this is the most hardcore comeback ive ever seen

apply for jobs you’re not qualified for! audit upper-level classes! get drunk with your TAs! see that poster advertising that lecture series? go there take notes and ask questions! thank the presenter for talking about this topic you love! if the class is full before you register, email the professor and ask if they can squeeze you in! RAISE YOUR HAND! tell the disability accomodation office to do their goddamn job! ask for help! file complaints! go to class in your pajamas and destroy the reading! you got this! you KNOW you got this! be arrogant enough to learn EVERYTHING! take your meds! punch a velociraptor in the dick! fear is useless and temporary! glory is forever! shed your skin and erupt angel wings! help out! spread your sun!

i had a really good morning! you deserve a really good morning! kill anyone who says you don’t and build a throne from their bones!

Oddly inspiring

Hot takes that will probably get me called a bigot on this hellhole

👏🏿ALL👏GENDERS👏🏻AND👏🏼RACES👏🏽DESERVE👏🏾RESPECT👏🏿

Spread this around; remind the world that for every Nazi, there’s an entire train full of sensible people capable of basic moral behaviour. 

Saw this somewhere else and felt the need to post it cause no one else ever really tells you this stuff

My mom never really noticed. She noticed when she was breast feeding my little brother and blood started coming out instead of milk. 

My mom said she felt and saw a little lump in the shower. She was lucky enough she found it at stage 2

My mom had a mammogram. The radiologist thought the spots were just regular calcium deposits. 

Turns out it was triple negative breast cancer that had spread to her lymph nods. Mastectomy, radiation and chemo saved her life.

This could SAVE a life.

dont be embarrassed to reblog, this post could be life saving

Signal BOOST and pass it on. I had a breast cancer scare before (luckily it was just scar tissue…) and information like this kept me calm and collected at the doc’s.

As a cancer patient myself, who found my own cancer through a supposed LARPing injury last year, i know how scary it is and how important it is to catch it early. Please spread this around!

listen to ur boobs

its all in the boobs

hoW MANY TIMES AM I GOING TO REBLOG THIS ! SORRY FOLLOWERS , #sorrynotsorry

Always reblog! 

REBLOG,THIS COULD SAVE SOMEBODY!!! DONT BE EMBARRASSED!!!

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Reminder that anyone who grew their own breast tissue can get breast cancer. That includes trans women, intersex peeps, and cis men who may not have been aware there could be some breast tissue in there. The only way to be sure you don’t have any at all is if you’ve had it all removed. If you’ve had tissue removed for reasons other than cancer, they likely didn’t remove all of it. If you find something weird, regardless of who you are or how you identify, get it checked out.

All of you should reblog this. Breast cancer affects everyone and there’s not enough information about it.

This is important! Listen to your breasts fam. Don’t get caught out with final stage cancer

Also folks who have had mastectomies for gender reasons need to still check.

*cracks knuckles*

Here we go;

• ‘Promise’ has broken Drake’s record of most streams in 24 hours by almost 4 million streams.

• It has become the most streamed BTS song on souncloud in just four days. It has been on soundclouds front page for two days.

•The song and the records it broke was reported by 145 media outlets in total(approx).

- Three of the biggest Korean music news outlets and international media including, Rolling Stones, billboard, NME, NY times, ET and freakin Forbes.

This was his first official solo and it has already set limits that’ll be hard for anyone to break. His first solo has taken over the world, literally.

Kmedia and international media are in no mood to stop reporting about this song and the man behind it all. I’m honestly so content right now.

This, right here, is what he deserves. What he is made of. This is what happens when you don’t give a shit about the people who’re hating and trying to bring you down. This is what happens when you just focus on your work and ignore the people who are trying to undercut your success or take credit for your achievements.

He is statistically the most popular solo artist right now and not just in Korea. All this in just four damn days. You see, this is what Jimin is capable of; he’s not some damsel in distress as they portray him to be in burn the stage. He doesn’t need your praise or acceptance. He knows he’s fire and this man right here slayed the music scene in merely four days. So keep your ideas of him being weak or insecure within your head cause, his insecurities have made him stronger and as for now, Park Jimin is so damn powerful that he drops free songs that break commercial music records.

• Lie has the most streams out of all solos on Spotify.

• Serendipity has the most views out of all intros.

• Promise is the most streamed BTS song on soundcloud and literally just broke a global record.

So here’s a personal request to all you Jimin antis out here;

Keep hating him, keep calling him names, please oh please keep making fun of his voice cracks and his eyes and everything you can think of. Go ahead, try and bring him down with your words and discredit him for his positions in the group. Do whatever you can to hate on him but always remember that

Meanwhile Jimin somewhere, most probably;

[KOR/ENG LYRICS] 약속 (Promise) by Jimin

Korean

혼자 주저 앉아 생각만 커져가 언제부터 넌 날 아프게 했던가 너조차도 모르잖아

너도 아프잖아 cause you’re mine I just wanna blow your mind 이렇게 넌 또 멀어져만 가는데 아무렇지 않은데 그렇게 말하는데 사실은 내가 그게 아닌가봐

I want you to be your light baby You should be your light 더는 아프지 않게 니가 웃을 수 있게 I want you to be your night baby You could be your night 이 밤이 너에게 솔직할 수 있게

너도 아프잖아 cause you’re mine I just wanna blow your mind 이렇게 넌 또 멀어져만 가는데 아무렇지 않은데 그렇게 말하는데 사실은 내가 그게 아닌가봐

I want you to be your light baby You should be your light 더는 아프지 않게 니가 웃을 수 있게 I want you to be your night baby You could be your night 이 밤이 너에게 솔직할 수 있게

이젠 내게 약속해 uh oh 하루에 몇번씩 uh oh 혼자라 느껴도 uh oh 널 버리지는마  uh oh  uh oh

여기 잠깐 멈춰서 새끼손가락 걸고 이젠 내게 약속해 uh oh uh oh

English

Sitting on the floor all alone Only my thoughts are growing bigger Since when did you start hurting me Not even you know

You’re hurting too, right, cause you’re mine I just wanna blow your mind Just like this you only drift farther away again I don’t really care That’s what I say but In reality, that doesn’t seem to be the case for me

I want you to be your light baby You should be your light So that it doesn’t hurt anymore So that you can smile I want you to be your night baby You could be your night So that this night Can be honest to you

You’re hurting too, right, cause you’re mine I just wanna blow your mind Just like this you only drift farther away again I don’t really care That’s what I say but In reality, that doesn’t seem to be the case for me

I want you to be your light baby You should be your light So that it doesn’t hurt anymore So that you can smile I want you to be your night baby You could be your night So that this night Can be honest to you

Now promise me uh oh Multiple times in a day uh oh Even if you feel like you’re all alone uh oh Don’t throw yourself away uh oh uh oh uh oh

Stop for a moment here Putting out the pinky finger Now promise me uh oh uh oh

You are not running behind in life!

When you want/have to start over in your education, career or relationships it’s natural to feel hesitant about starting late. The pressure of needing to rebuild everything quickly for fear of running behind is a trick. There is always time to start something new or fresh. You don’t have to ‘catch up’ with everyone.

A while back I heard my friend (male) insult another dude by saying, “You look like the kind of guy who wouldn’t go to Wal-Mart to buy his girlfriend a box of tampons” and I still think about that crowning insult sometimes

My dad once called another guy “someone who thinks loading the dishwasher once in a while makes him less of a man”

I like your dad already

one time my dad’s boss was giving him shit for always leaving work early so he could get home and help my mom with me when i was a newborn and his boss said “i’ve never changed a diaper in my life” really proudly and my dad responded “i’d be ashamed to ever admit i was that worthless of a husband”

oh WOW

This is by far my most popular post.

this is so important

GOOD LUCK

Reblog if you think every animal deserves to be happy and safe.

ok universe, i’m ready to feel good things. make me feel good things.

whenever i post this it works  reblog if u want to feel good things & the universe will bring u something sweet 

My 2019 Goals, Resolutions, Hopes and Dreams

I kind of really don’t like making resolutions, because I never keep them, no matter how much I know I should. But it doesn’t feel right not doing it, so instead I am making known all my goals and dreams for the next 365 days of life. I ask people reading this to encourage me and help me stay on a better path then last year! Send messages and asks to me!

