She specifically came back on the couch to sit on my foot. My foot that is now falling asleep. I am very stuck 😭
The lure of the peanut butter jar opening cannot be resisted

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She specifically came back on the couch to sit on my foot. My foot that is now falling asleep. I am very stuck 😭
The lure of the peanut butter jar opening cannot be resisted
Feeling very lucky that I haven't yet decided that movie theaters feel safe again and also that I'm sick this week so I have two get out of discourse free cards and am therefore immune to the absolute insanity that is currently happening
hi hello sorry for the lack of posts lately ; - ; there has also been some lack of drawing but not actually as much as the silence here makes it seem haha. i have a few pieces to post which i just never got round to, even though some of them were ready approximately three million years ago. here is one of them!
this was done a while ago for the Bearer of Light LWJ zine! links to the pdf are here~ i just think, baby twin jades. thank you for your consideration.
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It's important to have political and moral beliefs other than "America bad" because not doing anything beyond that is how you get white American """leftists""" becoming apologists for the Empire of Japan and... Fucking. Nazi Germany.
I sometimes wonder if Nie Mingjue would have rethought his attempts to kill Jin Guangyao at all if he ever came close enough to succeeding that he thought he'd actually done it.
If Jin Guangyao hit his head at the bottom of the stairs Nie Mingjue kicked him down and was knocked out, would Nie Mingjue feel any regret or fear when he realized that Meng Yao wasn't getting up? Would he realize that by the terms of their oath, he should be torn apart by five horses? Would there be any relief when Jin Guangyao woke up? And if he did regret it, would it shake him up enough to make him actually change?
I don't really feels like derailing this post:
And I think the OP does make some good points about how the normative attitudes towards groups like trans people and Jewish people are bad. And that "normalcy" as in social conformity is not something to be lauded and enforced.
But.
Specifically in the cases of trans women and Jews, who are the groups that are the subjects of the type of post that goes "ok you do x y and z, but are you normal about [group]?" I do think OP is missing something.
For both of these groups, there are mass violent hate ideologies that target them, yes. But there's also the overly enthusiastic harmful behavior and ideologies that outsiders frequently mistake for being helpful or good. See: chasers, philo-semitism, the way a lot of leftists will dehumanize these groups by pedestalizing and lionizing them, or some caricature of the qualities leftists find appealing, the uncomfortably sexual praise from strangers trans women get, etc etc.
So just encouraging people to love or care about or support these groups is good, but it doesn't cover situations like those, and can even encourage them. People who do those things listed above DO often think they are being loving and supportive.
So the point of posts wishing people would "be normal" about those groups is that it's also bad and exhausting and creepy and uncomfortable and harmful and dangerous when people are being, for lack of a better term, weird, but in a way that's at least on the surface positive. If that makes sense.
"In a consumer society, contentment is a radical proposition. Recognizing abundance rather than scarcity undermines an economy that thrives by creating unmet desires. Gratitude cultivates an ethic of fullness, but the economy needs emptiness."
—Robin Wall Kimmerer (Braiding Sweetgrass)
One of the postal workers in my neighborhood is this sweet lady who really likes dogs, and the last 3 time she's seen Gittel, she has delightfully called out and asked to give her a cookie, and then Gittel has said a very nice hello and gotten a cookie. Today, we saw her coming down the street. Gittel got excited and lay down doing her Looke I Amb Soso Good Please To Give Cookie act. The lady was in a hurry though, and walked right past Gittel. Folks. The Betrayal. The Devastation. Imagine a 15 year old girl whose crush, who she had hung out with the day before, breezed past pretending not to know she existed. This can only hold the barest candle to the shock, disappointment, and heartbreak felt by one very good girl when nice cookie lady did not give her a cookie. We had to stare in longing confusion as she went the rest of the way down the block and got in her truck, and then pouted about this for a good hour. A cookie offered at home by @lilac-buttons was no consolation At All.
........white cis dudes fully nude but selectively concealed thirst traps being unlabeled and fine but a clothed! Clothed!! Fashion spread of a fat Asian woman being labeled mature because... Her top was a little sheer and pretty tight and she had on bathing suit bottom but no pants. 😬
Disability Pride month let's not forget about the people in our community with intellectual disabilities!
