hi frank, ive kinda been picturing you as a trans girl blogger, is this correct

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I don’t think of myself this way, but I have definitely imagined myself as a trans girl for some reason or other before

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do you have a particular gender label you vibe with more than the other ones?

It’s a mix of “gender is complicated but a bit of this and a bit of that here and there” and “I think there are a lot of different ways of being a woman and this all seems kind of cool but I don’t really get most of it”

i totally get that! :) thanks for sharing!

You’re welcome! Also I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the relationship between self-image and internal experience – whether a person feels “at home” in their gender identity and whether they feel a certain way because it’s what society expects of them, or because it reflects some deep truth about them, or because it suits the social role they’re trying to play – or even whether it’s just one of those things people get wrong

I’m still not sure what’s up with all this. (My current impression is that it’s about the whole notion of the “trans person,” but I’m sure I could be very, very wrong about that.)