. And suddenly you just don’t feel at home in your skin or in your house and you just want home but ‘Mom’s’ probably wouldn’t feel like home anymore either. There used to be the comfort of a number in your phone and ears that listened everyday and arms that were never for anyone else. But just to calm you down when you started feeling trapped in a five-minute period where nostalgia is too much and thoughts of this person you are feel foreign. When you realize that you’ll never be this young again but this is the first time you’ve ever been this old. When you can’t remember how you got from sixteen to here and all the same feel like sixteen is just as much of a stranger to you now. The song is over. The coffee’s done. You’re going to breathe in and out. You’re going to be fine in about five minutes.

Kalyn RoseAnne (via extramadness)

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Loving someone should be hard and active, not easy and passive. When you sign up to actually love people – no fakers allowed – then you sign up for a life of runny noses, awkward car rides, hugs that last too long, pauses that demand no noise, and admitting you were wrong. If you want to actually love people then you have to be willing to be wrong. Love is forgiveness. And it’s atonement. And it’s basically like putting your soul in a washing machine – it’s not some gentle cycle, it’s a fierce whipping that rings you out good. It makes the stains fade. Best of all, it fills the holes.

Hannah Brencher (via thequotejournals)

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