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hello. welcome to the music box inside my head.

@musicboxwaltz / musicboxwaltz.tumblr.com

wouldn't you love to know?
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Hi can we talk about Sam smiths tattoo???

A boy in his underwear and high heels staring at himself in the mirror...? Hello???

Why are these men all the same?! Time and time again it’s always the same pedophilic, perverted, OBSESSION with a boy in women’s clothing. absolutely gross.

It's already ugly but I just feel like it's gonna look like a truly shitty tattoo in less than a decade, and that's the only upside here.

pedophiles running wild.

this is their dreamland reality.

#WakeTheFuckUp and #SpeakOut

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Literally when have trans people been more welcomed in their families than cis gay people? Stop believing in outrageous narratives, like parents accepting a trans kid more than a gay kid, that have no basis in reality. Trans teenagers get kicked out every single day and struggle with housing insecurity

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ive never said they don’t get blowback or dont get thrown out but ive seen several trans people saying they were rejected when they were cis for being gay but when they came out as trans their families had no problem with it cus it would make them straight which fits the parents heterosexist and heteronormative desire for their kids to be straight.

you want proof of that but at the same you’re implying gay people get more acceptance from their families for being gay rather than trans which is just not true and dishonest and what basis does it have in our reality.

What makes you think im believing things that dont exist according to you when I’ve seen them happen fool.

Gay people get kicked out every single day and struggle with housing even more cus lgbtq housing tend to reject them under the basis that they are gay/bi men. Like what empowers you to come on my page and send me this bullshlt and try tell how i should think and tell me what ive seen isnt true just because you dont like it or dont agree with it and then have the audacity to bring up the basis it has in our reality, bltch you cant even recognize reality when its in front of you dummy.

Yall stay tryin to quantify and qualify everything just in order to be seen as more deserving of being seen as oppressed like its something positive to achieve rather than follow the reality which already tells you you are.

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Remember that reddit story I found where that exact thing happened? Like right in the post the op talked about how his MtF husband was supported more by his family because “at least you won’t be gay”

I was also linked an article by the MtF husband themself, written years earlier when he still identified as a gay man, in which he talks about the homophobia he suffered and how his family disowned him when he came out. I’ve discussed Jazz Jennings and how their parents supported childhood crushes on boys because they saw Jazz as a girl. Truly ask yourself if they would have done the same if, at that same age, Jazz simply identified as a gay boy? When was the last time you’ve seen “gay kids” celebrated and protected the way “trans kids” are? Hell, Jazz’s parents wouldn’t even let him wear a dress until they had transitioned him. During regression therapy Jazz dreamed they were a gay man still ‘hungry to be accepted’. What about trans ally of the year, Cher, who kicked her daughter out when she was a lesbian but accepted her trans man “son”? And what about stuff like this?

And the fact that there are religious institutions that will help fund some people’s transition…gotta wonder what the true motives are there. Have they helped anyone who was opposite-sex attracted or only the ones they see as sinners due to their same sex attraction? Why are so many of the “trans kids” we’ve been hearing about coming from religious households? Speaking of the Christian faith, I have personal experience in knowing that a lot of them would sooner accept trans people than gay people, since I was also raised in that faith and saw this first-hand. The thought process was basically that being gay was a choice that dirty perverts made of their own accord, but trans people can’t help being born in the wrong body. Being trans was seen more like a disability and many people were sympathetic, believing trans people should be able to transition for a fair chance to be ‘normal’. We weren’t even really aware of heterosexual (opposite sex attracted) trans people back then. This is not an unusual thought process in other religions, too. Lest we forget Iran’s pension for transitioning homosexuals, with the alternative being jail or death. And Iran is not the only country where homosexuality/gay marriage is unlawful but allows change of legal gender identity.

Hating gay people/preferring trans people has even been observed in the “religion” of gender. 

In so-called “progressive” spaces, homophobia is still astonishingly rampant (though often masked with terms like ‘cis’) while anything that can be construed as even slightly transphobic is very quickly and forcibly shut down. All this to say that, sure, trans people don’t always have it easy. And yet, a lot of what we consider “transphobia” is either homophobia or just general hatred of GNC people whether they identify as trans or not (often still a form of homophobia). Heterosexual (opposite sex attracted) MtFs still receive a lot of male privilege despite being trans, and it’s not like your average nonbinary is at high risk for being hate crimed in the street. Remember that most transphobic violence in the world is leveraged against homosexual prostitutes, often because their ‘buyer’ discovered that they aren’t actually female at some point during the encounter.

You say this view point has no “basis in reality” and yet we don’t have to look very far to see it at all. Even right-wing-leaning new sites can see it. Homosexuality is often treated as a symptom for transness. Listen to detransitioners’ stories about how all they had to do was mention their same sex attraction to get almost immediate access to cross-sex hormones. A bit fishy when similar hormones were given to gay people in the not-so distant past in hopes of “curing” them….and what of all those studies they used to include in the Standards of Care document about how “most kids with dysphoria” grow out of it?

