Not Cis, Just Woman

So help me god if I ever seen anyone so much a breathe something about Gaiman’s supposed autism or good omen’s cancellation again I am turning off your internet. This shit i why the first victims who came out only felt like they could go on a fucking radfem TERF podcast of all places. You disgusting ghouls need to keep your whining to the group chats and shut the fuck up. Fandom is progressive this fandom is activism that and it’s about david tenant getting railed more than it is helping real flesh and blood victims of SA fuck all of you

'only felt like they could go'

Way to virtue signal by low-key shaming the victims for going to the only place that would tell their story.

There aren't any others. His publishers, family, and colleagues have been doing damage control for him for years. That's why there's a sudden deluge of information now that the dam's been broken. He's a Cosby equivalent, an open secret in the industry.

Maybe it's more productive to ask why a 'radfem TERF' podcast was the only place willing to listen to and center women.

Yeah it's time to be real. Radfems were the only ones who would listen. We broke this story when no one else would. Same with with that sex trafficking ring. It took six months and ten years respectively for everyone else to catch up.

What else are we right about that you aren't listening to because you decided we are persona non grata because we don't make excuses for men?

There’s just something so… off about OP’s post. It’s taken me a while to put my finger on it.

Like there’s this group of women (radfems) who supported sexual assault victims when no one else would, and yet, somehow, we’re still the bad guys, and those women should feel shame for speaking to us.

Like it should be a last resort to go to us when you’re in distress, when instead you should be going to assholes like OP, who will believe the man over the woman until the proof becomes so undeniable they can’t pretend it’s not happening anymore.

I think, to anyone who isn’t paying much attention, this post can come off as frustrated yet sympathetic. But when you read a bit more into it, OP clearly has no sympathy for the victims. This is just another woman’s trauma being used for bullshit political games.

The podcast is not even a TERF podcast. It's literally the most normie podcast I can even think of. They do episodes about comedians, China, US elections, etc. It is in no way "TERF" or even feminist related in general. Where do people even get this shit?

Fucking liars and fucking gullible idiots who believe them. Nasty little worms.

The aquarium fandom stands with Luigi

In light of Brian Thompson being shot dead on my birthday (🎉🥳🎂) I'd like to share a personal story about UnitedHealthcare.

During the peak of COVID, my family all got sick. I couldn't be on my parents' insurance because they were both older and on Medicare. So, I had insurance through my University: UnitedHealthcare.

For some reason, rather than roll-over each year, I got a new plan each year that ended after May and didn't start until August, so I was uninsured for the summer months, but it was a weird situation that the university denied, and told us we were supposed to be insured year-round, it was messy.

Both of my parents went to the hospital, and I got sick too. I had to take care of my pets, and myself, and try to stay alive and keep my pets alive when I was so weak I could hardly move. When my parents came home, my condition got dramatically worse (I think my body knew it couldn't give out, because there was nobody to take care of me, so once my parents were okay, it completely crashed and failed.)

I started experiencing emergency symptoms. It was a bit hard to breathe, my chest hurt, and I was extremely delirious. I wanted to call my insurance to see if I was covered (this was during the summer) and I was connected to some nice person, probably making minimum wage, who told me with caution in her voice that my plan was expired. I had no active insurance, but she urged me to go to an emergency room. I remember saying something to the effect of "You just told me I don't have insurance, I can't go to the hospital, I can't afford it."

She sounded so genuinely worried and scared. I remember she said "You really don't sound good, you sound really sick, please call 9-1-1" and I think I just said "I can't afford it without insurance, don't worry, I think I'll be okay."

And she paused and said "I don't want to hang up the phone with you like this." And it sounded like she was holding back tears. And I don't remember what I said, I think that I would be okay, and I hung up.

I still think about her. I wonder if that phone call haunted her, or if she had dozens of calls like that a day. I wonder if she thinks about it at all, if she wonders if I died after she told me I didn't have insurance and therefore couldn't go to the hospital without incurring a tremendous financial burden. I wonder if she feels guilt or blame-- of course she shouldn't, it wouldn't have been her fault if anything had happened to me. Maybe it's self-centered to wonder if she thinks about it. I'm not the main character and it was just her job. But, still.

