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“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.” I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way. Let our scars fall in love.”

 Andrew Boyd (via amortizing)

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You deserve someone who makes sure you know you’re loved. You deserve someone you can talk to about all your problems without feeling judged or weird. You deserve someone that will listen to your problems and help as best as they can. You deserve someone that won’t say “okay night” when you’re upset, instead they should say want to talk about it, or want me to come over. You deserve someone who realizes what you need and try’s their best to give it to you. You deserve someone that makes you happy more than they make you sad, not the other way around. You deserve someone that doesn’t get annoyed with you when you’re talking too much or distracting them from something irrelevant. You deserve someone that makes sure that you know how they feel about you. You deserve someone that makes sure you know how pretty you are to them. You deserve someone who would lose sleep for you because they think you’re so sexy. You deserve someone who actually cares if they make you cum not just them. You deserve someone that shows you off and is proud of you. You deserve someone that realizes what they have and how lucky they are while they have it. You deserve someone who try’s their best everyday, not just when you’re fed up or mad. You deserve someone who couldn’t imagine life without you. and once you realize there’s someone out there that can give you what you deserve you’ll get tired of taking anything less.

(don’t settle just because you’re in love)