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Yeah those are the freaky ones I’m always hunting for😈😂

Pin this on your mirror or computer screen so you see it every day.

Kristina Mahr

So much "soft Dom" content is literally like.

"soft doms are so great because they get consent."

And

"I love soft doms because they worry about aftercare."

Or

"soft doms check in with you during a scene isn't that lovely."

Y'all. Every Dom should do those things. Every single Dom. Thats just being a Dom.

Original thread:

https://mobile.twitter.com/DianaMiller5/status/1522278413096132609?cxt=HHwWgoC53deJnKAqAAAA

Note, I am finding these threads on the twitter feeds of ICU nurses who are now dreading the horrors that Roe falling will bring to their hospitals. This, on top of the horrors that they’ve seen and continue to see because of the pandemic. They were already exhausted and hanging by a thread.

Cuddling with no pants on and tangling legs with your thighs intertwined, that’s my shit right there. Sharing body heat and having skin to skin contact. Gets me way too hype.

One of the best Pokemon Go stories so far. 

THIS IS SO PURE IM CRYING

I’ll be gentle,

but that doesn’t mean

I’ll go easy on you.

A light touch

in just the right places

can be even worse

than an all-out attack.

A soft caress can draw out

exquisite reactions.

I love it when you thrash,

and beg, and howl.

But sometimes, when your lips

curl into an irrepressible grin,

and you shiver, and gasp,

and moan,

that’s even better.

I’m gonna leave this right here, just in case someone else besides me needs friendly reminders …

Ah, yes - one definitely does need to be reminded that one can survive the trials of life.

The thing is tho, that one can only get up and be the warrior if one can first be the victim. One can only find courage if one first knows the weight of being afraid, of being brought to one’s knees and of giving up.

There is no shame in quitting. There is no shame in being a victim - the concept of ‘playing’ the victim is truly repugnant in the context of trauma and the fact that it is used to shame folk who are struggling is completely reprehensible.

Quitting is in fact a very misunderstood but exceptionally important life skill. One to be mastered at deeper and more difficult levels as one matures. If one does not master the art of turning away from - quitting - that which no longer serves, one cannot move in any direction, let alone forward.

And no amount of positivity can propel you forward. Especially not the kind of rubbish that is marketed as ‘positivity’ by the self help movement. That ‘positivity’ often amounts to nothing more than denial. Denying ones feelings, circumstances, experiences and proclivities in order to appease society’s dismissal of anything ‘weak’ and appear in control of one’s life results in failure, every time. Which of course leads to more experience of unfairness and further misery.

And this will continue until one realises that one is a victim. And owns that. Until one realises that all of the supposed negative aspects of life - hatred, anger, being a victim, weakness, negativity, unfairness, sadness, madness etc are ALL VALID - ALL NECESSARY and are just life being life. Just like all the supposed positive aspects, they serve a purpose. Such things cannot be replaced or rejected. They can only be accepted and owned.

Until one realises that only by owning where and who you are - on your knees, waiting for death, having given up any hope of redemption, perhaps - can you choose to get the fuck up and Do Important Things.

Because you have seen the darkness and you know the demons who reside there and you know that they will take your hand, lift you up and give you back your sword.

Because you have embraced and accepted each one as your own and so they become your allies - as they were always designed to be.

And so you become the Warrior.

Achievement Unlocked.

@submissive-seeking it looks like I totally hijacked your post - I’m sorry… I do however, feel very strongly regarding this topic (duh) and while I didn’t plan on waffling on for quite so long, I did want to share these thoughts with you. I believe it is important to talk about these concepts and for us to try to help each other learn a gentler, kinder way of being.

And since I’m here, I would like to say thank you to you for being a courageous voice for kindness and wisdom🌻

@itsshinycollectordestinyworld

Letting go and moving on (sometimes called quitting) is a highly underrated skill…

You both have said this so well! Thank you! I think we all encounter it at some point in our lives. Learning to let go and not give up isn’t taught and sometimes takes awhile learn….

Not every path is right for you; it is more than okay to stop, regroup, and make a new plan. No undertaking extends with any certainty beyond your first encounter with genuine resistance and adaptation, flexibility, can only account for so much. ❄️💚❄️ ~Thorny

— Caitlin Hinshaw, Literary Sexts (via larmoyante)

Make her laugh everyday!!

@lukeandrew_taylor (ig)