1) Get back to weight loss Too long I have made half-ass attempts to take care of myself, but in reality I need to do this and focus. It is for me and my health. Also, I am wasting too many clothes. I need to workout and eat a healthy diet. 

2) Get through my 5 levels of Talk To Me in Korean books, possibly start attending a class when I move to Seoul in March. My parents are coming and I want to be as helpful as possible to them. Also for living in Korea for 2.5 years, my level is garbage.

3) Start running my Tumblr again like I used to Updates pictures and things from me instead of a Queue of other people’s posts. I want to make this a place where people can get fitness inspiration and also enjoy kpop!

4) Keep my apartment clean I really let my apartment get disgusting and truthfully it added to the depression. I feel better when it is clean, so I should keep it that way.

5) Put more effort into creating things for my students to do I am lucky to have found a job I love, in a country I truly enjoy being in (even though sometimes I just need a break from it). But I should give my students more fun activities to do and give them some fun ways to learn English.

6) Be more social especially in person I really want to work on putting my phone down and giving my attention to my friends. I also want to go out more and make new friends. I also want to reestablish better friendships with people and my family back in the states and here in Korea. 

7) Spend less money on things and more on experiences I started to Travel more this year with trips to Osaka, Tokyo, Busan, and Sokcho. I felt so much better after each trip. I want to try to visit two places next year that I haven’t been like Thailand, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Vietnam or others. I am also happier just doing things with people, like picnics, hanging out and exploring.

8) Move on from the past I tend to hold on to things and memories. The thing is, they clutter our lives and make it hard to move forward. No more keeping little scraps of paper or holding on to memories that are painful for me. Declutter my space and mind.

9) Be more helpful to the people who need it and deserve it This year was a lesson that some people who ask for help don’t actually want it and just want attention. It’s also taught me that people will take help but not be there for you when you need it most.

10)  When it comes to dating, I want to be 100% genuinely me and find a guy who likes me for that and who has a personality that is complementary of mine. I was with someone for the first part of the year who promised he loved me and he wanted to settle down and get married. We talked about the future often. Looking back though there were so many red flags, like how I was almost a seperate part of his life when I was always including him in mine. He wanted things a certain way and it caused arguments. I only recently found out more like realized there was another woman involved in our break up. No one deserves that shit. It really hurt me and I had to relive my break up again because of learning the new information, but it has made me realize more than ever before, he wasn’t right for me and wanted to change me. I deserve better than him and I will not settle.

11) Make sure the people who I love know that I care and they can come to me for anything, no matter how far apart we are or how much they think I don’t care. I isolated myself after that break up and I know what it feels like to feel lost and depressed. I want to be someone people can go to for anything even if just to talk or sit in silence in a cafe together. 

12) Keep working to maintain control on my anxiety and depression I have done good on this, especially considering the past 3 years of my life, but you have to continue to work or it will come back.

13) Be more positive in general You never know when people just need a smile or a friendly face. And the world is negative enough, be the change you want to see.

Well, goodbye 2018. You were a year full of lessons and some really tough times. But I will cherish the memories I made with people who matter and the times I spent with my students finding my passion in teaching ESL kindergarten. I lived, I loved and I learned.   And with that, I will try to rise up during 2019 and conquer whatever comes my way and help the people in my life do the same.

Never let anyone tell you that you’ve lost your Salvation.

FEELING WORTHLESS BY THE END OF THE YEAR? READ THIS:

The year is ending, and you might think “What have I done all these days”

Only one word will come … “NOTHING”

But that’s because you decided to be yourselves biggest hater

No matter what you do, you will belittle it

Now imagine if you had someone all the time next to you telling you these things wouldn’t you start to believe them?

Wouldn’t you want to run away from that person? But this person is YOU so what would you do?

So let me tell you how you can magically change it all. 

