1. Reading. Reading. Reading. Being well-read is so valuable!! Get cosy, pick up a Jane Austen, Emily Brontë, or maybe a Charles Dickens and spend some of your free time indulging in literature. <3
2. Soft-spoken and kind expressions. No one likes being around rude people. Being a bitch doesn’t make you look confident. Instead, be kind, make conversation, pay attention, engage, etc… trust me.
3. Dainty jewellery. Find some high-quality signature pieces.
4. Think before you speak. Take a moment to reflect on your thoughts so you can speak confidently and with intent without stumbling over your words!! <3 
5. Quality over quantity. Stop buying large amounts of cheap clothing; instead, save up and invest in higher-quality pieces that will actually last you. :)
6. Practice your handwriting. Having pretty and neat handwriting is a lovely little detail; extra points if you write in cursive. ;)
7. Drop the slang words. Bro, cap, sus, drip, rizz, mid… just stop, please.
8. Keep to yourself. Small circle, no bragging, gossips only with the closest, keep your plans to yourself.
9. Watch your posture. Straighten that back, honey. I see you. :))
10. Manicured nails. I do mine every two weeks. Almond-shaped, always dark red. <3

1. Language. Learning a parent language eg German or Spanish or Mandarin will never not come in handy. When you do figure out your career this skill will find a way to be applicable. Let's not forget the networking opportunities plus if there is a foreign aspect to it eg an office abroad guess who will make the list.
2. Dance or music. Mostly classical. This might not apply to your career if it's not in the arts but it connects you to your feminine creative side, is great for your mental health, brings a touch of sophistication to you, the health benefits and oh so impressive. Plus it's music sis. Music solves everything.
3. Crafts(wo)manship. We are talking knitting, pottery, crotchetting, couture, etc. One, hobby. Two, Etsy. Three, sophistication. Four, femininity. Five, you'll give the best gifts over Christmas, trust me.
4. Swimming, driving, flight, etc. I am 100% convinced swimming and driving are basic life skills. Will there ever be a day in your life when you'll regret that you can drive? Or swim? Unless you're angling for driver it might not contribute to your career but it will to your life.if you can get a flight license do that. If you can get a motorcycle license do just that. Even if it's a hot air balloon, do just that. You can not convince me swimming is not a life skill I am literally surprised by people that can't swim. Never been in a flood huh.
5. Social skills. The thing about social skills is that they are, drumroll, SKILLS. Skills are not inborn, they are learned and we live in the era of Robert Greene and Genie Sayles and Dale Carnegie and free online courses and if there is one set of skills that's the backbone of everything its this one. There is no time having social skills will not help. Not professionally. Not socially. Not even in your family. Or friends. Whatever your life purpose is, you will need social skills. Communication is the key to EVERYTHING.
6. "Health" related skills. I'm talking gut health, get a first aid certification, learn herbs and holistic methods and reiki and yoga and all that. Your wellbeing shouldn't even be a choice honestly. Is there one time being at prime health will Not come in handy? No. Till you figure stuff out learn the right foods, learn to heal your gut, learn quick first aid tips, learn how your body works, learn female reproductive health, learn evolutionary psychology- stack up on the health.if your community has traditional healing methods learn that. Especially those of us that want to be moms? You'll need this so bad.
7. Fashion, styling, beauty. Because we are women and let's be honest , it's much easier and better when you finally learn to style yourself and express yourself through your clothing & make up &c &c and do what's good for your skin and hair and- you get it. Is there a day you will not need to dress? No? There you go
8. Financial education. Now if I need to explain this to you please meet me out back I just wanna talk

I. M. Panayotopoulos, tr. by Kimon Friar, Modern Greek Poetry; "The Frozen Moon"

• Be a bit delulu... Believe in yourself; every goal you set yourself is archivable!! ;)
• Challenging/tedious tasks first!! Get them out of the way!! ew!!
• Visualise your goals!! What do you want to archive? How will you feel when you reach your goal? Write everything down, and make a cute vision card on Pinterest. Always helps me stay motivated <33
• Make the most of your time. Got some free extra minutes? Start working on something from your to-do list!! :)
• Organise your space. Being in a comfortable and inviting environment is so so important to be able to focus properly. Some scented candles, a cute bookshelf, some pictures…
• Plan ahead, make a simple to-do list (no more than 7 points)
• Fix your sleep schedule… I'm still working on this myself… once I figure out how I'll definitely make a little guide lol…
• Take breaks, especially when studying. Exercise is perfect for relaxing your mind; if you don't love working out - like me... lol - going on a walk is a great option too!! <33
• Be aware of procrastination… are you procrastinating right now..?
• Reward yourself!! Spend some time taking care of yourself, invest time in your hobbies, eat your favourite meal, or get yourself a nice coffee… small things that make you feel good :)