I just found out about the Stay Up Late campaign to advocate for people with intellectual disabilities to have the right to go out in the evening and not have to be in bed by 8pm
I learned about it from this video:
And I found the website for the campaign which is here:
Let's support all members of our community
One time in college, I cracked a tooth and then it got infected and it needed a root canal. The dentist in the town had limited availability for those, and I was in a lot of pain and having trouble eating and sleeping, so I took the first available appointment. Unfortunately it was the same day a a big presentation I had to give for a class that was 30% of my grade. I asked to switch my presentation date. The professor told me she'd never even had a cavity, so she didn't know anything about dental procedures, but they weren't giving me anesthesia and I wouldn't be graded on my diction, so she didn't see the issue with giving a presentation an hour after a root canal. Predictably, I bombed, despite doing very well in all other assignments. Anyway the point of this is that I feel like this is how it goes when a person with a depression or executive function issues tries to explain something about their limitations to someone who has never dealt with either of those things.
@staff I understand putting a mature or not safe for work lable on nudity, but slapping the "sexual themes" label on a neutrally posed, non-sexual nude drawing of a trans woman is incredibly ugly. Imo. Nudity is not inherently sexual and neither is trans existence.
Sexual themes
*yes I know some of these aren't, strictly speaking, genres, and that they can overlap. These are genres/categories that I like, not a correct genre taxonomy. This is also why romance, humor, and mystery are missing, because I don't like them.
"The idea of reforming Omelas is a pleasant idea, to be sure, but it is one that Le Guin herself specifically tells us is not an option. No reform of Omelas is possible — at least, not without destroying Omelas itself:
If the child were brought up into the sunlight out of that vile place, if it were cleaned and fed and comforted, that would be a good thing, indeed; but if it were done, in that day and hour all the prosperity and beauty and delight of Omelas would wither and be destroyed. Those are the terms.
'Those are the terms', indeed. Le Guin’s original story is careful to cast the underlying evil of Omelas as un-addressable — not, as some have suggested, to 'cheat' or create a false dilemma, but as an intentionally insurmountable challenge to the reader. The premise of Omelas feels unfair because it is meant to be unfair. Instead of racing to find a clever solution ('Free the child! Replace it with a robot! Have everyone suffer a little bit instead of one person all at once!'), the reader is forced to consider how they might cope with moral injustice that is so foundational to their very way of life that it cannot be undone. Confronted with the choice to give up your entire way of life or allow someone else to suffer, what do you do? Do you stay and enjoy the fruits of their pain? Or do you reject this devil’s compromise at your own expense, even knowing that it may not even help? And through implication, we are then forced to consider whether we are — at this very moment! — already in exactly this situation. At what cost does our happiness come? And, even more significantly, at whose expense? And what, in fact, can be done? Can anything?
This is the essential and agonizing question that Le Guin poses, and we avoid it at our peril. It’s easy, but thoroughly besides the point, to say — as the narrator of 'The Ones Who Don’t Walk Away' does — that you would simply keep the nice things about Omelas, and work to address the bad. You might as well say that you would solve the trolley problem by putting rockets on the trolley and having it jump over the people tied to the tracks. Le Guin’s challenge is one that can only be resolved by introspection, because the challenge is one levied against the discomforting awareness of our own complicity; to 'reject the premise' is to reject this (all too real) discomfort in favor of empty wish fulfillment. A happy fairytale about the nobility of our imagined efforts against a hypothetical evil profits no one but ourselves (and I would argue that in the long run it robs us as well).
But in addition to being morally evasive, treating Omelas as a puzzle to be solved (or as a piece of straightforward didactic moralism) also flattens the depth of the original story. We are not really meant to understand Le Guin’s 'walking away' as a literal abandonment of a problem, nor as a self-satisfied 'Sounds bad, but I’m outta here', the way Vivier’s response piece or others of its ilk do; rather, it is framed as a rejection of complacency. This is why those who leave are shown not as triumphant heroes, but as harried and desperate fools; hopeless, troubled souls setting forth on a journey that may well be doomed from the start — because isn’t that the fate of most people who set out to fight the injustices they see, and that they cannot help but see once they have been made aware of it? The story is a metaphor, not a math problem, and 'walking away' might just as easily encompass any form of sincere and fully committed struggle against injustice: a lonely, often thankless journey, yet one which is no less essential for its difficulty."
- Kurt Schiller, from "Omelas, Je T'aime." Blood Knife, 8 July 2022.