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Nani?Wear

@naniwear / naniwear.tumblr.com

We are a husband & wife team who started Nani?Wear after we realized there was no one making anime goodies. So, we started to make them ourselves. For the fans, by the fans, is our motto. Visit us at our Etsy shop: naniwear.etsy.com, or our webstore: www.naniwear.com
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writer: this is one of my male characters! he cares about his guy friends and loves them deeply.

tumblr: oh! so he’s gay!

writer: uh…no, he’s attracted to women.

tumblr: ….so he’s bi!

writer: uhh…no…….he loves his guy friends but he’s not romantically/sexually attracted to them.

tumblr: ….so you’re homophobic.

writer:

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Healthy male friendships are almost as rare in mainstream fiction as gay male relationships, and maybe more rare in fanfiction. Let men be wonderful friends without pushing a romantic relationship, just like men and women should be able to be wonderful friends without the pressure of a romantic relationship.

*AGGRESSIVELY SLAMS REBLOG UNTIL I DIE*

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naniwear

That is _literally_ the best use of a Ben gif

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It’s ok to not like the holidays. It’s ok to be depressed. It’s ok to just want to hide away and ignore it all. Just breathe and take one minute at a time. <3

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the fact that denethor is more universally hated by tolkien fans than not one, but two malevolent deities whose cruelty and atrocities committed span four entire ages really says a lot about how truly awful this guy is

It’s pretty much the same reason Harry Potter fans hate Professor Umbridge more than they hate Voldemort or any of his Death Eaters. None of us have had to face genocidal would-be demigods, but many of us have had to deal with sadistic, control-freak bureaucrats, bosses and teachers at some point in our lives.

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naniwear

*cough* Mitch McConnell *cough*

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yors

Jon Snow in Game of Thrones 7x05 “Eastwatch” (2017) | | Hiccup Horrendous Haddock III in How To Train Your Dragon (2010)

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It is not Christmas until...

Bill Murray talks about the miracle of Christmas Eve

Colin Firth proposes marriage in very bad Portuguese

David Niven reads a Cary Grant written sermon

Tonight I want to tell you the story of an empty stocking. Once upon a midnight clear, there was a child’s cry, a blazing star hung over a stable, and wise men came with birthday gifts. We haven’t forgotten that night down the centuries. We celebrate it with stars on Christmas trees, with the sound of bells, and with gifts. But especially with gifts. You give me a book, I give you a tie. Aunt Martha has always wanted an orange squeezer and Uncle Henry can do with a new pipe. For we forget nobody, adult or child. All the stockings are filled, all that is, except one. And we have even forgotten to hang it up. The stocking for the child born in a manger. Its his birthday we’re celebrating. Don’t let us ever forget that. Let us ask ourselves what He would wish for most. And then, let each put in his share, loving kindness, warm hearts, and a stretched out hand of tolerance. All the shinning gifts that make peace on earth.

And of course we here those most Christmas of all words:

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naniwear

Die Hard is best Christmas movie. Fight me!

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when my dad’s been an bitch he ‘apologizes’ by bringing me coffee in the morning, and i respond by letting it get cold & gross & accumulate for days. the most cups i’ve gotten in a row before he cleans them up is 4

i don’t like coffee

Also… i wasnt gonna interact with this post, but I looked at the notes (And the last tags Gaud put here) and… ya that’s not how you apologize. You apologize with words not by buying someone’s forgiveness with coffee. This is not an apology. It’s a guilt trip. It’s a “see you can’t be mad at me I do things for you”. this is the kind of behaviour that made me distrust my mother.

And to expend on the tags: I have parents who never actually paid attention to how my taste in things changed as I grew up. As a result they still tease/bully me over things I used to do as a kid. How I was picky as a kid and they never noticed when I started to actually eat a variety of things. I’m pretty sure they still think I don’t like sauce on my spaghetti or that I’ll only eat very specific cuts of meat, or that I still don’t eat broccoli. I’m pretty sure that they forgot that I told them that I’m queer and I litterally told them this summer. So ya… miss me with the “I’m sorry for your dad” shit.

Sorry gaud for highjacking your simple post. It just hit kinda close to home and seeing people try to make it seem like you’re being too petty really got to me.

This is not an apology. It’s a guilt trip. 

We had a motivational speaker talk to us on Thursday to talk specifically about something he calls TNTs (or Tiny Noticeable Things) and to demonstrate he told us a story of a lady who is on the board for an international bank.

She told him a story of how a earlier on in her career she was in a team of two, working closely with this guy to travel all over the world, talking to clients and establishing connections. For nearly 4 years, every week they’d spend 3-4 nights a week in a hotel somewhere, seeing more of each other than their friends or family.

One day she hears a rumour on an office water cooler breeze… her teammate is leaving for greener pastures. She thinks nothing of it because if he is he will tell her.

Sure enough, a few weeks later, he knocks on her door. He knocks with one hand, as his other hand is holding something behind him.

He comes in and he says hey.

He says I know you’ve heard. He says it’s true.

He says he has grown so fond of her. He says two people must have such a special connection, if they are able to spend 4 years in each others’ hair and still feel able to do 4 more. He says she inspires him, she is going to move the world, he’s sure.

He says he couldn’t have asked for a better partner for this job.

So as a goodbye gesture, he pulls out from behind his back a beautiful huge vintage bottle of champagne. They bid each other good luck and he leaves her office.

She looks down at the bottle in her hands.

“And that’s when I burst into tears.” She said to the motivational speaker.

“Is it because you were so overwhelmed by the kind gesture?”

“No…

“He’d been so close to me for 4 years.

“And never noticed once that I don’t drink.”

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naniwear

It’s a form of emotional abuse. Abusers do that, and it becomes a cycle. They think they doing something “nice” makes everything better. They never actually apologize, but it assuages their guilt, and think it gives them license to do it again.

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Portraits of several of the female Buddhist donors depicted in the famous Dunhuang Murals from the Mogao Caves of China, by Chinese artist -阿舍-. The women are wearing traditional Chinese hanfu, jewelry, and makeup. (X)  

Portraits 1-5: Cave 61 (Five Dynasties 907-960 AD). This cave was dedicated by the family of Cao Yuanzhong, military governor of the Guiyijun regime. The portraits depict the women of the Cao family.

Portrait 6: Cave 9 (Late Tang Dynasty 875-907 AD). The portrait depicts Lady He.

Portraits 7-9: Cave 130 (High Tang Dynasty 705-781 AD). This cave was dedicated by the family of Le Tinghuan, Satrap of Jinchang Prefecture. The portraits depict his wife Lady Wang (7) and their two daughters (8 & 9). 

Source: weibo.com
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Therese Patricia Okoumou. Patriot.

UPDATE December 6,2018 @odinsblog

It is a very rare thing for me to disagree so hard with a progressive Black woman, but Therese Patricia Okoumou IS a hero. And she certainly did not let anyone down. Fighting for young children who were being caged and separated from their parents is never ever the wrong thing to do. What she did—resisting Trump and publicly speaking truth to power—required great courage. Okoumou is a hero and an activist. A social justice warrior in the truest sense of the word.

After repeatedly reaching out to the mainstream media and asking them to continue covering her story, she is being ignored by them now. But remember: they were happy to use her when she was the hot story and good for ratings. Now they apparently cannot be bothered to interview her, or call out the injustice of her impending imprisonment. (#WhiteFeminism)

If anyone knows of any lawyer or anyone who might be able to help Therese Patricia Okoumou with her appeals process, please reach out to her on her Twitter account.

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atesan
Another Night Fury. It’s more like a Bright Fury. A Light Fury. Yeah, yours is better, probably.
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Women of Steel

deep, heavy breathing

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nudiemuse

Give me armour and let me kill some shit.

pay special attention to the lack of boob cups and thank you

Oh look, no plate or chain mail bikinis

Looking at these pictures for more than 30 seconds will cause Tamora Pierce novels to physically manifest somewhere in your home.

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“[…] My character [Bucky] made a huge step as we’ve seen, being in Wakanda and sort of having his life back, suddenly, he was at war again, with a raccoon […]”
Sebastian Stan @ CCXP2018 panel (December 8th, 2018)