The amount of mental gymnastics people are displaying to make Daemons actions ok 💀
It’s truly sickening honestly.
So many people coming out of the woodwork to defend abuse instead of accepting that they were wrong and romanticized a violent predator.
“He was grieving his brother”
“He was angry his brother didn’t trust him with the prophecy”
“He was frustrated with Rhaenyra for her inaction, and wanted to get his point across”
“He was angry Alicent murdered his brother (in his mind)”
All of these statements dance around the subject. They admit he put his hands on her because it’s right in front of their faces. There’s no room to pretend he didn’t do it. So now they’re floundering to make Daemon choking his wife more palatable. Grief, anger, frustration, betrayal. They throw around every strong, negative emotion out there and hope one sticks. They’re throwing blame on Rhaenyra for being too slow to respond, Viserys for not sharing the prophecy, Alicent for killing Viserys in Daemon’s brain (this one is so funny tho). Anyone but the actual perpetrator. They hope that if they make Daemon seem broken down and hurt enough, everyone will agree he was within his right to hurt his wife and leave her gasping for air as she tries to pry his hands off her neck.
But that will not happen. Daemon committed domestic abuse. He strangled his wife. I don’t care about the circumstances. I don’t care if he was sad or angry or annoyed. There is no excuse out there for raising a hand to your partner or strangling them. It’s vile. It’s abuse.
Daemon has always been abusive to women in his life. He killed his first wife. He ignores his daughters. He manipulates his mistress. He grooms his niece. He has always been an abusive, sexist man. Always.
Daemon stans need to accept that they were wrong. Stop excusing abuse. Stop saying it was anyone else’s fault. Stop saying he couldn’t control it because of x feeling. And stop saying he still loves Rhaenyra after choking her. That isn’t love.
And to any young or vulnerable people in this fandom who may be influenced by this fictional discourse, please know. Daemon is not a good partner, and abuse is not love. Hurting someone no matter how angry they are is not love. Grooming is not love. Daemon does not love Rhaenyra. This is an abusive relationship built in years of grooming. Pointblank Period.
So yeah. Daemon is trash and abuser. No excuses.