It’s clear that societies that hold tightly to their gender roles are more likely to accept trans people or additional gender categories, even if begrudgingly, if the only alternative is that person remains gay and GNC. And while I’m sure there are some individual examples of people begging their kids to just “stay gay” rather than be trans, even those cases seem disproportionately low when considering the monetary costs and health risks associated with transition. You’d think way more parents would be hesitant. Often times when I do come across stories of such parents they are either 1) gay themselves or 2) their kid isn’t. Just some food for thought.

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my favourite instagram account is "wheredoesthepeecomeout" and it's run by a girl who asks men on tinder where cis women pee from and then documents their answers

some highlights:

everybody sit down we have a winner

STOP CALLING WOMEN CIS WOMEN..

WOMEN ARE WOMEN.

thats it. nothing more nothing less.

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it makes me so sad that a huge amount of female mainstream singers are unbearable to listen to because sex is what sells. their writers, their directors, their clothing designers, their music labels just degrade them to fucking sex dolls and because liberal feminism, these women are just going “now men wanna have sex with me, that means i have the power!….right?” at least back int he 90′s and even early 2000′s we were ‘allowed’ to criticise this shit but now we get called “anti feminist”. what the fuck is anti feminist about criticising societal structures where the only way women can make good money or be famous is to indirectly or directly sell their bodies??? and women do it because it gives them validation, and because it makes them feel superficially good, it’s immune from criticism? men’s dicks do truly rule the world.

It’s not a coincidence that all female pop stars “choose” to wear heels, bodysuits, mini skirts and short shorts, bejeweled bras, body paint, etc. etc. etc. It’s not a coincidence that they all wear makeup (shoutout to Alicia Keys for being the ONE exception). I think some female mainstream singers are really wonderful but I’m sad that they seem to be given a uniform, and the uniform code is “show as much skin as possible at all times.” Why can’t they just be singers?

Forever thinking about that picture from a couple years back of Beyonce and like Ed fucking Sheerdan or whatever where he looks like a college douchebag who rolled out of a bed in some dirty jeans and a shirt while Beyonce is decked head to toe, full hair curled full face makeup highlighter lipstick ect, whole body shaved and wearing this over the top ballgown like….women aren’t allowed to just Be. The closest example I can think of nowadays is maaaaaybe Billie E? Or maybe a little older Missy Elliot.

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And here’s Jennifer Lopez’s new album cover:

Can you imagine any male pop singer pose like that? And on their album cover no less? 

I think a lot of it has to do with the influence of pornography. The pimp industry and the entertainment industry have merged a while ago. So now the women are dressed and told to dance like strippers, they are mimicking sex acts and positions so that the men watching can picture themselves fucking them. 

Not to be a dick but I feel like some of these pop stars just aren’t talented enough musically so this is how they make up for it. I do agree though that it makes them unlistenable.

I’d like songs as well that are more complex and aren’t just about self-gratification and adhering to our base needs. There’s more to human life than screwing like a horny pig.

There is that.

It didn’t use to be like this. So many women were giants in the music industry. Nina Simone, Aretha Franklin, Amy Winehouse, all of them sang beautifully about real life and its issues. Now it’s just garish displays of sexuality

this post is not for your christian morality fapping, it’s about female oppression  and the fact that women are unable to be famous now without objectifying themselves, with the clear cause and implication being porn culture, as well as how the male led free love movement invaded feminism in the 90′s and turned it on it’s head to pander to males. fuck off. jerking off with one hand and pointing with the other. 

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Last week, an anti-transgender lesbian told me I couldn’t call myself a “dyke.” I’m not sure if it’s because I’m not exclusively attracted to women or if it’s that I’m a trans woman. Either way, this word is a reclaimed slur for anyone who’s a woman attracted to women (and usually those who dress along the masculine spectrum). I’m trans, queer, and attracted to multiple genders. That doesn’t negate my womanhood or attraction to women. 

Here’s some history for you: “dyke” emerged as a term in the mid 19th century to describe a well-dressed man. The term took on the original pejorative meaning as “bullydyke” in the late 1920’s following its coinage. However, by the 1970’s the term was widely reclaimed. Publications like the Women’s Press Collective encouraged the use of dyke to make it our own. I should also note that most of the members of the WPC supported trans women themselves. 

By the late 1970’s, the community dropped “bull” from the term. It quickly gained new popularity with the Alison Bechdel (another lesbian who supports trans women) comic “Dykes to Watch Out For” in 1983. Finally, “dyke” entered the mainstream as the first national Dyke March took place in Washington, D.C. in 1993. Held without a permit, it was organized by the Lesbian Avengers, a trans-inclusive group of radical women who loved women. They took part in direct actions around the country for decades. Many of the members did not identify as lesbians but instead as transgender, bisexual, or pansexual among other identities. Dyke is meant to include any woman who is attracted to women. To claim otherwise is not only inaccurate but also ahistorical.

no its not lmao.

the amount of entitled kids on tumblr who think they can rewrite history is hilarious. sit your ass down.

