I am so torn between using the label demigirl and the label enby because I don't really like the term demigirl??
For some reason the "girl" bit in it makes me feel less mature. Less like I know what I am. Less grown and less appreciated. Because when someone says the word girl I think of children, even toddlers sometimes. It just doesn't feel like it fits me.
But I also don't want people to always use they/them on me if I use the term enby, and Id feel awkward correcting them by saying "oh actually I use SHE/they haha" because id probably have to explain that it's under the non binary umbrella still even if I use she as well.
Also aroace lesbian demigirl is too much of a mouth full?? I usually just introduce myself as lesbian and only one of my friends knows that I'm aroace demigirl/enby as well.
so. Being the irresponsible fuck I am. I'm letting Tumblr decide.




