blackgirlsrpretty2:

thoughts?

my thoughts is that this is stupid. over 90% of black men marry black women. over 90%. that’s in all classes (since we love the myth that wealthy black men always want to be with non-black women so much).

so let’s say that all of the remaining 10% are with non-black women for ignorant reasons (since it seems like most can never accept that a black man can just genuinely fall in love with a non-black woman), so what? all this for 10%? all this uproar over 10%. that just seems fucking silly and stupid to me. 

lastly, make no mistake that black men who would marry a foreign woman from places listed above would still get hated on. still. i remember a couple of african american guys in my high school who were interested in a few ladies from africa (i think kenya) got mad shade from african american women AND MEN. all this stuff about how sistas were holding it down for brothas here in america and they turned their backs on them for africans and etc. it was fucking insane. so no, i don’t trust this logic for a fucking second. shit, we hate on brothas who marry lightskin black women. 

nah, brothas, here are the fucking rules:

1. don’t be a self hating ignorant piss-ant. this hatred can be verified by hatred of black women. if you think such thoughts like “black women are so loud,” “black women always be angry,” “black women are always in drama” and the like, i’m talking to you. get educated, heal yourself of your self hatred and start supporting black women.
2. if you find yourself wanting and/or attracted to someone of another race, examine your reasons. if you think being with a non-black woman is a “step up,” a trophy signalling that you’ve made it or some likewise shit, correct yourself. you’re a self hater and white racism and supremacy has corrupted your mind. this is especially easier to spot since this thought process is always coupled with the above thought process.
3. if you’re on that “dark skin black women be (insert negative comment and/or stereotype here),” fucking handle that shit. you’re a self hater, ignorant and suffer from internalized racism. white people got you playing that colorism bullshit which is their way of getting you to do their job for them in dehumanizing our people. they don’t have any color, we do and every variation, every hue is beautiful. if you can’t see that, you have a problem. handle that shit.
4. if you want to with someone of another race (or even a sista) because of some bullshit racial fetish wet dream, you’re a fetishizer and you need to fucking handle that too. these are human beings. not fucking playthings for you to carry out some porn fantasy.
5. featurism. ever hear of that? it’s when you just have to be with a woman with a small pointy nose, light skin and “good hair.” throw in some of blue eyes and thin lips. in other words, a woman with white / european features. if you’re on that tip, you’re brainwashed. you’re just looking for a white woman in a black woman’s body to parade around. if black/african features disgust you, that’s internalized racism and you need to handle that asap.
6. if you haven’t read “sister citizen,” “women, race, & class,” “ assata,” “angela davis autobiography”  or “killing the black body,” get on that and get woke. wake the fuck up and then make sure that whoever you choose to be with is equally woke as well.

pass these tests and, at least to me, you’re good.

oh and one more thing: THESE RULES APPLY TO BLACK WOMEN TOO!!