Dyke: Woman loving woman. That’s it. No man can call himself a dyke you shitbrain.

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I made a post about this yesterday, and I didn’t expect to get this much done so quickly, but I’ve made a google docs document with as many sourced radical feminist arguments as I can find. I’m going to keep updating it as I come across more, but I’ve added quite a lot already so I figured I’d share the link now, so here it is: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1-i6zYkIbnHqljJ6kw0aIlJu3qX_fsRSl6GOgnB1knbQ/edit

I went through all of the links to make sure they worked, but I might have missed some so if anyone finds any broken links, please let me know and I can find a replacement for it. Also, if you know of any posts you think should be added to this, you can add the link under this post or tag me in the post so that I can add it in.

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[See the Read-First Introduction before proceeding]

CENSORED BY TRANSPOLITICS: A MASTERPOST

                                                    TIER 1

MURDER OF PEOPLE WHO QUESTION TRANSGENDER PEOPLE/IDEOLOGY

  1. Psychotherapist Rita Powers murdered by her patient, a transwoman, because Powers didn’t think he was an appropriate candidate for sex reassignment surgery Note, in the link, that the transgender community blamed Powers for being murdered, saying that if she had just given her patient what he wanted, she would still be alive. In other words, ‘she asked for it.’ Sound familiar?

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ASSAULT OF PEOPLE WHO QUESTION TRANSGENDER PEOPLE/IDEOLOGY

  1. Cheryl Partsch punched in teeth for questioning cross-dressing man in women’s restroom. His punch cost her $60K in medical bills. Note that Patrick doesn’t identify as a woman, but still punched Cheryl in the teeth for being concerned about his presence in the women’s restroom, and called her questioning a “hate crime.”
  2. Feminists assaulted in Transgender Attack at Portland conference for Social Change
  3. Violent Zoey Tur grabs panelist by the neck and threatens to send him “home in an ambulance” live on the air The panelist’s crime? Mentioning biology.
  4. UK trans athlete Lauren Jeska, attempts to murder an official and attacks two other officials from British Athletics for reviewing the medals won while competing as a woman.  Lauren Jeska is male.

                                                   TIER 3

ECONOMIC PUNISHMENTS (SUCH AS UNEMPLOYMENT OR LEGAL FINES) OF PEOPLE WHO QUESTION TRANSGENDER PEOPLE/IDEOLOGY

  1. Rochester Radio Hosts Fired After making transgender jokes
  2. General fired from academic post over transgender bathroom joke
  3. Gavin McInnes fired for thought catalog post, “Transphobia is Perfectly Natural”
  4. Daycare workers fired for ‘misgendering’ confused student
  5. ESPN fires Curt Schilling for sharing a ‘transphobic’ meme
  6. Transactivists attempt to fire Meghan Murphy for writing about Laverne Cox
  7. Transwoman & business owner Janelle Bahan threatens to fire any woman who might be a feminist
  8. Woman’s Planet Fitness Membership cancelled for concern over transwoman in locker room
  9. Transactivist attempts to fire ‘transphobe’ Elizabeth Hungerford for her Open Letter to Smith College Worthy of note: The same transactivist is now trans-critical, has since apologized, and now experiences abuse from the trans community.
  10. Vassar College transactivist students attempt to fire Professor
  11. New York City enacts $$$ 6-figure fine for “misgendering”*
  12. Canada Prime Minister Justin Trudeau introduces bill that punishes “misgendering” with up to two years in prison* * Challenge for transactivists: can you find any comparable punishments for people who call women bitches, sluts, cunts or whores? Hell, most rapists don’t even face consequences this severe for raping people.
  13. YMCA fires rape victim for expressing fear of being raped in gender neutral bathrooms
  14. Georgia ACLU leader Maya Dillard Smith pressured to resign after asking too many questions about transgender bathroom bill
  15. Transactivists violently harass, deplatform and attempt to fire Ruth Barrett Because she signed a petition and had an opinion about MichFest. How dare she!
  16. Macy’s fires Catholic employee for disagreeing with transgender bathroom policy The policy was never made known to him, and he promised to uphold the policy, but they still fired him.
  17. Renee Gerlich is banned from a community book market and subsequently lost her job and was the target of a bullying pact launched against her by a trans spokesperson from the New Zealand Prostitutes’ Collective.

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THE NO-PLATFORMING, DISINVITATION, EVENT CANCELLATION, UNPUBLISHING AND CENSORSHIP OF PEOPLE WHO QUESTION TRANSGENDER PEOPLE/IDEOLOGY

BOLD links = this person has been deplatformed repeatedly (Meaning, this list is longer than it looks.)

