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NonbienerFeeder

@nonbienerfeeder

They/them, 20 || I post things here that I steal from everywhere else || hi please pay attention to me || Feeder/partner of @darlingcowmarlee

Since I'm planning on posting a lot more here, I figured I should probably get a pinned post going fjkskss

Hi!! Welcome to my blogggg, my name is Sock, I'm 20 years old now, I'm genderqueer and use mostly they/them pronouns but I'm pretty chill with whatever you call me.

I'm a FA/feeder/inflator, and a switch. I love lighter aspects of bdsm, pretty much everything about petplay, and I adore soft feedism as well!

I'm 6"1' and 170 lbs, so I'm not skinny skinny, but the only thing I'm actively gaining is muscle to contrast against a flabby belly~

Outside of feedism, I'm interested in cooking, Dungeons and Dragons, hiking, and gardening! I have a small garden that I love dearly and I'm excited to expand it this year.

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Enjoy my page! I'll be posting a lot of kink writing, so stick around! I'm absolutely open for requests as well as people just wanting to chat!!

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When we go out, I've started keeping a score of the number of ~fat girl phrases~ you say.

At first it was just how often you asked for food. "I'm hungry again can we stop at a drive-thru?" or "I know we just ate but this place looks sooo good" in your excited, pleading voice. I never say no, and if there isn't a food spot nearby my backpack is full of treats - bags of mini-donuts and chocolate bars and a thermos of heavy cream for you to sip. You make excuses to friends who don't know you spend most days stuffing yourself in our apartment. "I'm just so hungry today I don't know what it is..."

But then we decided to create a little game out of it. With rules to make sure I get to show off how spoiled and dependent you really are.

One point when you ask for food. Two points when you ask me for help in situations where no normal, even marginally fit person would need a hand.

"Can you get that for me?" whenever anything is not within your arm's reach. That's a big rule - you don't move an inch if you don't have to.

"I really need to sit down" if you do have to walk more than a few steps. I'll make sure you get a seat as soon as possible. And when it's time to stand up, I always help you get back on your feet.

But the real prize is ten points when you admit you're too fat for something everyone else takes for granted. "I'm really not built for it" when a friend wants you to get up and dance with them. "I don't walk so far, I'm gonna need to borrow a scooter" when we go to the mall. "My fat ass? Only if we're driving" when we want to grab more munchies from the store down the block. You laugh when you say these things, like it's just a little self-deprecating joke that you've gotten too fat to walk around a store.

It doesn't matter if you really think you're too heavy and out-of-shape to do it. There's a look I give you. A playful look that says "you're fat, you're the fattest person most of us know, go ahead and act like it". And when I give you that look, you know you're playing the role of the girl who got so fat that she can barely stand up on her own. A spoiled and overfed princess who relies on her girlfriend for anything remotely physical. And you love it.

Streaming companies are the landlords of media. You will rent in perpetuity, and never actually own anything.

✨🏴‍☠️ PIRATE AND DOWNLOAD YOUR FAVORITE MEDIA IMMEDIATELY. PIRATE AND DOWNLOAD YOUR FAVORITE MEDIA IMMEDIATELY 🏴‍☠️✨

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2. Add the following extensions: uBlock Origin, AdBlocker Ultimate, Privacy Badger, Privacy Possum, minerBlock (ClearURLs and Don’t track me Google also recommended but not necessary for this)

3. Go forth brave soldier

I really love the caring side of feedism, and I think it's incredibly hot to care for a supersized partner's accessibility needs.

Taking her out to a restaurant or concert and calling ahead to make sure there is seating that can handle her weight and width. Figuring out the logistics of parking, lines, and special passes because she can't stand or walk for very long. Asking for a scooter at the mall or airport. Needing to explain constantly that your wife is simply too big for that, that you love her very much, and that she deserves to be in this space as much as anyone else.

It really hits the sweet spot of doting care that verges on (consensual) enabling, plus the slight thrill of exhibitionism from showing off how much you love this supersized cutie. Hot as hell.

A lot of us fat folks are used to our needs being treated as an afterthought, or just being ignored. In the past I just "sucked it up" and dealt with the physical and mental pain that came from being in spaces that didn't fit my body.

Many of us can struggle with voicing our needs as well. I'm not saying that every feedee needs a feeder to speak for them, but it can help in the beginning stages of learning how to ask for what you need and deserve.

While all of this is undoubtedly hot, it's also validation that my experience as a fat person (and feedee) matters. It feels amazing to have a partner who understands my accessibility needs and cares about my comfort. Even the littlest things can mean so much, and make me feel loved.

I think arts funding should be infinite and easily available to everyone. I think 13 year olds who only draw anime should receive funding to buy giant sets of copic markers and shitty local punk bands should receive funding for instruments and practice spaces and performance artists should receive funding for their weird and nonsensical projects

bestie do you wanna come over and get high and i can swirl my tongue around your nipples for like an hour until you’re panting and dripping through your panties

I'd describe myself as a soft dom overall, but is there such a thing as a hard soft dom?

Because I really wouldn't be able to help cooing about how cute you are and how pretty you look with your legs shaking, and I'd be merciful when your begging reaches just the right pitch, but that doesn't mean I'll stop. I'll just adjust my pace, push you even farther, but slower, deeper, making sure you not only submit to what I need, but crave me taking it from you again and again.

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Please, never let this meme die.

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underlytrashy

This is the best one I’ve seen so far

What kind of quantum fucking memeing from 2056 are you people beaming to us

It’s fucking back

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shooting star. i can’t believe i’m hearing shooting star again in the year 2020

The fates have ordained that this cross my timeline again and you better fucking believe i’m reblogging it.

This is the only good meme, don’t @ me