People can imitate you but they can never have your same aura

I’ve started viewing my goals and daily habits as promises to myself. Whenever I consider not doing something (working out, doing my skincare, etc) I view it through the lens of someone making a promise to me and not keeping it. I think about how pissed I would be if my boyfriend or friend would constantly make promises to me and break them. Why do I give myself grace to be inconsistent that I do not give others? Eventually, if someone keeps breaking promises to you, you learn not to trust their word and not rely on them for anything. Is that the kind of relationship you want to foster with yourself? Who can you count on, if not you?

I made plans today and sometimes I don’t know why I do this to myself but I’m still gonna go

If you’re constantly repeating a Dua, making Dua at times when it’ll be accepted (ie raining, travelling, Tahajjud etc), and constantly thinking about that Dua, what gives you the impression that it won’t be accepted?

the most romantic line I ever read this year

i post for people who feel like they’re inherently unlikable to others without being able to tell what the reason is

pray about it. your mood swings, your temper, your ego, your insecurities, your mindset, your self-love, your emotional state, your environment, your relationships, your lack of motivation, your lack of execution, your attraction to bad people. give God every piece of you and every vessel. pray about it all. power of prayer is indescribable.

There’s definitely truth here. Ibn Qayyim mentioned people who struggle with patience but wish to have it by saying,

“If a person does not naturally possess the characteristic of patience, he can attain this characteristic by acting as if he does possess it, until it eventually becomes second nature.

This is what the Prophet (ﷺ) has told us in the hadith, "Whoever tries to be patient, then Allah will help him to be patient."

— Noor Shirazie

“What the hell do you spend your time doing on that phone?”

Ppl who had time for romance in high school we are so different. i was busy fighting for my life in my head

السلام عليكم

Please pray

stop doing this! it prevents you from progressing 😳

there are habits that we have that we do not realize but are slowing down our process of improvement, personal healing, or delaying our goals. it is important to identify them in order to stop doing these things. all of us at some point have done one or more of these things (myself included) so don't worry, you can change them!

stop: acting like a victim in turn: take responsibility for your life

it is not benefiting you to keep victimizing yourself and blaming other people for what may or may not have happened. learn from the situations that made you wrong so that they don't happen again or maybe there could also be an important lesson for your life. take responsibility for your actions and thoughts. we are the ones who decide whether to be offended by something or not. take the power away from the people or circumstances that cause you pain and approach it from another point of view, it can be neutral if at that moment you cannot draw any positive lessons. accept the circumstances and propose to take responsibility for your own life. you may have gone through a very traumatic situation but it is not helping you to repeat it all the time, on the contrary, you are making it bigger and it is blocking the flow of good things in your life.

stop: pay attention to what we do not like on the outside (our 3d) in turn: focus on what we do want to attract in our life.

when a situation occurs that we don't like or that is not what we want to attract in our life, we react badly, we forget everything we have done (it can be affirmations, meditations, or some manifestation method) or we take it as "lost" putting too much focus on what we are seeing or feeling in our 3d reality. if suddenly a situation comes up that you don't like and it's not what you want, ignore it! it can be complicated but in these moments remind yourself what you want to manifest in your life and reconnect with you. you can write, close your eyes and take a couple of breaths until you re-center yourself, meditate and then do another type of activity that makes you forget that situation that happened. if you keep focusing constantly on those things that you don't like, your goals and desires will be delayed because you will be paying more attention to the physical dimension than to your inner self, which is where you create everything. keep this in mind and next time when something like this happens think about what you want.

stop: constantly repeating what you don't like in turn: completely change your thinking and focus it on what you want.

is related to the previous points. stop repeating the same story to yourself all the time! what story do i mean? the one you are telling yourself that: nobody loves you, you have no money, this person was very bad to you, you are not good enough. that kind of thing, sound familiar? i could add more to the list and it would be endless. maybe for you right now it is a reality because you are deciding it to be so. you constantly repeat the same thing to yourself and even worse you tell it to other people!!! stop doing that seriously. our words are also creating our reality. how many times have you met someone (or yourself) and you keep talking about how bad your life is? or you tell others that you have no money? these are still affirmations, but they are negative affirmations. you are telling yourself a story every day that you are a person who has no money, unlucky in love or at work, and so on constantly. do not expect the divine miracle if you continue with that mentality. you have the power to change it, how? identifying what are those thoughts and starting to use other types of affirmations, this time positive, related to what you want to be or have. or even actions. you repeat to yourself that you have no money? well change your mentality about that, act as if you have money, you don't need to spend a fortune, but the next time you go out somewhere for a drink and order for example a coffee, don't repeat to yourself "i don't have money" repeat to yourself "i am abundant, money flows in my life" think about it and start to avoid saying those things in front of other people or even when you are alone. do the daily exercise of repeating to yourself what you want.

stop: to meet anyone just to have a bit of company in turn: set boundaries with yourself and others and get to know yourself first

there are times when we are surrounded by people who are not benefiting us and at first, we can't do anything about it, such as our family members or colleagues at work or school. in this case, we can ask ourselves what is bothering us about these people? is it something we can solve? and stop reacting to the behaviors we don't like. if we don't focus more on it, it will disappear. so don't keep giving it power. don't react in any way. just ignore it.

but at other times there are people we can walk away from in our life, maybe friends who are toxic or are not helping us to progress. they don't have to be bad people, but there are times when we progress and others don't have the same vibe that we do. you don't have to accept plans or do things you don't like just so you don't stay alone or without friends. there are many people in the world and i assure you that there are many people who at this moment share the same ideas and tastes as you, or maybe they are more in resonance with you. so don't be afraid to cut off friendships or distance yourself from them. you can establish limits. for example, there are people who always talk about their problems and not with the intention of solving them, just to get someone to pay attention to them. so move away from those people who no longer add to your life, on the contrary, they subtract and focus on progressing on your path, be sure that new people will appear who resonate more with you.

stop: wanting everyone to like you, forcing someone you are not to please others.

in turn: start liking yourself first

another thing that is very common, stop trying to make everyone like you! and even worse you like those people? even if you like them, why would you pretend to be someone you're not? you better focus first on loving and knowing yourself, then there will be people who will also like you for who you are, not for the way you look or the things you have. don't look for social approval, give yourself your approval first.

This is a masterlist to help you , elevate your mindset. It only works if you actually implement it , just watching videos and daydreaming, will not.

I'm always open to suggestions to add any videos to this , just send me an ask or a comment