idk what traumatized or mentally ill person needs to hear this but dreams (especially the really disturbing ones you dont want to talk about to anybody) arent some deep peek into your psyche or a sign of your True Desires or whatever theyre quite literally your brain making fruit salad with whatever it can find on the shelf. just putting all that shit in a blender and hitting obliterate. its fine, youre fine, youre not a weirdo for it
If reincarnation is real I wonder how many people stare at their own art in museums, listen to their own music they made in a different life and read books they don't remember writing
I need you all to know that I'm thinking about this post on a daily basis. How many people discover their own graves? How many stares at their own mummies? Visit monuments without remembering they built them?
Maybe our souls are meant to forget so we can discover the world one more time, find beauty again in the little things we had become familiar with, learn again how to love the people we knew for years, find peace and inspiration in the things we did in a different life and were once ashamed of.
Anonymous asked:
Ana, I have always been the underdog and I’m tired of. Of course there will always be someone prettier smarter more talented/experienced then me. But ever since I was younger I was always the less attractive and less smarter/awkward friend. I know I’m pretty and nice, but every time I do something jn a group it’s always me that’s the worse at it. And it’s obvious I get judged me it because people will make side comments. This has been the case since I was younger and now in my 30s still the case. Do you have any advice for someone always being the underdog?
the way you see yourself shapes your reality. when you focus on the loss, you focus on creating this image of yourself as a loser. how about, when you lose, you turn it into a joke and get people laughing? that way, the perception is that you are enjoying your time.
you're in your 30's. What you've been doing hasn't been working. Your thought process needs to be adjusted. Therapy, mindfulness techniques, manifestation, whatever you want to do. Just do something different.
Anonymous asked:
Hello Ana! 💐 I sent a message a few weeks ago asking for interview tips, and I took them into account for the interviews I had scheduled. I didn’t hear back from the one I specifically asked about, but I ended up getting an offer that was better compensation and exactly the field that I want to go into!! They said they really enjoyed the interview and I went into it with your mindset 🤭 Thank you for your advice and wishing you the very best xo
I love this for you! 🌷🪻🫶🏻🫧
Anonymous asked:
I've been following you on and off for years, as a fellow albanian its been a great journey into seeing what someone that (what I assume) has left and still tries to keep connections with their heritage. Very proud to see albanians go on and be wise.
It’s my identity, it will be my children’s heritage or half their heritage depending on their father. I love being Albanian but I don’t try to keep up with how Albanians do things in any place. You can have your own personality and ideas & you’d still be Albanian for the fact that that’s where your blood is from. I’m just vibing :)
Anonymous asked:
"te kam xhan" is such a top tier albanian phrase. Not I love you, or like you, just te kam xhan
“I am fond of you” is the closest translation that I can find in my personal equivalence search. It really is such a tender sentiment.