  1. Derrick Jensen disinvited from Oregon State University over “transphobia” (Response)
  2. Lawrence University invokes last minute BAN on Earth Day Keynote Speaker Lierre Keith due to her Feminist views on Gender
  3. Rachel Ivey of Deep Green Resistance “End of Gender” presentation cancelled at Bluestockings…   …and at Unitarian Church of Philadelphia
  4. Julie Bindel repeatedly deplatformed for her gender-critical views
  5. Lesbian activist stripped of Grand Marshall honors over “transphobic” Facebook posts
  6. Cindy Sheehan talks about being targeted by “trans bullies”
  7. Glosswitch commissiond, then un-commissioned, to write for feminist site even though she was initially told she could write “ANYTHING”
  8. Janet Mock and followers target GenderTrender blog, shut it down & suspend blogger
  9. Campus “Vagina Monologues” cancelled for being about vaginas (which is “exclusive” to transwomen)
  10. Lesbian Outsmart review of Julia Serano’s “Excluded” removed from website for “insensitive” trans-critical remarks
  11. New York Times transgender/gay rights debate features 2 transwomen, 4 gay males, but NO women or lesbians
  12. Christine Benvenuto essay removed, AND bookshop event cancelled, after petition & harassment by her transwoman ex-spouse
  13. Bev Jo disinvited from Butch Voices by transwoman
  14. Iconic Michigan Women’s Music Festival ends after long fight over trans-inclusivity Organizers were threatened for years by transacitivists for having a female-only vision of the festival
  15. Vulva Cupcake event called “violent” – transactivists attempt to cancel it
  16. Woman’s Bruce Jenner rant deleted by YouTube
  17. Iconic feminist Carol Adams targeted by “transphobia” misinformation/deplatforming campaign No evidence of her alleged transphobia was ever provided by her accusers.
  18. PantheaCon female-only spiritual rites infiltrated by transactivists Sex-specific events are no longer allowed at PantheaCon — not even traditional rites based on exclusively female experiences such as menstruation, which have always been deeply revered in many Pagan traditions
  19. Kate Smurthwaite’s comedy show cancelled for “transphobia” even though she’s demonstrably supportive of trans people
  20. Female Erasure Book faces pre-emptive attacks
  21. Royal College of Psychiatrists Transgender Conference cancelled after trans complaints
  22. Cardiff University cancels Germaine Greer lecture after trans-critical remarks
  23. Sheila Jeffreys targeted by “transphobia” de-platforming campaign
  24. Jeremy Clarkson Amazon Show cancelled for trans-critical remarks
  25. Potentially $568 million in economic damages, countless event cancellations, and corporate withdrawals and in North Carolina following HB2 decision
  26. Everyday Feminism pulls article by Alice Dreger about sex ed; cites disagreement about ‘trans issues’
  27. For Books’ Sake takes down, apologizes for, sharing FeministCurrent articlecalls it transphobic but does not explain how it’s transphobic
  28. Ruth Greenberg denied venue for lesbian-focused, trans-inclusive event based on year-old “transphobic” tweet
  29. Thistle Pettersen banned from the community radio station, WORT 89.9 FM, AND she was also prevented from organizing a yearly women-focused music & arts festival in Madison, WI due to accusations of ‘transphobia’. Please take the time to read this one, if you can: PART 1, PART 2, PART 3, PART 4.
  30. Professor tells student she is not allowed to share trans-critical views during class discussions
  31. Twitter bot corrects tweets that “misgender” Caitlyn Jenner
  32. Vancouver Women’s Library harassed and threatened for having “TERF” and “SWERF” literature in their catalogue. This is despite the fact that the library is trans-inclusive. According to this Guerrilla Feminist Collective post, transactivists have also assaulted a library visitor and stolen the library’s sign. Support the VWL by donating and signing this petition!
  33. Thistle Pettersen has again been silenced and pressured to not perform at an event she started organizing.
  34. Rhéa Jean, author and PhD, was accused of transphobia and censored from speaking at a seminar on the transgender movement.   The seminar was cancelled.
  35. Meghan Murphy has a post she wrote for rabble arguing against Planned Parenthood’s dehumanizing use of the word ‘menstruators’ to describe women censored without notice or explanation. When pressed, she finally got a response claiming the post includes ‘transphobic language.’ To date no one has explained exactly what that ‘transphobic language’ was. She quit in protest.

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SOCIAL EXCLUSION, DOXXING, HARASSMENT, GENERAL INTIMIDATION OF PEOPLE WHO QUESTION TRANSGENDER PEOPLE/IDEOLOGY

  1. Laci Green doxxed for saying “tranny” years ago, even though she apologized Yes, THE Laci Green that liberal feminists love so much.
  2. Cathy Brennan was stalked and harassed by a group of transactivists in Olympia for refusing to say that a homosexual male could also identify as a lesbian.

There are so many open threats of violence made against trans-critical people, particularly against lesbians and/or radical feminists, that I cannot list them all. So I’ll summarize instead:

WITHDRAWAL OF SUPPORT

Transactivists are known to threaten to withdraw support for feminist causes/organizations if they fail to openly pledge allegiance to transgender ideology. Many such organizations are in desperate need of social support and funding, so they don’t have much of a choice except to go along with what transactivists tell them to say. The message is clear: “Your rights are important, but validating my beliefs is more important.”

