You release a lot of anxiety when you stop over extending yourself with men. Meaning, when you stop trying so fucking hard to get him to like you, when you relax and let him come to you - your dating life will take on a whole different energy. If you suffer with that pang of anxiety after sending him a message, you're over-extending yourself. You're chasing. And that gut-wrenching feeling in the pit of your stomach, is because you've given more than you are receiving. You've allowed the weighing scales to become imbalanced. You've over-invested. The simple solution right this moment is to step back and relax. Relax in your power. Let him impress you for once, let him pursue you. I promise you, once you start stepping back and letting men step forward, you’ll feel less anxious and more in power.
white people and nonblack poc repeat everything they hear from black people like toddlers
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y'all are worried about a surveillance state all while filming strangers in public for clicks and clout... baby you ARE the surveillance state!
why do people on tik tok move like they're possessed by the Mask
Chore Scorpion: I come from the toughest meanest place you can imagine. I want to be gentle, I want to die gently, but It seems that when life gets hard I have to get harder to match.
🧿✨May every weapon formed against black women never prosper. May every hand raised against black women fall limp and rot.✨🧿
