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the amount of grown adult LIBERAL women saying, in reference to the barbie movie 'it's great to have an unabashedly GIRLY movie again, girls get so shamed nowadays for enjoying femininity' makes me want to tear my hair out. what fucking planet do you backwards nutjobs live on.

Do they really believe it or is that perception really just warped by online interactions and discourse?

You know how when there’s a 50-50 split between how much men and women talk, men think women talked more? I swear traditionally feminine women have the same perception of women who don’t fit in with traditional femininity.

they get discriminated against for being women, and think that they're being degraded because femininity is degraded, rather than the fact that they're feminine in order to be degraded.

i made the mistake of eating some of my failed baking (brownies, too much mixing, and too much fats/oils, so basically boiled in the oven and became hard toffee-like), and am paying the price today. i have to be near the bathroom at all times. i went out before it hit, and was worried because i started fevering and was worried that i had something, potentially even covid, but i got home and all hell broke loose and i know the exact cause and i have no one to blame but myself :|

non stop digital paper work. i'm talking, processing easily over 100 files and reports just this week alone (over 40 just today). we also went out of city to other places first two days, and one day ended up being a ten hour day due to travel time, so i can choose a day next week to leave two hours early (they do that rather than overtime pay at this company, you can just take any extra time you did on one day off on another day).

it will be super busy for the rest of this month due to deadlines, but they encourage us to take all our breaks and lunches, try not to do overtime, and if we do, to take that time off another day. working from home is also a flexible option, most people work from home one day a week. i do not yet, because i don't feel comfortable and familiar enough in the role yet to do so, but i likely will sometime in the near future.

at the end of this month i will also be starting driving lessons for the upcoming restricted test in three months :)

the story of the four colombian children that survived over a month in the jungle after surviving a plane crash is incredible. their mother initially survived the crash, but was fatally injured, and as she was dying, she told them to leave her so that they may live. the eldest child, a 13 year old girl, is who kept the younger siblings alive, having both knowledge of edible jungle plants, as well as scavenging the wreckage, knowing how to take care of an infant (yes, the youngest was an 11-12 month old baby), and also had a hobby of playing 'survival games' with her 9 year old sister, where they would built make-shift shelters outside for fun. they were finally rescued several days ago, in large part because the search helicopters continuously played a recording of their grandmother, telling them to stay where they are in their native language.

so, three generations of women and girls, grandmother, mother, and daughter, all contributed to the group's survival. they are malnourished and dehydrated, but apart from that, fine physically. they will be out of hospital in little over a week (excluding perhaps the baby).

making brownies for a farewell morning tea, but the house i'm staying at didn't have the proper measuring and baking tools i needed, so i had to eyeball ingredients and stir with a normal dessert spoon. considering it's currently bubbling like hot lava in the oven, i don't think i did a good job.

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Bjork wouldn't exist without Wendy Carlos. You anachronistic nincompoop.

did you notice how i said 'most'? that's because i'm not blind, and could clearly tell that the dude on the left was making electronic music far before her by how old the image looked.

cold ass winter, it's been at freezing when going to work the past few days. this morning was -2C.

So I've done a little research to learn about the allegations that Jessica Taylor used victim narratives in her published work without obtaining victim's prior consent, and I opened a Pandora's box of all her sketchy and inappropriate behavior in both her publications and on social media. Yikes.

I have never been active on Twitter, so I missed this whole debacle when it went down, but thanks to screenshots, anything you say online basically lives forever. This article presents a summary of the glaring evidence of not just of Taylor's breaches in ethics by breaking confidentiality, but also shows her immaturity, impulsivity, tendency towards manipulation of data, and her bullying.

For an example of how she twists facts to suit her narrative, I was not aware that in the UK there is a difference between a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and a Doctorate in Psychology. There, someone with a doctorate in clinical psychology would be trained specifically in the treatment of mental illness, whereas someone with a doctorate in psychology would NOT have that expertise but would rather be trained in more general psychology. In the United States, both of those skillsets are included under Doctorate in Psychology. For this reason, I did not realize Taylor was laying claim to expertise she does not actually possess. And in fact, people have reviewed her CV when it was posted on Linkedin and found that she actually has no clinical experience whatsoever despite claiming to have years of experience working with patients.

The article linked above also critique’s Taylor’s tendency to manipulate the “studies” she conducts so that they show the conclusions she wants by using selection bias when creating her research samples. In one instance, she requested input on a survey specifically from girls and women who had faced abuse and sexual trauma in the past, and then used the results of that survey to claim that 99% of women would face those things in their lifetimes. Just all in all sloppy work. As another example of how Taylor manipulates data, I noticed when reading Sexy But Psycho that she did have a tendency to oversimplify study results to support her points.

As for the claims that Taylor broke confidentiality by including victim narratives in her books without obtaining prior consent of the victims, this article names a few specific women who spoke up but makes references to there being numerous other victims. However, they do not provide evidence of these other claims. That said, breaking confidentiality in this way even one single time is an egregious ethical failure, and there’s substantial evidence that Taylor did so a handful of times. Furthermore, screenshots from Twitter and Whatsapp conversations show how Taylor reacted to these claims by resorting to bullying and gaslighting. With that kind of immaturity, I don’t think she has any business working in a mental health care capacity with anyone, let alone deeply traumatized women.

Obviously, I didn’t just accept all the claims in this article at face value. As you can easily see reading the comments on her social media posts, Jessica Taylor has a LOT of enemies due to her criticism of trans ideology and psychiatry, and she does face constant classism, misogyny, and homophobia as well. Because of that, I wanted to make sure the author of this article wasn’t just some troll writing a long, biased callout post.

As it turns out, the author of the article is Julian Vigo, a woman who has published multiple articles criticizing modern trans activism and liberalism. So no, she’s not just a biased troll who thinks TERFs need to be deplatformed at all costs etc etc etc.

So, all that said, while I still appreciate Jessica Taylor for loudly advocating for the rights of traumatized girls and women, and I appreciate her attempts to end the medicalization and forced hospitalization of traumatized patients, I don’t think I can continue to support her work. Her methodology is too sloppy, her ethics are too loose, and her lack of maturity in facing criticism frankly makes me embarrassed for her and embarrassed to associate myself with her.

If you want a somewhat more methodologically sound introduction to anti psychiatric thought, the book Anatomy of an Epidemic by Robert Whitaker is a good read. It does get a little pharmacology and neuroscience heavy at times, but I think it’s still very accessible. It also has its flaws, but at least the author has never threatened to send his critics envelopes of shit and glitter.

Amber Heard is set to appear at the 69th Taormina Film Festival for the world premiere of In The Fire. The film will premiere June 24 at the Teatro Antico di Taorina. In the Fire is described as a supernatural thriller that stars Heard as a pioneering psychiatrist who sets out to treat a desperate child at a time when psychiatry is not yet a respected science. Set in 1899, the film follows a 38-year-old American psychiatrist as she arrives on a rich farm in Colombia after being called to solve the case of a disturbed child following increasingly insistent accusations that the child is the devil. While the woman tries to psychoanalyze the child, the nefarious events intensify and her “cure” becomes a race to save the little boy from the fury of his fellow citizens, and perhaps, even from himself.

i bought a clearance tin of accidentally vegan choc chip cookies, and they're in a beatrix potter tin 🥺🥺

this article is super interesting, in regards to what's true and what's false in regards to moisturisers and how they work

basically, vitamins in moisturisers do nothing, most ingredients in moisturisers do nothing, the only ones that really matter are the water and oil. so, you could just wash your hands, and while wet, slather them in vaseline, and it'd have the exact same effect, if not better, than any fancy moisturiser. cool.

but we don't just use moisturisers for retaining water. texture, smoothing, and smelling nice is also a part, so if there's a brand that is not greasy, leaves a nice smell, and makes our hands feel soft, then that's good too, even if it doesn't technically moisturise (aka retain water) any better than a tub of petroleum jelly.

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I'd argue that most ingredients in moisturizer do have some purpose, even if it's not what is claimed on the bottle. Lotions are mostly water, then occlusives, some kind of humectant (glycerol is the cheapest, hyaluronic acid is more expensive but a trendier ingredient, aloe vera and honey can be found in some "all-natural" formulations), emulsifiers, and preservatives. Usually at or closest to the end (ingredients are listed on the label by % weight in descending order) there will be a small amount of vitamins like tocopherol acetate or retinyl palmate, caffeine, algae extract, green tea extract, etc. These ingredients tend to be prominently displayed on the label with various promises about their benefits.

Occlusives would be things like vaseline or some other greasy substance that traps water. You may also see silicone listed higher in the list (things that end with -cone or -xane, e.g. dimethicone) because these things are hydrophobic and tend not to feel as greasy to consumers. Occlusives *should* be chemically inert, but some people report sensitivity to certain formulations. Silicones especially are controversial in the natural skincare space.

I'd also argue that most skincare bloggers and r/SkinCareAddict are there to Sell Product and not help you become more scientifically literate. Especially the men. Idk why, but men in this genre of bloggers tend to think that if they adopt an air of scientific authority, it'll cancel out the "girly" nature of skincare? Which sucks if you happen to actually have scientific knowledge because you get told that you're not actually an authority because Jim the Reddit Mod says differently. Not that I'm bitter about it.

i tend to just go by science (so, no endocrine disruptors, and a few other things, especially stuff that i'm sensitive to), and then what is vegan and cruelty free (which tends to largely overlap with 'nasty free' stuff, which is good, even if they are 'aluminium' free for no reason). and then after that, as long as my skin feels good, it's good, idc about whether it's natural or synthetic, as long as it doesn't fuck up my reproductive system or lifetime cancer risk.

thank you colorado!! they have just largely banned the use of 'reunification camps' through courts. this is after the multiple large stories regarding children being forced to stay with their abusive, sometimes sexually, fathers, and ripped away from their abused mothers, in court mandated custody decisions. these camps had heavy links to the mormon church, and were based on the bunk idea of 'parental alienation'.

hopefully more states now will follow their lead.

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Canadian politician Joel Harden posted a picture of himself on twitter with a bloody scratch on his cheek with the caption "I’ll take a punch for queer and trans youth any day" and he was getting a lot of attention for this alleged assault. Except nobody punched him - there's video of him causing that cut when he accidently hit himself in the face with his megaphone at a rally. Grifters gonna grift

Unironically using this term, that's so fucking cringe