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This is for the girl who is always picked last. The one who roams the crowded halls scared. Scared of being looked at for too long or being laughed at for being who she is. The one who gets jokes thrown at her daily, but only to her they aren’t just funny jokes. This is for the one who has never found a way to fit in or the one who still can’t figure out who she is because she has only known the meaning of labels rather than true identity. If you’ve ever held back tears because you can’t be looked as weak, this one is for you. The one who is in a constant battle with herself because to her the definition of self- worth doesn’t exist. The girl who was left alone because everyone else said they would stay. In her reflection she sees imperfections and flaws, not a masterpiece. This is dedicated to anyone who feels unworthy of being loved only because he chose someone else. The idea of having to change has become a constant reminder to the point where hating herself was normal. This is for the girl who has hated a stranger only because he saw beautiful in her but not in you. Living her whole life trying to impress everyone else, but herself. You and I aren’t that different. We think that to be loved we have to be perfect and that to be accepted we have to accept change. Girls have been raised with the mentality that we have to be “less” than the guy. Too smart, we intimidate; too dumb, we’re ignorant; too skinny, we have an eating disorder; too fat, ew loose weight; confident, you’re vain; criticize yourself, attention seeker.We don’t realize that this is our main problem. We believe that perfection is beauty when in reality it’s not a reality. If you have small breast, big waist, no thigh gap,curves and wish to get rid of them, wish for something else because that is a waste. For the girl who wakes up in the morning and hates her body, this one is for you. The girl who keeps everything inside because she is afraid of judgement. The one who wears a mask to cover the broken pieces she is still trying to put together, this is for you, because when you think you’ve reached your lowest point you manage to fight through another day. When you find yourself in the middle of the night and tears are streaming down your face, remember that your biggest enemy is your mind and no matter how many negative things it is telling you, don’t listen because if you listen closely there is a little voice saying, “It’s all a lie.” Listen to that, because you truly are beautiful.

mermaidluv9Soul in Recovery (via wnq-writers)

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You try to push people away, but in all honesty you just want someone to hold you close no matter how hard you try, and for them to not let you go. You don’t want to get close, because you either don’t want to hurt them, or you don’t want to get hurt yourself. Vulnerability scares the living heck out of you, because instead of finding comfort in sharing things, you find the fear of being left.
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As longtime fans of One Direction – we’ve heard it all. Harry the “heartbreaker”, Harry the “womanizer”, Louis the “drunken partygoer”, Louis the “reckless idiot”, Louis the “homophobe”, as well as previous member Zayn as the “drug addict”. It all started when One Direction became a household name.

From the beginning, One Direction was formed on the basis of clichés that were created from previous boybands who had been extremely successful. In the beginning of the One Direction era, we saw the “womanizer”, the “mysterious one”, the “baby of the group”, the “leader and carer”, and the “funny one”. As One Direction and their fanbase evolved and grew up, we saw these cutesy clichés become ones that would attract an older, more mature fanbase. We saw the overused cheating scandals, drinking and endless clubbing, celebrity relationships turned sour, and the infamous BabyGate 2K15. But the spotlight has recently turned to two of the members, namely Harry and Louis

Harry has been seen for the past four years as the ‘womanizer’ who sleeps around constantly. We’ve seen bizarre stories about how he allegedly brings up to twelve girls back to his hotel when he goes out. Seriously?

This, some might say, is because from the beginning, Harry was extremely popular. He dominated the fandom as the favourite member. Majority of the fanbase are girls who would do anything to date Harry Styles, and by giving him such an image, management was able to make Harry even more desirable by making it seem as if any girl would be able to be with him because he “loves getting around.” Kind of sick, isn’t it? Luckily, times have changed.

