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You will walk differently alone, dear, through a thicker atmosphere, forcing your way through the shadows of chairs, through the dripping smoke of the funnels. You will feel your own reflection sliding along the eyes of those who look at you. You are no longer insulated; but I suppose you must touch life in order to spring from it.

F. Scott Fitzgerald, Tender Is the Night (via liquidnight)

I thought it was charging, and it died. It took me few minutes to realize what monstrosity had happened.

Anonymous asked:

I'm really sorry to hear that. I'm glad you seem really happy with who you moved on to. Stay golden pony girl.

Happy is an understatement.

Anonymous asked:

What do you do when you never got the chance to say goodbye?

I moved on. That's all I had left to do. It wasn't particularly what I wanted to happen, during that time..but it was what had to happen.

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When You're Out But Your Family Wants You to Stay Closeted

Coming out to your parents can can take a lot of courage, and obviously, every teen who comes out to his or her parents hopes that they will react well.

But some parents, even those who claim to support a gay child, will have an unexpected reaction. One of the most confusing and troubling is when a parent tells a GLBT child not to come out to other family members.Whether you are directly told to keep your sexual orientation a secret, or whether it is pointedly ignored, being expected to keep a core part of who you are a secret just reinforces the idea that it is wrong to be GLBT.

Parents who make this request sometimes try to justify doing so by saying things like, “Well, I understand, but great-aunt Gertrude just would not.

And that might be true, but telling a teen to stay closeted is really asking a lot.

So what can you do? Here are some options:

  • Just be yourself and hope that you don’t get in trouble with your folks.
  • Come out to another family member or adult friend who you think would be supportive and have that person talk to your parents.
  • Explain that being forced to hide who you are isn’t going to change the fact that you are gay. It is just going to put distance between you and your family.
  • Explain to your parents that staying closeted can actually lead to stress, depression and anxiety.

One of the hardest things for teens is that they aren’t yet autonomous people who can live their lives freely. Sometimes this works out fine, but when you and your folks don’t agree about things like being openly gay, it can take a serious toll. But remember you are not alone find help somewhere around you, if your folks don’t agree. 

Source: gayteens.about.com