please reblog with your sign and the weird invasive shit you do at your friends’ houses
Virgo, clean their makeup brushes
libra, i make their room a mess with all my clothes sydsydud
Taurus, I go straight to the kitchen and start eating leftovers
Taurus, I walk around in my underwear at night and I steal their food
Sagittarius, I don’t have friends but when I go to house parties I fluff their couch cushions.
Taurus, Make food and don’t share with them also mess up their cupboard by going through their shit
Pisces...I am supposed to go to friends houses..?...wait...I dont have friends 😂
David Foster Wallace, Infinite Jest
(Seemed an appropriate reminder.)
I needed to re-read this tonight, and thought you all might, too. - V.
(via vmarinelli)
30 Day Self Esteem Challenge
Okay time for the 30 self esteem challenge again! Followers your challenge is to do this with me!
Day one: A facial feature you like on yourself
Day two: A physical feature you like on yourself
Day three: A part of your personality that you like
Day four: A habit you have that you like
Day five: Something about the way you think that you like
Day six: Something about the way you just are that you like
Day seven: When do you feel best about yourself? Why?
Day eight: The last time you smiled when someone complimented you. What was the compliment and why did you smile?
Day nine: Something that you yourself do that makes you smile. Why?
Day ten: Why are you the way you are?
Day eleven: Do you like the way you are? Why or why not?
Day twelve: If you could change something about your personality, what would it be and why?
Day thirteen: What do you think of your smile?
Day fourteen: What do you think of your laugh?
Day fifteen: Why do you think people are attracted to you, either friend-wise or romantically?
Day sixteen: The last thing you did that made you smile
Day seventeen: Another thing you like about yourself
Day eighteen: The last thing you did that made you laugh
Day nineteen: Is there a particular outfit/article of clothing/accessory you like on yourself? Why or why not?
Day twenty: If you finish this challenge and still feel that your confidence is low, would you be willing to do it again? Why or why not?
Day twenty-one: When do you feel your most attractive? Why?
Day twenty-two: What do you think others like about your personality?
Day twenty-three: What physical feature do others seem to find most attractive about you?
Day twenty-four: What is your definition of “beautiful”?
Day twenty-five: Do you often compliment other people?
Day twenty-six: What is your favorite compliment to give and receive, and why?
Day twenty-seven: Do you often accept compliments? If not, why?
Day twenty-eight: Do you feel good about yourself today? Why or why not?
Day twenty-nine: When you don’t feel good about yourself, what do you do to change that, if anything?
Day thirty: Are you happy with yourself?
Ok so this post is extremely long and I put it all together for my blogs Feeling sad page but as I don’t have a huge amount of followers I realize so many people are not seeing this information so I’m posting it here too!
alternatives without harming yourself:
- holding/squeezing ice.
- splashing your face with water.
- getting a rubber band and snapping it against your skin (this could hurt, though it’s better than other ways that people usually choose to self-harm).
- take a hot shower or bath.
- eat something sour. it will take your mind of the urge. (lemon, sour lollies)
- massage where you want to self-harm.
- get a red pen or red paint and draw/paint over where you usually self-harm.
- remind yourself as to why you shouldn’t do it. (scars, harms organs, leave memories etc…)
- describe what you are feeling. (is the urge/pain in your chest, fists, legs, arms, head).
killing yourself will not help. it is not a solution.
you have your whole life ahead of you. you have so many more years that you can accomplish things in. for example;
- having a family.
- getting married.
- to watch the sun rise.
- to watch the sun set.
- to save someone else’s life.
- finish school.
- get your dream job.
- to laugh.
- to smile.
- to go camping.
- travel to new places.
- to wake up every morning to the person you love.
- friends.
- family.
- to keep that promise you made.
- to accomplish a goal.
- to meet your idol.
- to listen to new music.
- theme parks.
- video games.
- chocolate.
- to be able to look back and say “i made it”.
what you’re going through is temporary.
in case you need to hear this:
- you are loved.
- you are wanted.
- you are needed.
- you are beautiful.
- you are handsome.
- you are important.
- you are not alone.
- you are okay.
- you are strong.
- you are worth it.
- you are smart.
- you are not a failure.
- you are useful.
- you are going to be okay.
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For all of my followers, you are going to be okay 💕
INFJ Confession #2957
Is it common for infjs to prefer friends of the opposite gender? I was just wondering because as a female infj, I quite honestly prefer having friends who are guys and hanging around them far more than girls
I find this comforting, because I thought I was one of the few people...as a male, I find it difficult to talk to guys about anything because I dont fit the 'masculine man' stereotype/generalization...but around girls, I can be completely myself and most of them dont mind.
tag what you're majoring in/intend on majoring in
Respecting Women
bat man
minecraft
youtube
in the tags guys
fuckin weed
W
Criminal justice and psychology
i’m terrified that i’ll lock myself into an interest that i’ll no longer be passionate about in a few years like all the other areas of study i’ve pursued over my life!
Minecraft
minecraft as well
Cracking open a cold one with the boys
Dying
Existential despair
How many ways I can kill myself to avoid living in this unending wave pool of struggle and trying not to drown while doing so
Inferior Se
Is starting a song over because you didn’t hear any of it
Lmao I sometimes will turn on music, like heavy metal music as loud as I can with headphones and go through my entire playlist without hearing any of it lmao
I hate Twitter
Team Fortress Crossing: Two Leaf
World of Mickey’s Warcastle of Illusion
Portalmon Y
Ace Attorney: Fire Emblem Awakening
Left 4 Papers, Please
Oh gosh I can’t imagine how weird zombie immigration must be.