Lately and thankfully, Harry’s image amongst the fans and the media has completely changed for the better. Where we once had new girlfriend rumours almost every month, we now have little to none. Instead, we have stories about Harry and the charities he supports, cute accounts from fans who received gifts from him because he couldn’t stop for photos, and him supporting several initiatives and movements, such as the #HeForShe campaign. He has become (and probably always was) an avid supporter of the LGBT community , constantly sharing his support on social media and at concerts. He does not conform to gender normalities, and expresses himself in his flamboyant, glittery clothing and endless supports towards issues he truly believes deserve attention.

The fans have always known him for what he truly is: a kind and caring soul, someone who stands up for those who can’t, and someone who this planet is lucky to have. All of them are even more overjoyed now that his true image is being displayed in the media. He can finally be who he is. Louis Tomlinson? Well, he’s another story.

In the early years, Louis was seen as the loud, outgoing and sarcastic boy whom everyone got a kick out of watching. He was exuberant and downright hilarious, with his striped shirts and brightly-coloured pants. Wherever Louis was, you could expect tricks and laughter. Oh, how times have changed.

Louis’ image has been moulded in to something that no teenage girl should and would ever look up to. He’s been depicted as a reckless, idiotic boy who loves the party life far too much. Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you know that he’s going to be a father with Briana Jungwirth, a girl he met at a club, whom he is said to have no romantic interest with. He’s been pictured leaving clubs drunk and with several women whom he most definitely did not arrive with. He’s been showcased to the public as downright rude when he acted up in the famous “That’s your f*cking job” video that went viral. But it didn’t start there.

He’s been labeled a homophobe and lost a ton of support from his LQBT fans when he spoke out about the articles written about him supporting LQBT rights when he wore the rainbow Apple shirt. Not once did the article mention that he was anything but straight, it merely said that he was showing support.

We’ve been informed by numerous people, including the boys, that they don’t always have control over their various social media accounts. Is this an example of something that his PR Team was involved in, rather than Louis himself? Louis has been in the news several times, being shown in a negative light. Let’s not even get in to the Drug Scandal.

But the way the media portrays him is not him at all. The real Louis Tomlinson is a man who believes that every sick child deserves to see a doctor. He is a man who constantly supports charities (and is hosting a ball for terminally-ill children involved in “Believe in Magic”, for goodness sake). He is a man who protects his fans and loves them as much as they love him. He is a man doing what he’s always wanted to, singing on stage, being a part of his own football team and making a difference in the world. He is not what the media says he is. He is an incredible human being with a heart of gold that almost never gets portrayed.

He is still the hilarious, boisterous, sarcastic boy we know and love. We just don’t get to see it anymore. Instead, we get to wake up every day to headlines like “Louis Tomlinson is going to be a dad!” and “Louis Tomlinson takes five girls back to his hotel!” instead of “Louis Tomlinson Hosts Cinderella Ball for Charity!” or “Louis Tomlinson Supports Takes Action with #ACTION1D!”

The media will constantly focus on Louis’ new “reckless” public image because sex sells, and he will continue to act and be something he is not.

Harry and Louis, we know who you really are. We’d take the good over bad, any day.

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You’re going to wake up next to her and fall asleep with her wrapped around you; you’ll trace every edge of her skin with your fingertips and you’ll smile in the middle of kissing her. You’ll love her, oh my god you’ll love her so much but just know this; she will not look at you like works of art or the stars in the sky, she won’t kiss you like you’re the oxygen that circulates in her lungs and she’s out of breathe, she won’t feel like new galaxies are being made with every touch of your hands, lips, body, soul, anything. I’ll at least tell myself she doesn’t because I loved you a whole lot more than anybody in this entire god damn universe ever could.

uncondition-l. things I could never tell you (via wnq-writers)

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DAMN. LOUIS’ VOICE PLS. BEST 2 SECONDS OF MY LIFE. HAHAHA I CAN REPEAT THIS FOREVER AND NOT GET TIRED

i may or may not have broken the replay button

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Reblog if you actually give a shit about anyone who’s suicidal or depressed.

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