• Reading while cuddled up in soft blankets
• Becoming addicted to tea again (I know I'm not the only one…)
• Cute layered outfits with cosy knit sweaters and big scarfs
• Foggy and gloomy mornings <3
• Studying while listening to classical music
• Switching from yoghurt bowl to oatmeal for breakfast
• Collecting pretty dead leaves and putting them in your diary as a little memory
• Adding cinnamon to your coffee again and making hot chocolate
• Baking cinnamon rolls with friends (or at least trying to...lol)
• Seeing the first leaves change colour
• Buying cute stationery for the new semester
• Maroon nails and lips (the girls that get it, get it.)
• Reading at night, all cuddled up while it's raining outside
• Cinnamon or vanilla-scented candles
• Spending hours at cosy bookstores and reading poetry
• Soup season. SOUP SEASON.
• opening the windows in the morning and letting the cool autumn air inside
• Rewatching Gilmore Girls and dressing like Rory (same thing every year, let's be real here…)
• Being a cosy girl doing cosy things <3

• organize by categories.

• 10 minutes of exercise every day
• 30 minutes of walking every day
• drink a lot more water
• start eating consciously

• do massage with the quartz roller and gua sha
• make an appointment for nails, hairdresser, spa, eyelashes or even go to a coffee shop with yourself.
• use a face mask and hair mask

• read 10 pages a day
• listen to personal growth podcasts or audiobooks (choose one and listen to it all week long)
• choose an affirmation and write it down every day
• record in a diary or an app your mood and what you did during the day.
• create a to-do list of what you will do for the day (the night before)
• choose a video of affirmations and listen to it every day at a time that suits you best

• study about what you are studying or training for.
• dedicate e.g. 20-30 minutes each day to study or review.
• study a new language, 15 minutes a day, 5 days a week.

• 1 - 2 hours to what you enjoy doing (depends on the day and your schedule)

• drinking soda or alcoholic beverages > drinking a lot more water and starting to drink natural juices.
• watch a lot of series on netflix (or any streaming platform) > read or listen to podcasts/audiobooks that nourish my mind.
• overthinking, worrying > meditating for about 5 minutes
• lying in bed without doing anything > organizing my room
• think in negative > think about the things you would like to happen to you

• write in your diary how you would act, be and what habits your best version would have. this will give you clarity about what you want and you will feel closer to that because you will know how to act.
• establish small habits to start with and take it as a kind of game or test during this week. don't push yourself too hard.
• at times when you don't know how to act or react, think about how your best version would act and what it would do.
• write down things you are proud of or would like to be proud of.
• if you are easily distracted or do not know what to do at any given moment, set alarms to know what to do at that moment.
• if you use social media a lot, set a limit of use.
• choose habits that you know you will be able to do easily, that will make you gain confidence and little by little establish those habits in which you have procrastinated or which are more difficult for you.
• think big, open yourself to the possibilities that life offers you every day and keep a positive attitude towards any situation.

• Write them a cute letter.
• Carefully listen to what they are saying and ask genuine questions.
• Wait for them if you notice them falling behind.
• Ask them how their day was. <3
• Show them your favourite songs, films, and books.
• “I miss you”, “I love you, “I’m thinking about you”.
• Bake them something. Like the heart jam cookies from Pinterest (should I post the recipe??)
• Make them a playlist. :)
• If they get interrupted, ask what they were going to say.
• Remember their favourite coffee/drink order.
• Offer them encouragement and support.
• Surprise them with a small gift, something that made you think of them.
• Buy them flowers.
• Send them links to stuff that you think they might like.
• Let them know how grateful you are to have them in your life. <3

• It's about you; you are the main character of your life.
• Sometimes you need to get uncomfortable to get comfortable.
• People who get angry at you for putting yourself first are the same people who benefit from you putting yourself last
• You are allowed to say, "Nah, that's not good enough."
• Stop wasting energy that you can use to become your best version.
• Becoming selfish is the best thing I ever did.
• I can make myself fulfilled, and whatever he gives me is just an extra.
• Start now with what you have.
• Enough crying, enough being sad, enough saying "tomorrow".
• Sometimes you lose people that are not meant to be with the highest version of yourself, and you have to let those people go.
• You vs. you, honey.
• Some people just don't deserve you. Not mentally, physically or spiritually.
• I don't argue with people because most of them are stupid.
• People don't really care what happened to you or what you went through. They really care about what you can do for them.
• Only here to impress myself.
• When a Queen does not like her situation, she plans her exit.
• Manifesting is a lifestyle.
• The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself.
• I started prioritising my own needs and wants; whatever I want goes first. That's it; I do not care anymore.