I think about how evil it was that we were put in that situation. Because offering year-long continuous coverage through the university plan would maybe cut into profits, maybe not benefit shareholders enough, maybe cut into Thompson's $10 million salary. While his minimum wage administrators have to feel afraid to hang up the phone, because on the other line someone might be dying, and they wouldn't know. While his patients hang up and decide to take their chances rather than put their family through that trauma.

This is UnitedHealthcare. This is Brian Thompson's legacy. This is why, understandably, an entire nation is jubilant that he was gunned down like the vermin he was. I don't care about his widow. I feel pity for his children, despite the fact that they will inherit millions, but I feel more pity for the children of his victims patients who are gone because they didn't want THEIR children to inherit crippling debt. Brian Thompson got what he fucking deserved. I pray that he not be the only one. I pray for continued safety, peace , and anonymity for his killer.

American healthcare is a disease.

I absolutely love little asian massage parlors. The ones that seem sketchy, like they might be a rub-and-tug joint. (if you pay attention, you can tell the difference.)

they are not bougie, luxurious spa experiences. oftentimes, they are not even particularly relaxing. but I like a really deep pressure massage. I want to come out of a massage feeling like I just got beaten with a bat, but in a good way. and these ladies will do that.

they beat the shit out of me. I'll be surprised if I don't have bruises tomorrow. I feel amazing.

They're seriously a hidden gem iykyk kind of thing. I love doing the half and half where they soak your feet and do reflexology and then half way through switch to back/full body. I also usually hate anything floral but I love that weird rose scented stuff they all seem to be piping into the room. 10/10 would pay to have an older mandarin speaking lady smack my back and legs around any day and tip her well.

the shooter was pete wentz

I was thinking he looked like Michael Novatny from Queer as Folk. He has a nice smile.

some of yall are too young to know about this, I see.

anyway to get past the paywall?

https://archive.is/V7qwj

You can get past 99% of paywalls by pasting the link into archive.is

Wow a cult of stupid white people really are holding this country hostage …

Now do income.

Forced birthers when you tell them that even women in red states can easily just get the abortion pill mailed to them.

I keep seeing women talking about buying guns now that men are so boldly talking about taking away their rights to bodily autonomy and like. I get it. I really do. But the thought of gun ownership in America massively increasing to use against people the gun owner perceives as a potential rapist when the stereotypical image of a rapist in US culture is so racially defined… you see how that could be an issue?

So, again, I get it. But I’m also worried about how long it’s going to be before a black man is shot dead by a white woman who thought he seemed like a rapist.

I don’t want anyone to be shot dead because of racism, ever. But men of all races kill women of all races with their bare hands every day, not to mention raping us, and there have been cases of American men overtly threatening American women with rape after the election results got announced. It is long past time to start caring about all of that.

Ah yes, women are just too illogical to be trusted with a gun. If she shot him, it's because she only THOUGHT that innocent man LOOKED like a rapist.

You know how women are after all, very easily spooked those womenfolk are. How silly she was for shooting that man completely unprovoked.

women are significantly less likely to commit murder with a gun cause, well, theyre overall less likely to committ a violent crime. and women, yes also white women, voted much less for trump. ergo risk of white womN shooting black man for racist reasons is MUCH much lower than risk of whote man shooting black man for racist reasons

funny how op is still putting the onus on women, how its especially dangerous now that women get guns! nevermind its much more likely a white guy will kill a black guy bc he thought he was trespassing or breaking in or whatever but really why talk about that? its much more important to keep these bitches in their place and do anything we can to stop them from effectively defending themselves!

Stay strapped, ladies. Better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6.

Of the 2906 black victims murdered in the US in 2019, 246 or 8.27%, involved a white perpetrator.

How many of those 246 white people do you think were women?