The older we get, the more we realize who our real friends are. It's not always about who has known us the longest, it's about who makes us feel seen, heard, understood, appreciated, supported, and loved.
I think when you’re evolving from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so strange, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings for once, because you’re so used to only thinking about others first.
"Somedays I just want to be loved, others I just wanna disappear..."
Voliš da brineš o ljudima jer to leči dio tebe,dio koji niko nije znao da leči…
“Some cry with tears; others with thoughts.”
— Octavio Paz
“loving yourself is not an easy thing to do. some days will be better than others while some days will be much worse. try to be kind to yourself. it takes time.”
— Unknown
“Sometimes beautiful things come into our lives out of nowhere. We can’t always understand them, but we have to trust in them. I know you want to question everything, but sometimes it pays to just have a little faith.”
— Lauren Kate, Torment
“The soul always knows what to do to heal itself, the challenge is to silence the mind.”
— Book of serenity
“And if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn’t really change the fact that you have what you have. Good and bad.”
— Stephen Chbosky; The Perks of Being a Wallflower
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Anime: your lie in April
"The one that got away"
not everything has to be productive. you are allowed to be a little silly and goofy. you are allowed to rest. take some time for yourself today. there is so much more to life than work, and you deserve to experience it. feel the sun on your face, stretch your body, call a friend, have a little fun. your work will not suffer for it & will be there when you’ve had some time.
Remember who checks on you when you get quiet, those are your people.
I need to go on a 6 hour drive and just zone out and listen to music
“But then it passed, as all things do.”
— Khaled Hosseini, And the Mountains Echoed
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please stop asking me how i'm doing, idk i'm ignoring it