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Don't know who I am or what I want but I'm here, I'm old, and I post everything I like on one blog bc who needs organization?

truly possessed with envy any time i drive by someone sitting on their porch with a beverage

made this post bc I saw a fat man with a mustache zonked out in a rocking chair and it made me so jealous that I almost threw up

yeah yeah yeah mortifying ordeal of being known and all that but sometimes a friend mentions something about you that you didn’t think was noticeable and it feels like your heart is being cradled in their hands

When I think about American attitudes to parenting there's something that always comes to mind, but I don't know whether it's a real thing. All my life in American films and TV I've heard child characters addressing their dads as "sir" or being told off for not doing so.

Is that really a commonplace thing in American families, or is it just a shorthand way of showing that the character is a shitty dad?

There's still time to increase the sample size!

"average cat owner spends 3 years in prison" factoid actualy just statistical error. average owner spends 0 years in prison. Miette's mother, who kicked her body like the football and went to jail for One Thousand Years is an outlier adn should not have been counted

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21. Jerry Dandrige - Fright Night

You don’t have to be afraid of me. I know what it’s like being different. Only they won’t pick on you anymore… or beat you up. I’ll see to that. All you have to do is take my hand.

Reward yourself when you do something you needed to do.

Tell yourself “good job” after you’ve brushed your teeth. Say “great work!” when you’ve eaten a meal.

Maybe even find a more tangible reward for yourself, if you need to. For me, I eat a jelly bean after I’ve cleaned something. Or I’ll play a video game after I’ve done a needed task. Find what works for your brain.

I don’t care how small of a task it was.

You did something that needed to be done.

Great work! Amazing! You’re awesome! And you deserve those good good brain chemicals for doing it, so get those however you need. Whether it’s just a few positive words or a nice little treat for yourself. You deserve it.