First of all, start to answer yourself whenever you say something negative with something positive

For example: If the voice inside you tells you “I did nothing this year” Tell them “You survived when others gave up, aren’t I brave and amazing? yes I am”

If the voice tells you “You are worthless” you can answer it “Tell that to people who love me and can’t see this word without me”

If the voice tell you “Finish it all” you SCREAM “YOU SAID THE SAME THING LAST YEAR BUT LOOK AT ME I AM STILL HERE”

Some might call you crazy if you talk to yourself but aren’t we all a little insane inside?

This year too, you lived each day and made so many memories even though you refuse to recall them or call them memories because all you did might be spending your days in school, at work or in your room. But still, if you just watched a video of BTS winning someday and share the smiles with millions that’s a memory. 

Dear, On this earth we make our own value. You define yourself, no one defines you. So please stop letting the darkness in and smile.

If you read this post that means that you are either one of my followers or part of my fandom. And for me no ARMY is worthless. No human is worthless. 

AND I love and purple you <3

A better, more positive Tumblr

Since its founding in 2007, Tumblr has always been a place for wide open, creative self-expression at the heart of community and culture. To borrow from our founder David Karp, we’re proud to have inspired a generation of artists, writers, creators, curators, and crusaders to redefine our culture and to help empower individuality.

Over the past several months, and inspired by our storied past, we’ve given serious thought to who we want to be to our community moving forward and have been hard at work laying the foundation for a better Tumblr. We’ve realized that in order to continue to fulfill our promise and place in culture, especially as it evolves, we must change. Some of that change began with fostering more constructive dialogue among our community members. Today, we’re taking another step by no longer allowing adult content, including explicit sexual content and nudity (with some exceptions).  

Let’s first be unequivocal about something that should not be confused with today’s policy change: posting anything that is harmful to minors, including child pornography, is abhorrent and has no place in our community. We’ve always had and always will have a zero tolerance policy for this type of content. To this end, we continuously invest in the enforcement of this policy, including industry-standard machine monitoring, a growing team of human moderators, and user tools that make it easy to report abuse. We also closely partner with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and the Internet Watch Foundation, two invaluable organizations at the forefront of protecting our children from abuse, and through these partnerships we report violations of this policy to law enforcement authorities. We can never prevent all bad actors from attempting to abuse our platform, but we make it our highest priority to keep the community as safe as possible.

So what is changing?

Posts that contain adult content will no longer be allowed on Tumblr, and we’ve updated our Community Guidelines to reflect this policy change. We recognize Tumblr is also a place to speak freely about topics like art, sex positivity, your relationships, your sexuality, and your personal journey. We want to make sure that we continue to foster this type of diversity of expression in the community, so our new policy strives to strike a balance.

Why are we doing this?

It is our continued, humble aspiration that Tumblr be a safe place for creative expression, self-discovery, and a deep sense of community. As Tumblr continues to grow and evolve, and our understanding of our impact on our world becomes clearer, we have a responsibility to consider that impact across different age groups, demographics, cultures, and mindsets. We spent considerable time weighing the pros and cons of expression in the community that includes adult content. In doing so, it became clear that without this content we have the opportunity to create a place where more people feel comfortable expressing themselves.

Bottom line: There are no shortage of sites on the internet that feature adult content. We will leave it to them and focus our efforts on creating the most welcoming environment possible for our community.

So what’s next?

Starting December 17, 2018, we will begin enforcing this new policy. Community members with content that is no longer permitted on Tumblr will get a heads up from us in advance and steps they can take to appeal or preserve their content outside the community if they so choose. All changes won’t happen overnight as something of this complexity takes time.

Another thing, filtering this type of content versus say, a political protest with nudity or the statue of David, is not simple at scale. We’re relying on automated tools to identify adult content and humans to help train and keep our systems in check. We know there will be mistakes, but we’ve done our best to create and enforce a policy that acknowledges the breadth of expression we see in the community.

Most importantly, we’re going to be as transparent as possible with you about the decisions we’re making and resources available to you, including more detailed information, product enhancements, and more content moderators to interface directly with the community and content.

Like you, we love Tumblr and what it’s come to mean for millions of people around the world. Our actions are out of love and hope for our community. We won’t always get this right, especially in the beginning, but we are determined to make your experience a positive one.

Jeff D’Onofrio CEO