divinity kink in less of a "fuck me in a nun habit" way and more of a "put me on my knees and rewrite my understanding of faith and show me what a loving god's hand feels like and give me mercy and wrath and splendor and leave your communion dripping from my lips and teach me how every part of my body was meant to worship you"

What is something about lesbian sex you wish someone had told you?

You’re legally obligated to like/reblog this if any of the following apply:

- you’re queer and have acid reflux

- you’re transmasc and wanna bounce up and down on girlcock, be bred by her and have every hole filled with her dick

- you’re against the Catholic Church

- you’re transmasc and wanna sit on a girls lap, casually sucking on her titties while you feel her cock get hard beneath you

- hate JK Rowling

- you’re transmasc and wanna take a transfemme on a car ride to a nice mountain overlook before you fuck her on the back seat with your biggest strapon

i think if a girl called me a womb while she was fucking me it would actually for real break my brain permanently

women with big dicks will be like "I know a place" and the place is the location of your womb

Now now, some of the time the place for my girldick is your ass or mouth

Tips for aspiring/newbie sex workers

brought to you by SwimsuitSuccubus

1. If you are terrified and can not emotionally handle the possibility of your content being pirated and shared elsewhere this is NOT the job for you. People will always repost sex workers photos and videos. Because of this it’s important to learn how to protect yourself. Become familiar with DMCA and DO NOT start posting until you know how to file take down notices for your stolen content.

2. Put a statcounter on your blog. If you see a huge influx of people coming from an unfamiliar site, chances are your content was reposted. To remove your content from the site, google the site name and “DMCA” to find what e-mail you need to send your takedown notice to.

3. If you are a sex worker on tumblr and someone reposts your content that is already on your blog contact http://tumblr.com/abuse and file a misattribution report. DMCA on tumblr is ONLY for when someone reposts something that is not already on tumblr.

4. If you have no idea how to price your content, can’t think of where to sell and ask other sex workers questions you could easily google this is not the job for you. you need to be able to think for yourself.

5. No matter what you look like, people will bash your appearance. Do NOT let it hurt you. I’ve been called ugly, my friends have been called ugly, Angelina Jolie has been called ugly. It’s the standard attack people like to use against any woman.

6. A lot of people are hostile towards sex workers. Frequently these are the same people spending hours searching for porn themselves. Know that you will need a thick skin to survive.

7. Utilize the block feature. I know sometimes you will see a really gross comment on your content, a self promoter or a caption deleter and it will piss you off. The best thing you can do is simply block them and warn other sex workers. Under certain circumstances you can also report self promoters for misattribution on tumblr. If you spend time on every asshole you will become so stressed.

Hope these tips help and know that all sex workers have support here at the Lewd Girl Network <3

watching a movie with a girl while she's between my legs and my hand is in her pants fingering and playing with her, telling her she has to keep her eyes on the screen and needs to be quiet and stop whining because she's distracting me from the movie

I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly

I’m so glad you asked! Let me list off what I’ve got for you:

Books I personally recommend:

- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

If you’re having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. They’ll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and aren’t into.

- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isn’t actually in helping you “mindfuck” people, it’s in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. It’s a great answer to the question “how do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?”

- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isn’t a better book on the subject. It’s written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase “if the Master doesn’t want it, it isn’t service” will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.

- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This one’s high on my reading list; I’ve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.

- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I haven’t personally read much of her work, but she’s a well known sex educator and great at what she does. She’s known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.

- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you don’t need that, it’s no good. Just look through this worksheet’s wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the “how do you want to feel?” section.

Books I can kind of recommend:

- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. There’s a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of what’s written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But there’s some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldn’t have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesn’t “enjoy.”

- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Don’t read this if you don’t already know what you’re doing.

- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you can’t read something and pick out what is and isn’t for you, don’t bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.

Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but they’re all important parts of my library and I’ve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.

THEM😭😭😭

Also hey btw

The term “masterpiece” originally and traditionally meant a piece of work that an apprentice or other aspiring craftsman created to show off to his master or the town’s guild. So naturally, it was intended to be the best fucking thing that you could make, demonstrating just how fucking good you are at what you’re making - 100% to flex your skills. And if it was approved, the applicant was accepted as a member of the guild and could now call himself a master, and work in this craft in this city.

So the next time you’re looking at The One Great Thing you made and think “this is it, my masterpiece, I have peaked, it’s all downhill from here”, consider looking it the other way: Making your masterpiece means you’re only getting started.

Apologetic CNC but flipping the script. Instead of "I'm sorry, I need this" it's "I know you need this, it's okay."

"Therrrre you go, tell me how much you hate it and how disgusting I am." "Go ahead and cry for me, let's get it all out." Holding you still and making you take it while we get those emotions out.

why is my little sweetheart crying? this is exactly what you said you wanted, isn’t that right angel? you begged Mommy to use you like a fleshlight. you know i’d never hurt you like this if i didn’t know how much you loved it, right sweetie? That’s right babygirl, shhhhh. just let your little hole be stretched out around Mommys strap like the adorable little cock slut that you are. doesn’t my precious whore love being bounced up and down like this for Mommy? i know you do baby, i see right through those pretty little tears <3

there's something so special about a girl saying "that's my girl" as you come w her fingers inside of you

I’m thinking about wetness checks 😳 about a Dom just coming to me at random throughout the day, pulling my pants off and knocking my legs open so they can push a finger or two into my pussy to see how wet I am

maybe they rub through my folds, maybe they tease me a little. perhaps they taste me, or make me taste myself. they might even finger me, hard and fast, to hear the pretty noises my pussy makes

but I’m not allowed to cum, definitely not, this isn’t for fun. this is to remind me who my pussy belongs to and to make sure it’s always ready for them when they want it

Okay but nothing is better than watching someone shy turn nasty. I can imagine them sliding down on my strap expecting me to do all the work for them. Silly you. I tell them to start moving their hips and watch them blush because they’re embarrassed. They do as they’re asked and starts to rock themselves back and forth on my strap. I watch as their look of embarrassment is replaced with a needy look as they realize how good it feels. Their shyness is soon replaced by someone who doesn’t care how whiney or loud they sound. They lose all sense of embarrassment because fucking themselves stupid with my strap is the only thing they care about.

still thinking about whining "you're so big" and her cooing "yeah, I am" all sweet in my ear before thrusting in deeper 🫠

i honestly don't think it gets talked enough about how gay men can have a very nuanced relationship with gender, complex genders, and "contradictory" identities a lot of the time. i think a identifying as a man only gets forced on to gay men a lot these days, but so many gays identify as nonbinary, transfem, women, bigender, genderfluid, genderqueer, gnc, a crossdresser, a lesbian, and many more things. i love you, gays with weird genders

Anyways the queer community isn't just what's on the internet. You'll find transgender people who call themselves transsexuals because that's what they called themselves 40 years ago, you'll find bisexual women who have been in the lesbian community since before bisexual women were forced to make their own community, you'll find gay men who call themselves femmes, you'll find trans women who were drag queens for decades before calling themselves trans women (and still are drag queens). The queer community is big and colourful and beautiful and doesn't have set boxes, and it never should.

happy 1 year to this post. its never leaving my notifs huh

Penetration is a gender-neutral act. Topping is gender-neutral. Bottoming is gender-neutral. You are not more or less of a man or a woman depending on how you fuck. You are not “fake trans” for having sex a certain way. You are not any less masculine for bottoming or any less feminine for topping.

if you have a “weird” gender, you are quite literally the definition and example of what trans is, not a bad example, or an outlier. you are the very heart and soul of the experience of transness. keep it up