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It’s been a devastating summer — and year — for headlines like this one. 

Erykah Tijerina, a 36-year-old Latina transgender woman, was found murdered in an apartment in El Paso on Monday. She becomes the 18th trans person reported murdered in the United States this year. Three Black trans women were murdered in the month of July alone. 

Mey Rude writes for Autostraddle:

Remember, last year, when we were shocked, terrified and disgusted at how many trans women were being murdered, we saw at least 21 reported murders of trans people. That’s just three more than we already have this year and we still have four months left. Again this year, most of the victims are trans women, most of them are Black, and most of them are Black trans women or other trans women of color who sleep with men. 
This is just in the United States. In other countries trans women and other trans people are murdered at even higher rates. In Brazil alone, at least 48 trans women were murdered just in January of this year. And I emphasize “at least” because the real number is likely much higher. How are trans women of color supposed to survive this? How are we supposed to function in a society that keeps on targeting, torturing and murdering us? How are we supposed to make it out alive?

Erykah’s family has set up a GoFundMe to raise money for her funeral costs here. Please help if you can. Rest in peace and power.

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Suicide Hotlines and Mental Health Services

Emery says:

Hello, everyone! I’ve gathered together some resources for those of you that are going through a very difficult time. We would love to help each and every one of you individually, but answering asks from suicidal anons puts us in a very questionable legal situation. Also, since many of us mods have dealt with suicide in our lives, it is a very difficult topic for us to cover. Nonetheless, I hope all of you are able to benefit from this mental health resource list that I have put together. 

I believe in each and every one of you, and as cliche as it sounds, it can get better. As someone who has been in the same situation, you can take it from me. This existence of ours can often feel like ascending a mountain without any climbing gear, but it is possible to do so when you have a bit of help. I know that all of you can reach the peak if you are just given a helping hand.

Much love. <3

Suicide Hotlines

- Trans Lifeline - US.: (877-565-8860) or Canada: (877-330-6366)

- The Trevor Project’s “Trevor Lifeline” - (866-488-7386); they also have a texting and online chatting service.

- CrisisChat - www.crisischat.org (an online chatting service)

- Crisis Text Line -  www.crisistextline.org (texting service)

- Longislandcrisiscenter.org - US: (516-679-1111); they also offer online chatting services.

Non-Crisis Mental Health Resources

- 7 cups of tea - an online chatting service. It’s not really meant for crisis situations, but it can used to talk about a host of issues with other individuals. It appears to be mostly geared toward mental health support and discussion.

- www.dbsalliance.org/ - a nationally recognized organization that offers support and resources for those dealing with bipolar disorder(s) and depression.

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acedork

♡  trans people who don’t take hormones are still trans  ♡

♡  trans people who don’t have surgery are still trans  ♡

♡  trans boys who dress or act feminine are still trans  ♡

♡  trans girls who dress or act masculine are still trans  ♡

♡  there’s no right or wrong way to be trans  ♡

♡  you are “trans enough”  ♡

♡  you’re just as valid as every other trans person  ♡

♡  take whatever path makes you happy  ♡

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Anonymous asked:

Shapeshifters is so confusing. I went on there and went through the website and couldn't find anything on custom sizes.

Ora says:

When ordering, you put your measurements in the notes section. 

They have a link in the description of the item that shows what measurements they need for the type of binder you’re ordering (crop top, full length, extra long). Hope this is helpful!

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So I decided to make a newer version because the previous photo was too difficult to read. Hopefully this one is better and if you could boost this one instead, that would be great! -Caleb —————————————————————

UK LGBT HELPLINES

LGBT

Supportline: 01708 765200

Samaritans: 08457 90 90 90

Childline: 0800 1111 (Up to the age of 18)

Mind: 0300 123 3393 (for 18 years old and up)

The Mix: 0808 808 4994

LGBT Helpline Scotland: 0300 123 2523 (Open every Tuesday and Wednesday from 12pm - 9pm)

LGBT+ Switchboard: 0300 330 0630 (Every day from 10am - 11pm)

Breathing Space: 0800 83 85 87 (24 hours at weekends 6pm Friday - 6am Monday, 6pm to 2am on weekdays Monday - Thursday)

Gay and Lesbian Youth Northern Ireland: 02890 89 02 02

LGBT Cymru Helpline: 0800 840 2069 (Open Monday and Wednesday 7pm-9pm)

Transgender

The Beaumont Society: 01582 412220

Gender Trust: 01527 894838

Gires: 01372 801554

Mermaids: 0844 334 0550

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The trans community lost at least two beautiful souls this week.

