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Music cannot save the world but your soul.

@musicismybestfriend19

Here you can read all my thoughts, good quotations and lyrics.
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Eine starke Beziehung lebt nicht nur durch ein einfaches ,,Ich liebe dich‘‘ . Sie lebt durch aufrichtige Taten. Sie lebt durch Charakter. Sie lebt durch Energie! Ein Auto fährt auch nicht mit Luft, sondern mit Treibstoff. Was ich dir damit sagen will: Hörst du damit auf, in eine Beziehung zu investieren, sie mit ,,Treibstoff‘‘ (Energie, Zeit & Liebe) zu füllen, wird sie früher oder später stehen bleiben. Einige hören bereits nach wenigen Wochen damit auf dich Mühe um ihren Partner zu geben. Sie hören damit auf, ihre gemeinsamen Ziele zu verfolgen. Sie hören damit auf, ihre gemeinsame Zukunft zu gestalten. Sie hören damit auf, Dinge zu tun, die anfangs nötig waren, um sich gegenseitig zu erobern. Eigentlich mehr als traurig.

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Can we talk about the really toxic idea that the only true heartbreak is romantic in nature? Because let me tell you, having just had to say goodbye to my closest friends in the entire world, platonic friendships mean just as much and can hurt just as much when they end or change as romantic relationships can.

So how about we stop undermining how important friendships are to everybody, no matter how many or for how long they’ve lasted or the distance between them. Friendships are more than just support for romantic relationships.

There is more than one kind of love and none of them are any better or stronger or more important than any other. The whole thing with love is that it matters and it affects you- familial, platonic, romantic or other- so saying one has more of an impact on an individual is ignoring these other amazing connections and bonds that we as humans make.

Feeling as or more sad and emotional about losing friends as partners is entirely normal and healthy, so we need to put a halt to the idea that broken hearts are only ever romantic when in reality losing people just hurts, no matter who they are to you, and it doesn’t make it less valid just because you weren’t dating them.

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When you grow older you come to value constancy more than intensity or so I have found in my friendships. There are people I have met, given my heart to and with who I have experienced great joys but sadly not for long. The relationship cooled, they lost interest or maybe it was too much work to stay in touch. This busy life, I understand, tends to rob us of our time and hence relationships die. Still I wish them well for who am I to judge and the memories of however brief our time together I will cherish though sometimes it makes me sad but I confess it’s the ones that have stood the test of time that I value the most . People I might not talk to for weeks and yet there is always the reaching out, the unexpected phone call or the quiet inquiry in my inbox. They care enough to take that first step, to remember they exist in my heart always, regardless of distance or of the last time we spoke. People who value me and who think it is worth their while to have me in their lives. I confess they are a rare find but I treasure them all that much more.

e.v.e. ( Friendship)

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“A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.”

William Shakespeare (via shauntaylor)

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On lonely nights, I gaze up at the moon hoping that you are too. Despite the distance of oceans and all the cities in between, our souls remain connected.

C.H. (via hopefulsky)

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“You can’t rely on anyone.” She shrugs and flicks the ash off her burning cigarette. “Even the people you trust most in the world will let you down at some point. Maybe not in a big way to them but your heart will sink to the pit of your stomach and it’ll stay there forever. You’ll never forget that feeling.” She purses her lips and takes a drag, then she looks at me. Her eyes bright with pain as smoke drifts from between of her berry stained lips. “So, save yourself the trouble and have your own back. Because no one is going to come along and save you when things go wrong. You have to stand on your own two feet and save yourself.”

Excerpt from the book I’ll never write (via shewriteslikeshebreathes)