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Mr. Empty Shell

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“Oh, won’t you be mine—again and again and again? No matter what happens I have always loved you so. And I love you still. Happily, happily foreverafterwards—the best we could.”

— Zelda Fitzgerald in a letter to F. Scott Fitzgerald, c. 1936

[My grandmother] had been married at fifteen, had borne seven children before she was twenty-four. With her hands she had sorted a lifetime of rice and lentils, had gutted fish and deboned chicken. She knew how to upholster furniture and help grapevine spread and climb, how to cover bruises and scars so no one could see them, how to measure the value of her life and still rise.

Dima Alzayat, from "Daughters of Manāt", Alligator & Other Stories

The mortifying ordeal of being forgotten.

Danny Castillones Sillada, Those Sweet and Painful Memories // Artwork by @/zhihuie on twitter // V.E. Schwab, The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue // Halsey, Angel on Fire // Steve Salo, Forgotten Art // Halsey, Angel on Fire // Sarah Thebarge, The Invisible Girls // Mitski, Working for the Knife // Artwork by @/bekysfairy on ig // Octavio Paz, tr. by Eliot Weinberger, from The Poems of Octavio Paz; “The Prisoner”

“A lot of the time you hear people say that the best thing people can do for nature is to stay away from it and let it be. There are places where that’s absolutely true and our people respected that. But we were also given the responsibility to care for land. What people forget is that that means participating—that the natural world relies on us to do good things. You don’t show your love and care by putting what you love behind a fence. You should be involved. You have to contribute to the well-being of the world.”

Robin Wall Kimmerer, Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants

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MARCH '23 READINGS

  1. Elephants in the Roomprose
  2. The Sinking Pleasure of a Bathprose
  3. Consider the Lobster (and the Greenland Shark): On the Animals That Don’t Ageprose
  4. On the pleasures of hand-writing letters you’ll never sendprose
  5. Only cats: photographs of house-proud felines at leisurephotography
  6. Why We Confessprose
  7. The 'Enshittification' of TikTokprose
  8. Victory Cityprose
  9. In praise of boredominstagram post
  10. I Called Off My Wedding. The Internet Will Never Forgetprose
  11. An Apparent Lowering Of Moral Standards In The Lepidopteraprose
  12. Do you know about the Dead Letter Office?prose
  13. The creative legacy of Gifs: Past, present and futureprose
  14. Instead Of Dyingprose (tw: alcoholism)
  15. The First Family of Human Cannonballingprose
  16. Pictures are the eyes of the facecomics
  17. Finding Awe Amid Everyday Splendorprose
  18. The Junkification of Amazonprose
  19. Fighting for Girls' Education No Matter Whatprose
  20. SorryWatchwebsite
  21. Sofia Coppola’s Marie Antoinetteprose
  22. Storm Cycleprose (tw: rape, child molestation)
  23. 2023 Intentionsprose
  24. fridge poetrywebsite
  25. Crushed.prose
  26. Madonna's Face Is Not Subversiveprose
  27. The NYT Op-Ed I Just Took A Kill Fee For.prose
  28. When Food is the Only Narrative We Consumecomic, prose
  29. Can Fiction Introduce Empathy Into AI? Do We Want It To?prose
  30. Sam Bankman-Fried is not a childprose
  31. I Never Asked to Be the Face of a Movementprose (tw: binge-eating, eating disorder)
  32. The Unique Pleasures of Letter-Writing in a Era of Impulsive Interactionprose
  33. How People Thinkprose
  34. Platonicprose
  35. who you callin wombat headprose
  36. The Prompt Box is a Minefield: AI Chatbots and Power of Languageprose
  37. Children of the Ice Ageprose
  38. The Muralistprose
  39. Effortless Restprose
  40. Dating Apps Have a Filter Bubble Problemprose

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“How can so many things become a bore by middle age — philosophy, radicalism, and other fast foods — but heartbreak keeps its sting?”

— Andrew Sean Greer, Less 

i love all the words we have that mean traveler. i love the shades of difference between wanderer and rambler and rover. i love the boldness of adventurer and the purposefulness of explorer, the lawlessness of vagabond and the capability of wayfarer, the quiet reverence of pilgrim and the wild rootlessness of nomad.