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Slapeloos

@mijnslapelozenachten-blog

22 jaar - queer - she/they - hier schrijf ik mijn gedachten

"No one can love you until you love yourself" is like the worst possible way of articulating "if you don't respect and value yourself, it's very easy to become attracted to people who don't treat you right and then justify their mistreatment, so be careful."

so THAT'S what it's supposed to mean. that actually makes sense.

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Honestly tiktok is so bad for like self monitoring bc every now and then even if i say i'm not interested i get videos of like "how to keep ur curtain bangs intact" or how to look glamorous and always fresh despite life's most difficult circumstances and then i'm like?? it makes me think like no girl my hair is supposed to fall in different places and i will get sweaty and disheveled and dirty and oily and my make up will fade and smudge and i will not look graceful at all times because that's just how it is? And now imagine an impressionable chronically online person being fed that kind of thinking what now huh.

Shocked and horrified to find out that most people don’t view friendship as a type of romance!! Friendship and romance are so close in my head!!! I’m a little bit in love with all my friends and it really blew my mind to find out that not everyone feels this way