One example:

SOCIAL MEDIA PHASE-OUTS

Ask ANY radical /gender critical/trans critical feminist, and they will tell you: we get deleted, harassed, banned and blocked more than anyone. Many of us have lost real-life friends over trans-critical Facebook posts or even for asking questions. It seems that transactivists patrol Facebook for the slightest hint of “transphobia” so they can pile-on and virtue-signal what a Good Trans Ally they are.

Again, there are too many examples to post here, so here are just a few examples: (x)(x)(x)

TERF BLACKLISTS Transactivists on Tumblr often make lists of alleged “TERFs” and command their followers not to engage with, or reblog anything from, people on the lists. Some examples:

The “TERF hive” commands trans allies to censor, harass, report, block and otherwise shut down trans-critical sites:

DIE CIS SCUM This is a popular slogan in transactivists circles. Transactivists argue that their use of this slogan is okay because “they’re more oppressed than cis people.” As you can see in the picture below, it’s a very threatening slogan, especially when tattooed on the body of a male holding a baseball bat.

#KILLALLTERFS A favorite hashtag of transactivists. Many examples of these open threats of violence can be found on the following websites:

Here is a small sampling of the kinds of threats made against us by transactivists, taken from the 3 links above ^

VIDEOS:

TRANSACTIVISTS IN ACTION See it for yourself.

Also worth considering:

These major “feminist”/women’s websites will publish pro-transgender pieces but won’t publish “transphobic” (trans-critical, gender-critical or radical feminist) pieces:

Feministing, EverydayFeminism, Jezebel, xoJane, The Frisky, Bitch Media, The Establishment, Refinery29, Bustle, Black Girl Dangerous…

Autostraddle even blatantly admits to being inclined to give trans*people more money for their writing (source)

Many trans-critical writers have had to resort to publishing on Right-wing websites just to have a platform, even though they do not sympathize, or want to associate, with the Right. (This is part of where the “radfems are conservative” stereotype comes from.)

So now the question is:

WHO’S SILENCING WHO?

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“The men struggle to distinguish porn scripts from real sexual assault situations. One observes, ”That feels like a sexual assault.” Another speculates that the situation before him is a #MeToo story. At the conclusion of the video, it is revealed that all of the scenarios were taken from pornography.”

Now we’re connecting some dots.

“What does it mean when pornography, the primary form of sexual education for young people, is indistinguishable from real life sexual abuse of women? What does it mean for women and girls? What does it mean for men and boys watching this content regularly, and from childhood? What is the impact on sexuality, intimate relationships and attitudes towards women when men and boys are socialised to find enjoyment in the abuse of women?”

Is this the new “People are Violent because of video games”? First of all there are plenty of women that enjoy dominant sex and should not be shamed for it. And second it is not that hard to distinguish porn from reality. Porn is like any other movie production and should not be viewed as real life. And lastly the general rule of thumb is if a woman gives you consent then you have a green light to do whatever she wants to her. If she says no and keeps protesting then you are a scumbag that should be locked up. So the porn is not to blame if your privileged ass thinks just because some paid actors in a movie are having hardcore sex then you need to force yourself on women wether they want it or not

Hi, I’d like to introduce you to a field of study known as Sociology. It’s basically the study of society. See, we understand that culture does in fact impact who we are as people, as much as we want to believe that we are in complete control of who we are, that is simply just not true.

Advertising companies wouldn’t spend make any money if advertising didn’t work. The human brain is like a sponge, constantly absorbing messages subconsciously. And an orgasm is a very powerful psychological conditioning tool. Porn use does in fact impact people.

Here, have some research:

Porn use:

  • There are over 420 million pages of pornographic material online worldwide. (IFR)
  • 72 million searches for porn are logged monthly. (IFR)
  • 25% of all daily search engine requests are for pornography (68 million searches daily) (IFR)
  • 42.7% of internet users view porn (IFR)
  • 100,000-plus websites are devoted to child pornography. There are over 116,000 daily requests for this material. (IFR)
  • 20% of men admit to accessing pornography at work (IFR)
  • 35% of those purchasing online porn make $75,000-plus annually. (IFR)
  • The United States is the top producer of pornographic web pages with 244,661,900, or 89 percent (IFR)
  • Worldwide revenue from mobile phone pornography is $1 billion-plus and growing (Bryan-Low, Cassel and Pringle, David. “Sex Cells: Wireless Operators Find That Racy Cellphone Video Drives Surge in Broadband Use.” The Wall Street Journal, May 12, 2005)

Ex-porn star testimonies:

  • Corina Taylor: ”When I arrived to the set I expected to do a vaginal girl boy scene. But during the scene with a male porn star, he forced himself anally into me and would not stop. I yelled at him to stop and screamed ‘No’ over and over but he would not stop. The pain became too much and I was in shock and my body went limp.”
  • Jenna Jameson: ”Most girls get their first experience in gonzo films – in which they’re taken to a crappy studio apartment in Mission Hills and penetrated in every hole possible by some abusive asshole who thinks her name is Bitch.”
  • Alexa James: ”The first shoot I did was with a man who was probably 40 and he was as thick as a soda can. He held me down and shoved it in me with no lube tearing my vagina. When I started to tear up and cry he flipped me over and continued from behind be so they wouldn’t get me crying on film. He pulled my hair and choked me over and over again even when I told him it hurt and I could barely breathe.”
  • Linda Lovelace: ”My initiation into prostitution was a gang rape by five men, arranged by Mr. Traynor. It was the turning point in my life. He threatened to shoot me with the pistol if I didn’t go through with it. I had never experienced anal sex before and it ripped me apart. They treated me like an inflatable plastic doll, picking me up and moving me here and there. They spread my legs this way and that, shoving their things at me and into me, they were playing musical chairs with parts of my body. I have never been so frightened and disgraced and humiliated in my life. I felt like garbage. I engaged in sex acts for pornography against my will to avoid being killed.The lives of my family were threatened.”
  • Andi Anderson: ”After a year or so of that so-called “glamorous” life, I sadly discovered that drugs and drinking were a part of the lifestyle. I began to drink and party out of control! Cocaine, alcohol and ecstasy were my favorites. Before long, I turned into a person I did not want to be. After doing so many hardcore scenes I couldn’t do it anymore. I just remember being in horrible situations and experiencing extreme depression and being alone and sad.”
  • Alexa Milano: ”My first movie I was treated very rough by 3 guys. They pounded on me, gagged me with their penises, and tossed me around like I was a ball! I was sore, hurting and could barely walk. My insides burned and hurt so badly. I could barely pee and to try to have a bowel movement was out of the question. I was hurting so bad from the physical abuse from these 3 male porn stars.”
  • Jessie Jewels: ”People in the porn industry are numb to real life and are like zombies walking around. The abuse that goes on in this industry is completely ridiculous. The way these young ladies are treated is totally sick and brainwashing. I left due to the trauma I experienced even though I was there only a short time.”
  • Genevieve: ”I had bodily fluids all over my face that had to stay on my face for ten minutes. The abuse and degradation was rough. I sweated and was in deep pain. On top of the horrifying experience, my whole body ached, and I was irritable the whole day. The director didn’t really care how I felt; he only wanted to finish the video.”
  • Jersey Jaxin: ”Guys punching you in the face. You have semen from many guys all over your face, in your eyes. You get ripped. Your insides can come out of you. It’s never ending.”
  • Elizabeth Rollings: ”I didn’t want to feel the pain of penetration from an over average sized man, being told to freeze in a position until the camera man was happy with his shots was very painful. I had peoples body fluids forced on my face or anywhere else the producer pleased and I had to accept it or else no pay. Sometimes you would get to a gig and the producer would change what the scene was supposed to be to something more intense and again if you didn’t like it, too bad, you did it or no pay.”
  • Lucky Starr: ”I was worried about my first anal scene for quite a few days … then the big moment arrived. It REALLY hurt! I almost quit and said, “I can’t do this”. When it was all over, I was so happy and relieved I was able to do it…”
  • Ashlyn Brooke: ”I honestly felt that if I had to have another strange man in my face, his hands (God knows where they’ve been all over me) him calling me his baby and having to exude some sort of forged passion for the world to see, I probably would have exploded. And what would have been stuck to the walls would have probably been nothing, just pieces of skin, bone, the brain of a robot, and what would have been left of what would have existed once as a huge and warm heart.”
  • Roxy: ”After only 30 movies I caught two sexually transmitted diseases. Herpes, a non-curable disease and HPV, which led to cervical cancer where I had to have half of my cervix removed. Porn destroyed my life.”
  • Anita Cannibal: ”Yeah, there are a lot of cover-ups going on. There is a lot of tragedy. There are a lot of horrible things.”
  • Tamra Toryn: ”As for myself, I ended up paying the price from working in the porn industry. In 2006, not even 9 months in, I caught a moderate form of dysplasia of the cervix (which is a form of HPV, a sexually transmitted disease) and later that day, I also found out I was pregnant. I had only 1 choice which was to abort the baby during my first month. It was extremely painful emotionally and physically. When it was all over, I cried my eyes out.”
  • Jessi Summers: ”I also did a scene where I was put with male talent that was on my no list. I wanted to please them so I did it. He put his foot on my head and stepped on it while he was doing me from behind. I freaked out and started balling; they stopped filming and sent me home with reduced pay since they got some shot but not the whole sce

porn trends:

how pornographers feel about women:

  • “I’d like to really show what I believe the men want to see: violence against women. I firmly believe that we [pornographers] serve a purpose by showing that. The most violent we can get is the cum shot in the face. Men get off behind that, because they get even with the women they can’t have. We try to inundate the world with orgasms in the face.” -  Bill Margold, porn industry veteran, quoted in Robert J. Stoller and I. S. Levine, Coming Attractions: The Making of an X-rated video; 1993.
  • “There’s nothing I love more than when a girl insists to me that she won’t take a cock in her ass, because — oh yes she will!” -Max Hardcore, interviewed in Hustler (June 1995).
  • “My whole reason for being in this Industry is to satisfy the desire of the men in the world who basically don’t much care for women and want to see the men in my Industry getting even with the women they couldn’t have when they were growing up. I strongly believe this… so we come on a woman’s face or somewhat brutalize her sexually: we’re getting even for their lost dreams. I believe this. I’ve heard audiences cheer me when I do something foul on screen. When I’ve strangled a person or sodomized a person, or brutalized a person, the audience is cheering my action, and then when I’ve fulfilled my warped desire, the audience applauds.” - Bill Margold, porn industry veteran and Free Speech Coalition board member.
  • “It might promote violence against women in the United States, but I say, ‘Good.’ I hate those bitches. They’re out of line and that’s one of the reasons I want to do this … I’m going through a divorce right now. … I hate American women.” - What pornographers really think of women (Deutsche Presse-Agentur, 14 October 1999)
  • 88% of scenes contained physical aggression, including spanking, gagging, and slapping.
  • Women were overwhelmingly the targets of aggressive acts, and men the perpetrators.
  • Following instances of aggression towards women, in 95% of cases the women expressed pleasure or neutrality.

cases of porn leading children to commit sexual assualt IN THE UK ALONE:

  • February 2014: A 13-year-old boy told a UK court that he raped his 8-year-old sister after viewing pornography at his friend’s house.  The teenager told police he “decided to try it out” on his sister because she was small and “couldn’t remember stuff,” reported the Lancashire Telegraph.
  • November 2013: A different 13-year old UK boy pleaded guilty to raping an eight-year old girlwhen he was 10. A pornography addiction since age 9 was said to have played a significant role in his crimes.
  • March 2013: Two boys aged 14 and 15 admitted to a British court that they were re-enacting scenes witnessed in violent online pornography when they beat, brutalized, then raped a 14-year-old girl they had tied to a chair.
  • March 2013: A UK report found that thousands of British children had committed sexual offenses. In all, 4,562 minors – some as young as five – committed 5,028 sexual offenses over a three year period from 2009-2012. Experts blamed “easy access to sexual material.”
  • January 2012: Children’s aid and sex abuse organizations in Australia largely blamed 414 cases of children sexually abusing other children on the explosion of pornography made accessible to children.
  • August 2012: A 13-year-old Canadian boy pleaded guilty to repeatedly raping a 4-year-old boy who lived in his foster home. The boy said the idea came from watching “gay porn” on his foster parents’ home computer.
  • April 2012: A child therapist reported a case of a 13-year-old boy who raped his 5-year-old sisterafter developing a “complex fantasy world” warped by “two years of constant porn use.”
  • Latinos and Hispanics: Pornography tends to stereotype Hispanic women as feisty, “hot and spicy Latinas”, sexy Señoritas, with a high sex drive and low impulse control. Many are portrayed as maids, illegal immigrants to the United States, or unfaithful wives. Since Latinos and Hispanics can be of any race (many are white Hispanic Americans, Mestizos etc.), cultural characteristics are sometimes portrayed via iconic items like South and Central American national costumes, sombreros, maracas, or Mexican dresses.
  • Asian women: Are viewed as sexually willing or submissive. Asian men are hardly portrayed in pairing with white women and not as common compared to white men with asian women porn. Asian women are mainly portrayed as the: “Dragon Ladies”, as servile “Lotus Blossom Babies”, “Innocent School Girls” in private school uniforms, “China dolls”, “Geisha girls”, war brides, or prostitutes. Japanese media have also at times sensationalistically promoted the stereotype of Japanese women overseas as “yellow cabs”.
  • Black performers: Large penis size in Black men is consistently emphasized in pornography, often by exclusively casting actors with larger than average penises such as Lexington Steele, Kid Bengala, Jack Napier and Mandingo. Men are often treated to stereotypes of gang affiliation, working class labor, and are overrepresented in gang rape fetish films. Also, they are represented as overly aggressive and demanding, and are performing with white women. Similarly, black women are often portrayed with large breast and buttocks, or ‘booty’. They normally play a submissive role while performing with a white male.
  • Youth who look at violent x-rated material are six times more likely to report forcing someone to do something sexual online or in-person versus youth not exposed to x-rated material. [12]
  • Middle-school aged boys who view X-rated content are almost three times more likely to report oral sex and sexual intercourse than boys who do not use sexually explicit material[13]  
  • A study in the southeastern U.S. found that 53 percent of boys and 28 percent of girls (ages 12-15) reported use of sexually explicit media. The Internet was the most popular forum for viewing. [14]
  • The words “sex” and “porn” rank fourth and sixth among the top ten most popular search terms. [15]
  • Roughly two-thirds (67 percent) of young men and one-half (49 percent) of young women agree that viewing pornography is acceptable.[7]
  • Nearly 9 out of 10 (87 percent) young men and 1 out of 3 (31 percent) young women report using pornography.[8]
  • Experts have warned that the rise in the viewing of pornography was implicated in a variety of problems, including a rise in the levels of STDs and teenage pregnancies.  Additionally, males aged between 12 and 17 who regularly viewed pornography had sex at an earlier stage in life and were more likely to initiate oral sex, apparently imitating what they had seen. [9] [10]
  • Internet pornography was blamed for a 20 percent increase in sexual attacks by children over three years.[6]
  • One out of three youth who viewed pornography, viewed the pornography intentionally.[1]
  • Seven out of ten youth have accidentally come across pornography online.[2]
  • Nearly 80 percent of unwanted exposure to pornography is taking place in the home (79 percent occurs in the home; 9 percent occurs at school; 7 percent other/unknown; 5 percent at a friend’s home).[3]
  • Kids experience unwanted exposure to sexual material via:[4] A link came up as a result of an innocent word search (40 percent), Clicking on a link in another site (17 percent), A pop-up (14 percent), Other (13 percent), Misspelled web address (12 percent), Don’t know (4 percent), Pictures involving animals or other strange things (10 percent)
  • Type of material youth encounter when unwanted exposure to pornography occurs:[5] Naked people (86 percent), People having sex (37 percent), Violent pictures (13 percent)
  • Nearly 74 percent of pornography websites surveyed display adult content on their homepage (accessible to anyone) before asking if the viewers are of legal age. [11]
  • American children begin consuming hardcore pronography at an average age of 11
  • Four out of five 16 year-olds regularly access pornography online
  • Findings from the Youth Internet Safety Survey indicate that 15% of 12-17 year olds have purposefully looked at x-rated material online.
  • Data from the PEW Internet and American Life Project suggest that 70% of 15-17 year old internet users accidently view pornography “very” or “Somewhat” often.

