White people are always tryna complicate family relationships. Twice removed third cousin blah blah blah. If we’re related and you aren’t my sibling then you’re my auntie, uncle or cousin it’s that simple
Going to the family functions any kid that was the same age as you was your cousin like that's just how it is. I remember talking about one of my aunts and the white person was like oh ur mom or ur dad's sister. And I said neither family friend and she got mad???? She was like "well then you can't call her aunt what if there's an emergency and people think you're blood related??" NIGGA AND????? All this stress for what 😭
And it's also white people that'll say your cousin having a kid is still your cousin and not your niece or nephew I hate that shit
Or they don’t include people that married into the family as family. Like my uncle’s wife is my aunt. Their children are my cousins even if they aren’t my uncle’s biological kids. Family is family it’s so simple
White people want us all to adopt the nuclear family as law because they have no real community outside of racism.
And they HATE recognize adoption ESPECIALLY with how Black people do it. My Granny says she has 17 kids because she gave birth to 12 and the other 5 was either her sister's/ bestfriend's/ community kids. There was no ' foster care/law adoption', she raised them because shit happen and they needed a parent and now all their kids are my cousins.
White girls at my school were so confused or frustrated when I said I couldn't date any Black guys at school because literally they are all my cousins.
When one of them asked me "Is it by blood tho?" I knew I had to leave this fucking Backyard Boonies ass town.












