note to self

please forgive yourself for the things you did when you were at your worst. those moments don’t define you. please try to have compassion for your younger self. you’re not broken or toxic; you were afraid, exhausted, alone and needed a hug. I’m sorry if people led you to believe that you’re a horrible person from the things you did when you were at rock-bottom.

remember the good things that grow in your heart. beneath the protective walls you built and the sadness and mistrust from painful experiences, you are still your sweet, kind, caring, lovable self. you still try your best. you still want to be good. you still want to help. you still want to believe there’s more to this world. you have a good heart. you deserve genuine love. please don’t forget that. 

this is everything

Cats are liquid ♡

heres my positive thought for the day. trees blow in the wind all the time and you can watch for free

the thoughts that women have while drunk peeing at the bar looking at their own underwear should be revered like the bible

— Mary Oliver, from Thirst; Six Recognitions of the Lord. (via xshayarsha)

idk who needs to hear this today, but don't go lurking on ex friends and partners. nothing you see or read will make you feel better there. all you're doing is hurting your own feelings. leave them in the past and do your best to move on with your own life, to make what you have now happier rather than dwelling on things that used to be (: