Macaliser

there are people memeing about this and people posting about the true nature of war and both are correct

my advice for not going insane? try to do something every weekend. go to events, you’ll love events. and not like just hang out with ur friends or go clubbing , no, make a day out of going to some local market by yourself or attend some strange convention event you’ve never heard of. i cannot stress the importance of doing random events on a friday night or saturday or a sunday at r pm for mentally ill people especially if you’re depressed and have been searching for an anchor 2 tether yourself to. attend some events now

seeing a lot of tags on this like “i would do this but my social battery is low and i have social anxiety” great news! so do i! and YOU are the target audience of this post in fact! i speak from experience when i say that if you do this often enough then things will probably get easier for you and you’ll feel a lot less afraid around social environments. literally go to random conventions about vacuums or flea markets near where you live and like talk to the people there. ask them about their weird niche interests or what they’re selling like YOU don’t even have to be the one TALKING the great thing is you can just go to these things to interact with people for like one time and you’ll never have to worry about meeting them again probably. these are great for like test runs of social interactions ok. rule number one of my life do not block yourself off from things you could potentially be interested in because you are afraid of saying the wrong thing at them or something because that will just open you up into spiraling into thinking you are deserving of nothing good like this like you HAVE to stop thinking like that as soon as possible. and not because some random guy on the internet says that it’s good to shut that part of your brain off for whatever reason This is literally for your own benefit. so yeah go down to the library and ask the lady at the desk what her favorite book is not only will it enhance your life it will enhance the lives of others. fucking have fun and fuck it and ball and live joyously even in small doses cuz even small doses of living are still LIVING!!!!!!! GO HAVE FUN!!!!!!!! ITS GREAT

Did I have tasks I was supposed to be doing this evening? yes. Did i black out and write a poem about rabbits instead? yes.

Spitballing with the fellas on discord and we've come up with a Star Trek character we want to see: A 200-year-old top Vulcan diplomat attending a function and laughing boisterously and slapping backs with everyone and then just relaxing into resting bitch face the moment nobody is watching him. He takes his job deadly seriously and studied parties extensively in the diplomatic academy. Every year he's brushing up on new developments in party theory. He knows every party nuance you could possibly think of, for the sake of intergalactic relations. Peace in the galaxy depends on it. It's weird but you gotta meet people where they're at, he thinks.

Sarek fucking hates this guy and it's 100% envy

[Image Description: A four panel comic

panel 1 shows 4 characters, a human red shirt, a vulcan in a white shirt, a female ferengi in a blue shirt, and a vulcan with white hair behind them all. The vulcan has his arm around the human. He is saying "and they were holograms all along. They are all laughing except the vulcan in the back

panel 2 shows just the two vulcans. The vulcan in white is still smiling wiping a tear from his eye. Off panel humans issaying "you're the best Spork", Spork replies "catch you later", the ferengi says "can't wait". The white haired Vulcan is saying "kids today... no respect for logic..."

panel 3 shows the same vulcans. Spork is now completely deadpan while the white haired vulcan is frowning. Spork is filing a report into a pad saying Hologram story = success Evidence:Laughter backslapping future interaction initiated alcohol consumption = social aid?

panel 4 shows the same vulcans again. Spork is looking up and saying "Jealousy is an emotion, Sarek." Sarek is frowning even harder.]

"The trannies should be able to piss in whatever toilet they want and change their bodies however they want. Why is it my business if some chick has a dick or a guy has a pie? I'm not a trannie or a fag so I don't care, just give 'em the medicine they need."

"This is an LGBT safe space. Of COURSE I fully support individuals who identify as transgender and their right to self-determination! I just think that transitioning is a very serious choice and should be heavily regulated. And there could be a lot of harm in exposing cis children to such topics, so we should be really careful about when it is appropriate to mention trans issues or have too much trans visibility."

One of the above statements is Problematic and the other is slightly annoying. If we disagree on which is which then working together for a better future is going to get really fucking difficult.

Someone who says they don't care if dudes wear dresses and makeup is a better ally than someone who says they're a safe space for women and non-binary people. I am not joking.

yeah I went to a gay bar recently with my husband tumblr user beemovieerotica, and a VERY confused capital S Southerner straight man in cargo shorts and a trucker hat showed up

apparently he (who through my drunken memory I remember only as Earl) liked some woman, and she told him that he wasn't cultured enough and needed to attend his first drag show (she also flaked on him)

Now I'm reasonably androgynous and was wearing makeup, a short leather skirt, and black heeled boots, but still when this guy came up to me when I was standing off alone and asked "So. Do you come here often?" with a very earnest expression, I thought. Surely not. This guy doesn't think I'm a straight woman does he????

Anyway I start talking with this guy and he has no idea what the fuck is going on but he is just a very kind and earnest dude and asked a lot of questions (while asking if it was alright if he asked those questions). I track down my husband and friends and I'm like y'all. We need to make sure that Earl has a Good Fucking Time tonight.

Man was completely out of his depth. At one point they put on a puppy auction to raise money for Pride, that started with a 6 ft drag queen in all her glory leading a leather pup out on a leash to the tune of that damned RSPCA "in the arms of the angels" song

We look at Earl. Nervous. He squints, laughs, and then goes "I was wondering why people were dressed like that!" He turned to me and asked "So they're like dogs?" And I said yeah pretty much. And he just chuckled and went "Yeah I thought so with the tails! Never seen this before!"

When the first drag king came out, Earl looked at me wide eyed and went "There's a dude version too?!" And I said yeah they're called drag kings. And he said, low, "Drag kings."

During one of the queens performances, he frowned, shook his head and told me, "Your legs are better than hers." in a tone that implied he thought there was some travesty taking place and I should also be getting paid

When he found out I was there with my husband (and that I am not a woman) he profusely apologized and said "I'm so sorry, it's dark in here and I thought you were a hot chick! I wouldn't have said nothing if I knew you had a husband, I'm so sorry about that."

When beemovie invited me to the dance floor with him later and I still had a drink in my hand, Earl said "Oh don't worry about that I can hold your drink, you get on out there and shake your ass with your husband!" Then before we left, Earl bought me drinks for "Putting up with me all night and answering everything. Y'all helped me have a great time tonight."

like. You gotta recognize there's going to people who have never had interacted outside of their of their own community. This includes you. And just because your community is familiar with all the right vocabulary and how to correctly say something, it doesn't mean they're actually going to support you. If someone like Earl shows up, confused and out of their depth but kind and curious and earnest, you gotta have patience and truck through the small things, so when he goes back to his friends and his coworkers and they snicker asking how the drag show was, he can genuinely talk about how included we tried to make him feel and that he had a great time

The person matters more than the language

nobody ever talks about how hard autism can make sex and physical intimacy. i accidentally remembered the New Lamborghini Here video while a woman was fucking me once and trying not to immediately recite it elicited a single uncontrollable sharp bark of laughter that made my pussy clench so tight i shot her cock out of me like the ball machine at a batting cage

"homosexuality is unnatural! there's only two genders! it's a sin-"

I'm sorry, have you seen NATURE???

and there's so many more species than this that exhibit homosexuality, varying genders, etc. SO! MANY!

it's very much a natural thing. it always has been. unfortunately, while homosexuality is found in many species, homophobia is only found in one

people who take media where the entire cast has generic anime sameface and make fanart giving all the characters detailed, distinct, and interesting features with big noses and different eye shapes and varying body types are braver than any US marine and also the backbone of our society 

thinking about that tweet that's like

HAMAS SYMPATHIZING ORGANIZATIONS TO WATCH OUT FOR: UN Human Rights Council,

This one?

companies really have got to be okay with stagnant profits. what is wrong with earning the same amount every year? why does it always have to be more? it's not sustainable. there are only so many people on the planet you can profit from 😭

The thing is, the people who run companies love stability. It means they get to keep doing the jobs they've been doing for years, maybe a few updates to adjust to shifts in culture or technology, but everybody keeps making product/performing service and everybody keeps getting paid.

But investors, they want to know that when they put money into something, they will get 7% more money out of it next year. They don't care what the company does, they don't have any idea how the industry it's in works, all they know is they want number to go up and if number does not go up then they will burn the whole thing to the ground.

That's why the stock market is the worst possible thing for the economy.

It's not even that.

It's illegal for them not to. (by legal precedent, not by legislation.)

If shareholders - investors who own stock in a company - believe that the company is not doing everything possible to increase the value of their shares, they can sue. For-profit corporations are required to make "line go up" - as in, not just profits increase, but returns to the people who own the company increase, their number one priority, and if they don't, they can be held liable for not doing that duty.

The biggest problem is actually that they literally cannot increase forever, because we live on a finite biosphere with finite resources and finite numbers of people engaging in any company. So once they've done the most they can by normal routes like "sell more good/service" and "raise prices of good/service" and even shitty things like "buy competitors of good/service so we can raise prices" and "pay workers less," they . . . still have to keep making more than they did last year. So they start shrinking their staff, laying off as many people as possible, even if it means the company isn't functional anymore, producing their good/service as cheaply as possible, even if it means it actually becomes unusable or dangerous, and eventually, when the investors have sucked every drop of potential profit out of the company, they sell it, walk away, and buy shares in some other company.

I am absolutely convinced that the single law that would do the most good in this country would be making it law that instead of considering shareholder return increase their first priority, for-profit corporations must consider their top four priorities in equal measure: (1) the quality of the good or service they offer, (2) the working conditions and retention of their labor, (3) the environmental impact of their business, and (4) stability/non-decreasing returns to their investors.

So if the workers could show that they had sacrificed retention/labor conditions in order to increase profits by laying off so many employees that they were understaffed, they'd have a case against the executives; if the community or EPA could show that the company had sacrificed environmental impact to raise the quality of their service by using materials that poisoned the air/water around the factory, they'd have a case; and even if the shareholders could show that the company had sacrificed returns on their profits to the point of decrease or something, they would have a case. (Because if you cut out shareholder profits at all, it wouldn't stand a chance of even making it out of the first committee in Congress, and because "Every year the company makes less money than last year even though our customers are reliable and we haven't made huge improvements to our facilities because our CEO has sixteen executive assistants and keeps hiring his friends" is actually a fair complaint, if it ever happened.)

(I mean honestly none of this would ever pass because rich people would scream and poor people who believe they will be rich someday by the skin of their bootstraps would also scream. but i like to dream of legislation that might exist in a better world because i am too embittered about/by The Glorious Revolution rhetoric.)

Didn't it use to be this? Wasn't incorporation invented "to operate for the betterment of society" or something?

That was the public-facing rhetoric, anyway. But this system has, predictably, become unstable. And the facade is falling down.

I think Innuendo Studios has a video about this, and how Capitalism has always been this way...

Ah. Here it is. Under 15 minutes. Proper closed closed captions, very little direct eye contact (brief still photos). And it's how Conservatism has always been this way, but how that conservatism is built on the accumulation of wealth for wealth's sake.

What is the difference between a cathedral and a physics lab? And they not both saying: Hello?

This smug loser thought that having a PhD and working at a company that makes Covid tests meant she has a high IQ.

The worship of science literally makes you dumber but tells you that you're smarter than everyone else.

One 0f the greatest and hardest dance scenes ever recorded......

One 0f the

greatest and hardest dance scenes

ever recorded……

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

Cab Calloway and the Nicholas brothers! I don't think I've ever seen the colorized version of this before!

I haven't seen it in color either! It's a fantastic dance scene!!

The first time I ever saw the Nicholas Brothers, in That's Dancing! (1985)

Israeli officials love to refer to Palestinians as 'children of darkness' and all sorts of dehumanizing adjectives until it's time to blame Hamas for everything.

society experiencing anxiety en masse Sunday nights because they have a work week ahead of them must be the signal of a robust and healthy system, right

me when one of my girlmutuals posts about how they got a little coffee beverage or took a nice walk or started a book they've been meaning to read for a while or otherwise found meaning and joy in simple pleasures