Taylor

fuck everyone who has ever tried to make me feel guilty about the amount of sugar in FRUIT

I think that 2023 is a good time for many of us, and allies in particular, to practice again the dying art of minding our own fucking business when it comes to the identities and lives of other people.

You see someone from one of your classes in a public place with a different gender presentation/expression than they typically have? Mind your own business.

You discover that one of your coworkers is in a same gender relationship, but they aren't out at work? Not your place to share that information in the workplace.

You notice that your neighbor in a red state takes a road trip across state lines with their transgender child every 3-6 months? No you fucking didn't.

You overhear students in your classroom using a different name and different pronouns for one student than you are used to using? If you live in a state hostile to trans rights, pretend that you don't know anything about this and report nothing.

You suspect that an acquaintance of yours might be gay, but they deny it when asked directly? Leave them the fuck alone.

One of your friends refuses to publicly label their sexuality? Good for them, you aren't entitled to that information anyway.

Your sibling comes out to you as questioning, but isn't comfortable sharing that with your parents yet? Keep your fucking mouth shut.

Don't out people; coming out is a personal choice not a moral obligation. Don't demand personal information about other people's sexuality or sex lives. You aren't entitled to information about anyone's gender identity, assigned gender at birth, or transition.

Bring back privacy, allow people to have control over the information that is shared about them publicly; it might save their job, their housing, their parental rights and their child's safety, or even save lives.

I was gunna put this in the tags but it’s a lot. When i first started going through the process of getting a diagnosis, i was labelled with ODD. I immediately took issue with this, it seemed like an unfair diagnosis based entirely on the session the psychiatrist had with my parents (which mostly consisted of “my child is being really difficult on purpose”), and Hoo Boy when i tell you ODD immediately strips you of your ability to call out anyone on anything, that would be an understatement. I couldn’t even disagree or bring up my concerns about the validity of MY OWN DIAGNOSIS without it being labelled as oppositional defiance. Whenever i displayed any negative emotion the “treatments” did so much more harm than good. When you label someone as ‘defiant’ (ugh), when that word is put on their medical record, that person is never allowed to complain about anything again. Knowing that POC are disproportionately affected with this diagnosis makes me feel sick, i can only imagine what’s being swept under the rug as someone just being “defiant to authority”, not even just in the medical field but as justification for police brutality and mass incarceration. When i say medical racism kills people, this is what i mean.

this is so fucking important. reblog.

flat fuck friday

you know what day it is

queued this because I did NOT want to miss another Flat Fuck Friday

Hello So yesterday I broke my wheelchair when head and home from therapy and I need a new one so I made this go fund me so please check it out. If you don't know, wheelchairs cost a lot of money on the cheap end for a decent one It's like 500$ and for 1 I could actually use long term. Wood cost me a little over a 1000. I don't have Insurance. And I am not able to get a doctor to give me a note if I could my lawyer would cover the cost. But I no longer have a family doctor and walking doctors won't do it. This is the link, please consider checking it out or at least sharing.

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Infighting only helps our oppressors.

Infighting only helps our oppressors.

Infighting only helps our oppressors.

Infighting only helps our oppressors.

Infighting only helps our oppressors.

You don't have to understand someone completely to respect them and fight for their right to exist.

reblog for something t4t to happen to you this summer.

queer as in gay but also queer as in unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Abed in his bi pride flag jacket ❤💜💙. That is all.

rolling around in the grass

Reblog this if you’re polyamorous, searching for a cryptid, trying to communicate with demons, willing to throw a Molotov cocktail at a police car, really want more tattoos/piercings, or just really love nonbinary people.

No one will ever know which one 👀

god i love being gay and hot

you don’t have to define your relationship if you don’t want to. you’re allowed to simply enjoy being with another person. it doesn’t always need a label, and it’s okay if the exact nature and workings of your companionship escapes definition. it’s beautiful in fact

for some reason the most romantic thing i can think of is someone saying your name. the way it’s supposed to be said. early in the morning. late at night. mouth full of food. a whisper. in sob. in laughter. stuttering. idk there’s something about it that means more to me.

my green flags <3

the masculine urge to call your boyfriend gay after he says anything nice to you

I am but a small crow who picks flowers for my lover with my beak.

When I say someone takes my breath away it’s not a joke I literally lose all the air in my lungs when I see a pretty boy

What if we made Victorian eye lockets for each other 😳