Animal Hunter Tri: Ultimate Leaf
Assassin’s Creed: 358/2 Days
kjdfhkjsd and now I’m just imagining Assassin Roxas and just hgggggguuuhhhhhhh hello there indeed sir.
Legend of Pokemon: A Link Between Regions
(I want)
Animal Emblem: New Awakening *Imagines Lord Isabelle and Tactician Me*
Kingdom Hearts: Days and Ocarina of Time. Looks like either Sora has a new world to explore or Link has a new weapon, either way.
Tales of… Crusaders? (I was playing Crusaders Quest and Tales of Asteria. Would be interesting to see a crossover of it)
Pokemon Omega Ruby and The Legend of Zelda Breath of the Wild. Finally an open world Pokemon Game. That, or another hand held Zelda game but with Pokemon..
Defense of the Pokemon: Moon
guild wars 2: reckoning
The Witcher 3: Horizon Zero Dawn
Guild Kart 2: Mario Wars 8
(uhm, what?xD)
Sims Wars 2 or Guild Sims 4
League of Guild Wars 2 or Guild of League Wars 2
SWTOR AND WORLD OF WARCRAFT HELL YES
wait if you merge those…doesn’t that make Starcraft
I REQUIRE ADDITIONAL PYLONS
SWTOR and… Stardew Valley?
So playing a game where I’m a member of the Jedi Service Corps, I guess.
Fallout 4 and Mass Effect Andromeda.
So… Mass Effect 3?
World of Warcraft and Mass Effect Andromeda
… So Mass Effect Online?
With space elves?
SWTOR and Mass Effect Andromeda. Using the force and my biotics at the same time :D
Mass Effect: Catalyst
The Evil Within and Dragon Age Inquisition. Yes, yes, yes bring on the impending torture, chaos, psychological horror and yes please have Leslie and Cole be best friends.
The Witcher and swtor….. 😂
Breath of the Wild and Mass Effect Andromeda… Well, I guess Link is the new Patfinder.
Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim and Terraria...lmao
“Shapeshifting, but only once” is still one of the funniest concepts to me
I am shapeshifting back into a child, is there a support forum for this?? I CAN BARELY TYPE ANYMORE MY HANDS ARE SO SMALL
I am crying omfg
My own crazy mind (sorry for the quirkiness of it.)
MBTI Types When They’re Not Thriving OR Surviving
Scl(any sort of stress/sadness)
INTJ: Super withdrawn, swings between gratification and wanting happiness, and unhealthy single-mindedness. Existential angst. Needs people’s support but rejects company. Bottles up issues and then it bursts out.
ENTJ: Prone to attack others, often over the very issues they’re insecure about. Becomes a workaholic and ignores feelings of deep dissatisfaction, or stops giving a crap about anything.
INFJ: Despairs of all things, just can’t see The Point of it. Goes through days mechanically, without purpose. Resists all help, considering it to be probing. Can’t get anything done.
ENFJ: Laughs a bit too loudly and smiles a bit too widely. Escapes to private places, but feels lost. Tells their problems to someone close to them, but doesn’t accept any advice.
INFP: Isolate, isolate isolate. Sees the negative in everything and can’t see others’ love/affection for them. Loses their ‘purpose’ and drive, can’t find meaning in anything. Idealizes what they can’t have. Perpetual self-pity-party.
ENFP: Super excitable, overdoes everything. Cannot focus at all, and their own emotions/reactions are out of their control. Breaks down sobbing. Unwilling to actually move forward.
ISFP: Mull around in their own feelings, hates the world around them, because it’s failed them. Spiraling moodiness, “what ifs,” “should’ve done this,” but no one will ever see that. They themselves won’t admit it.
ESFP: Unusually critical, closed-minded, and overly concerned with matters of appearance over substance. Terrible sense of logic, yet argumentative all the same. Delves into the physical world in order to escape their mental one.
ISTJ: Scattered mind, unable to think coherently. Becomes judgmental and passive-aggressive. Super pessimistic, takes on a me vs. the world mentality.
ESTJ: Intensely prickly, will take offense at anything but prefers to strike first and strike hard. If you hit a nerve, they’ll cut you out of their lives (for the time being). Tries to act happy and in control, but actually really moody.
ISFJ: Withdrawn, tries to please everyone but is really passive-aggressive about it. Takes on a martyr complex. Refuses help while throwing a pity party because “no one cares about them.”
ESFJ: Seeks control of people and surroundings, bossy and irritable. Might manipulate others into feeling bad, too. Denies that they’re the problem.
INTP: Makes a lot of jokes about how things aren’t okay, but aggressively resists anyone’s sincere attention. Turns flat and emotionless, takes compartmentalizing to an unhealthy extreme.
ENTP: Scatterbrained, cannot focus. Swings between extremes of emotions, but makes a point to show a falsely sanguine face to people. Feels like they’re crumbling from the inside.
ISTP: Compulsive and reckless. Has a “screw this” attitude and pushes away actual problems. May or may not confide in people, but too down to take any advice.
ESTP: Use bravado and ‘self-confidence’ to mask their insecurities. Get a rush from attention, whether it’s positive or negative, and thus seek it out. Obsessive mentality, particularly concerning negative outcomes.
Without thinking
QUICK EVERYONE WITHOUT THINKING!
If you have ANY thing In the world RIGHT NOW, what would it be???
The girl of my dreams.
Someone who would love me despite my shortcomings. Someone with a warm and loving heart after God. Someone with good taste and a bright mind. Someone of great character and fun humor. Someone who is as beautiful on the outside as she is on the inside. With an extra helping of curves.
10 billion dollars in gold bullion
To be the best flutist in the world
Same^^^
All of the above, please if you would.







