✨ lots & lots of yawning
✨ very very gentle
✨ baby voice/talk increases 1000000%
✨ the soft squeaks, “mm”s, “nu uh”s, & “mhm”s
✨ hands always curled up in soft lil fists or tucked tight to chest/stomach
✨comfy comfy clothes <3
✨ quiet lil voice even when not falling asleep
✨ Verbal-Loss/Speech-Loss whines
Things to do when you're tiny and feeling...
Angry
✎Don't bottle it up! If you need to, go somewhere you can be alone to let out your feelings
✫Scream into a pillow or stuffie
✫Hit something soft (I promise your stuffies will forgive you too)
✫Let yourself cry
✫Draw with crayons (you can push down hard with them) it doesn't have to be pretty
✫Drink something cold like water or juice
✫Eat something hard/crunchy like cookies or carrots or chew on a teether
✫If you can, write down what made you angry and destroy the paper afterwards
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Sad
✫Soothe yourself with a binkie
✫Hug as many stuffies as you need really close to your chest
✫Let yourself cry, if you can
✫Listen to lullabies
✫Eat something that makes you happy/comforts you (sweet or spicy is best)
✫Drink something warm like angel milk, hot cocoa or tea
✫Swaddle yourself in soft blankets
✫Watch your favorite show
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Lonely
✫Gather your stuffies and dolls around you
✫Talk to them even if they don't answer back. You can feel what they want to tell you in your chest
✫Cuddle them really close
✫Write to someone you miss, if you can
✫Draw yourself with those you love/want to be with
✫Imagine those you miss being with you and daydream about what you could do together
✫Watch your favorite show or youtuber to feel less alone
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Anxious
✫Your binkie may help soothe you
✫Take deep breaths
✫Feel the textures around you to ground yourself
✫Rock back and forth to relief tension and soothe yourself
✫Hold your stuffies close
✫Put on music and just move around however you feel like!
✫If you have a reason, think about all the ways it could NOT go wrong too! Let yourself hope for the best, even if you're scared to get hurt /gentle
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Icky (regarding sa trauma)
✫Hug your stuffie and let yourself cry
✫If you can, shower or bathe. If needed, you can keep your clothes on until you feel better
✫Vent your feelings through drawing. This could be scribbles or any thoughts of revenge you may have for example
✫Drink something really cold
✫Hide under blankets and scoot into a corner to feel more safe
✫Watch a comfort show to get your mind on other things
✫Try to put names to what you can physically feel. If you feel something you cannot see, then it can't hurt you. Focus instead on feeling the things you CAN see like a soft blanket or hoodie
DON'T tag this as little*space or cgl*re (without the stars too obv)
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Little Xiao Headcanons
Caregivers: Zhongli (primary), Traveler, Ganyu (babysits if Zhongli or the Traveler isn’t available), Guizhong (past), Bosacius (past), Indarias (past), Bananus (past), Menogais (past)
- Xiao is a baby regressor with an age range of about 0-2 years old. He has never gone over the mental age of 2 any time he has regressed
- Despite regressing being his main and most effective coping mechanism, Xiao is very stubborn about actually doing it. He will push off his urge to regress for as long as he can before he inevitably just slips into it with very little chance to react. He does this due to his pride and sense of duty. Xiao thinks it makes him weak and useless despite being reassured that it does not and that its healthy for him
- Nicknames are the quickest way to get Xiao to regress when he’s resisting it. Calling him things like: Birdie, Little bird, Sweetheart, Blossom, Little Yaksha, and hatchling. Will easily make him regress
- Xiao is completely non verbal when he regresses. He has communication cards but they only tend to see use when he is on the older end of his age range. Most other times he just babbles and squeaks to get his point across. Xiao also chirps a lot when regressed. Doesn’t matter when or why he will just start chirping like the baby bird he is
- The chronic pain of Xiao’s karmic debt is what usually pushes him to regressing. Due to this he tends to be very lethargic and low energy while little. He does get medicine from Zhongli to help with is pain and make him more comfortable
- Due to Xiao being very low energy he tends to spend a lot of his time curled up on his caregivers lap or in blanket nests. He’s got three main blanket nests he practically lives in when little: there's one in his room at Wangshu Inn, one in Zhongli’s office at the funeral parlour, and one in the Traveler’s Teapot. Impromptu nests are built when he doesn't have access to his main ones
- When Xiao has the energy he likes simple and calm activities. Playing with his stuffies and other toys, colouring (he only does this on the older side of his age range) and playing with sensory toys
- Xiao is still very picky about what he eats. There are only a handful of things you can actually get him to consume. He will eat jello, tofu (of course), some soups, yogurt, oatmeal, apple sauce, other pureed fruits, and he also does like formula
- Since Xiao regresses so young it’s rather uncommon to see him without a pacifier or some sort of teether in his mouth
- Xiao has three favourite stuffies that reside in each one his main blanket nests. The nest in Wangshu Inn has a very old and worn bird plushie that his fellow Yaksha had gotten for him that’s lovingly named Wisp. The nest in Zhongli’s office has a large brown toad stuffie called Azzie (named after Azhdaha). In the nest in the Traveler’s teapot is a plush weasel named Dusty which was bought by the Traveler for Xiao during lantern rite
These headcanons were requested by an anon! Thanks again for the request :D!