Erykah Tijerina, 36, El Paso, TX

A trans woman found murdered in an apartment in south central El Paso on Monday, August 9 has been identified as 36-year-old Latina trans woman Erykah Tijerina (warning for misgendering at link).

Rae'Lynn Thomas, 28, Columbus, OH

Columbus, Ohio police are investigating the death of 28-year-old Rae'Lynn Thomas, who was shot and killed by her mother’s ex-boyfriend, who lived with her family at the time, according to WBNS  (warning for misgendering at link).

Learn their names. Read their stories. Seek justice. We must #‎StopTransViolence‬.

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I tend to see a lot of “trans men are not real men” and “trans men are not biological men” but the thing is, we are real and biological men.

From the day we were born, our gender has always been male, just that we were assigned a gender different to that and lived according to that assigned gender, but we have always been male.

There is increasing evidence that gender identity is biological, and since “male” does not only refer to someone’s sex, I’d say that we sound pretty real and biological to me.

-Caleb

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10 inspiring reasons to help TLC on #GiveOUTday

Schedule your gift for Aug. 2 at bit.ly/TLCgiveout

1.TLC leads skill-based trainings to educate local trans leaders in the states facing anti-trans legislation & ballot initiatives.

2.TLC increases public understanding of the lives and struggles of trans folks and their families through compelling storytelling.

3. Our Positively Trans program centers the voices, needs and leadership of trans and gender nonconforming people living with HIV/AIDS.

4. TLC’s Detention Project works to end the abuses transgender and gender nonconforming people face in prisons, jails, immigration detention, state hospitals and at the hands of law enforcement.

5. TLC@SONG, a collaboration, marries our legal & policy expertise with Southerners On New Ground’s southern organizing prowess.

6. When #HB2 hit North Carolina, TLC@SONG responded with a mix of legal strategies, organized resistance and other efforts on the ground.

7. TLC educates government officials about the specific needs of trans women immigrants, particularly those in detention facilities.

8. In 2015, the TLC Helpline responded to more than 2,660 requests for legal information and assistance. Go #TransJustice!

9. In 2015, TLC and sister organizations gathered 100+ leaders for the National Trans Anti-Violence Convening, the first national gathering on anti-trans violence.

10. TRUTH, a collaboration between TLC & GSA Network, is building a national trans & GNC youth storytelling movement. #ProtectTransYouth

Give to an intersectional, trans POC-Led organization!

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7/11 breathing. A skill to use for anxiety. It’s recommended to do it for 10-15 minutes. Like any other skill it does require a lot of practice. I advice that you practice it when you are feeling calm so you are ready in a time of need. If you lose count, which is easily done, simply start again until you do 15 minutes. It will also help with distraction even if you don’t get it right the first hundred times.

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Breathing out longer than you breathe in actually activates your parasympathetic nervous system!

Anxiety is your sympathetic nervous system (“fight or flight”) setting off all the alarms, while breathing like this will set the parasympathetic system (“rest and digest”) into action shutting off the alarms and settling your nerves.

Other things that help: laughing, checking out what’s going on around you (moving head and eyes to orient to your surroundings), getting curious about something.

Take care, be safe.

This is so interesting anxiety is shitty but the “mechanics” (wrong word I’m tired) of it is fascinating imo. Like you get all this adrenaline and you can draw connections to ages ago when humans used fight or flight to survive on a daily basis.

I also find cold things help a lot. So a cold shower or holding/eating ice.

Also try to press besides your neck near the clavicle, it stimulates your vague nerve and so your parasympathetic sistem, it helps sooo much