Child Pornography

  • Child pornography is a $3-billion industry. (Top Ten Reviews)
  • Child pornography is one of the fastest growing businesses online, and the content is becoming much worse.  (Internet Watch Foundation)  Internet Watch Foundation confirmed 1536 child abuse domains in 2008.
  • The fastest growing demand in commercial websites for child abuse is for images depicting the worst type of abuse, including penetrative sexual activity involving children and adults and sadism or penetration by an animal.  58% of child sexual abuse images depict this level of abuse. (IWF, 2008)
  • 69% of all victims in child abuse images are between the ages of 0 and 10 years old. (IWF, 2008)
  • In a study of arrested child pornography possessors, 40 percent had both sexually victimized children and were in possession of child pornography. Of those arrested between 2000 and 2001, 83 percent had images involving children between the ages 6 and 12; 39 percent had images of children between ages 3 and 5; and 19% had images of infants and toddlers under age 3 (National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, Child Pornography Possessors Arrested in Internet-Related Crimes: Findings fro the National Juvenile Online Victimization Study. 2005).
  • further decline in dopamine levels
  • further decline in opioids and endorphins
  • drop-off in GABA, which is an anti-anxiety neurotransmitter
  • rise in brain stress hormones CRF and norepinephrine
  • elevated dynorphin which inhibits dopamine and lowers your pleasure response
  • one week after quitting the reward center sprouts new nerve cell branches, which correlate with cravings to use
  • More sources on addiction to porn
  • Anxiety
  • Restlessness
  • Irritability
  • Insomnia
  • Fatigue
  • Headaches
  • Poor concentration
  • Depression
  • Social isolation
  • Loss of libido (Can take days to manifest, and last a long time)
  • Believing a rape victim enjoyed rape
  • Believing women suffer less from rape
  • Believing women in general enjoy rape
  • Believing a rape victim experienced pleasure and “got what she wanted”
  • Believing women make false accusations of rape
  • Believing rapist deserve less jail time
  • More acceptance of the rape myth
  • More acceptance of violence against women
  • More likely to go to a prostitute and to go more frequently
  • Increasing their estimates of how often people engage in sex with violence
  • More self-reported likelihood of forcing a women sexually
  • More self-reported likelihood of rape
  • Creating more sexually violent fantasies to get aroused
  • Engaging in more sexual harassment behaviors
  • More likelihood of forcing a woman sexually
  • More likelihood of future rape
  • Using physical coercion to have sex
  • Using verbal coercion to have sex
  • Using drugs and alcohol to sexually coerce women
  • Having engaged in rape
  • Having engaged in date rape
  • Having engaged in marital rape
  • Being an adult sex offender
  • Being a child molester
  • Being an incest offender
  • Engaging in sexual abuse of a battered spouse
  • More willingness to have sex with 13-14 year olds
  • More sexual attraction to children
  • Having sexually abused children

Life and death of a porn star:

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