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☆ •　　♡。 A-Z date ideas ! ☆ •　　♡。

A:

• Arcade

• Aquarium

• Amusement park

• Art gallery

• Axe throwing

• Art night

•Apple Picking

B:

• Bowling

• Brunch

• Beach

• Botanical garden

• Batting cages

• Bake cakepops

• Board games

C:

• Concert

• Cooking class

• Cinema

• Comedy show

• Card games

• Candle making (kit)

• Cook a fancy dinner

• Charcuterie board

•Corn Maze

D:

• Day trip

• Drive in movie

• Dinner

• Driving range

• Darts

• DIY project

• Decorate cupcakes

E:

• Escape room

• Exhibit

• Explore a new town

• Exercise

F:

• Fishing

• Fireworks

• Farmers market

• Food trucks

• Football game

G:

• Go-Karts

• Golf

• Gun range

• Glamping

• Geocaching

• Game night

• Gardening

H:

• Hike

• Horseback riding

• Hammock

• Happy hour

• Hockey game

• Haunted House

•Hay ride

I:

• Ice skating

• Improv

• Indoor skydiving

• Ice castles

• Indoor Camping

• Ice cream making

• International snack tasting

J:

• Jet ski

• Jack-o-lantern carving

• Jazz club

• Jewelry making (kit)

• Jigsaw puzzle

• Junk food night

K:

• Kayak

• Karaoke

• Kite flying

L:

• Live music

• Lazer tag

• Lake day

• Line dancing

• Lego building

M:

• Museum

• Musical

• Movie theater

• Mini golf

• Magic show

• Massage night

• Movie night

N:

• New food date

• National park

• Nature trail

• Nightclub

• Netflix

• Nerf gun wars

O:

• Observatory

• Outdoor concert

• Orchard

• Open mic night

• Oil painting

• Outdoor movie

• Origami (kit)

P:

• Picnic

• Paddleboard

• Pottery class

• Photo scavenger hunt

• Paint by number

• Pottery (kit)

• Puzzle

•Pumpkin patch

Q:

• Quad riding

• Quadruple date

• Quiz night

•Quilting

R:

• Rollerskating

• Rock climbing

• Rodeo

• Rooftop dining

• Road trip

• Rock painting

• Read

S:

• Swimming

• Scrapbooking

• Ski/snowboard/sled

• Staycation

• Sunset/sunrise date

• Spa night

• Soap making

T:

• Theme park

• Theater

• Trampoline park

• Top golf

• Thrifting

• Tie dye

• Tea party

• Takeout

U:

• Ultimate frisbee

• Upscale restaurant

• Unsolved Case Files

V:

• Vineyard

• Volunteer

• Virtual reality

• Video games

W:

• Waterpark

• Weekend getaway

• Window shop

• Wine tasting

• Workout

• Watercolor painting

X:

• X-Box

Y:

• Yard sale hopping

• Yoga

• Youtube night

Z:

• Zoo

• Zipline

• Zumba class

• Zombie movies marathon

#date night#date ideas#fun stuff#cute
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skills that will never stop serving you☆ . °🪷

  • the ability to sell/negotiate
  • listening and learning from others
  • ability to speak in front of people
  • staying positive/optimistic
  • persisting and continuing to try regardless of failure
  • understanding other people’s feelings
  • ability to say no
  • making smart decisions that have a high ROI (return on investment)
  • managing ur own time and money
  • how to adapt, improvise, and overcome struggles and obstacles
  • asking for help
  • conveying what u think and feel
  • staying consistent (discipline)
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Things You Can Control ✨✨
  1. How you respond to others and situations.
  2. Where you spend your time and who with.
  3. The shows, books, news and social media you consume.
  4. What you do with your free time.
  5. What you say to others.
  6. What you think about.
  7. How hard you try.
  8. What you allow or don't allow from others.
  9. Good or bad routines you follow.
  10. What you aim for in life.
  11. Being positive or negative.
  12. Eating, exercising, and resting.
  13. Learning new skills or knowledge.
  14. Who you hang out with.
  15. What you buy and spend on.
  16. Keeping your space clean or messy.
  17. What fun activities you pick up.
  18. Saying "thank you" and feeling thankful.
  19. Knowing when to say "no" or "enough".
  20. What you hope for and dream about.
  21. Doing nice things for others.
  22. Picking one thing over another.
  23. What's most important to you.
  24. What you do every day.
  25. What you feel is true or right.
  26. Taking time for yourself.
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Hoe Tips: Flirting and Attraction

1. Smell like a snack. Vanilla or cinnamon scents that have a sweet musk to them work best bc they release endorphins that are linked to sexual arousal.

2. Make sure you look fuckin snatch at all times. Keep your hair tamed with a brush or hairtie, moisturize ya skin daily, keep your teeth clean, keep your clothes matched and stain/wrinkle free, etc.

3. Act like you don’t need a man/women. Because you don’t. Girls that are confident and self assured get the most attention for sure.

4. Be smart. People are attracted to intelligence. Keep those grades up and offer the cute guys/gals of your class to tutor them👅

5. Smile and laugh a lot. Happiness is attractive as fuck.

6. Be nice to people. Compliment them, offer someone a snack/gum, don’t be a cold bitch.

7. Be tease-y, not easy. Don’t just sleep around with anybody and hope they come back for more; make it like you deserve to be worked for. When y'all are exchanging nudes, play with different angles to conceal the goods ever so slightly, and strip down to lingerie and ya naked body slowly, instead of just flat out sending them naked pics right away. Make sexual jokes every now and then, and if somebody offers to hook up with you as a joke or as a serious offer, just give them a smile and say “sweetie, you wouldn’t know what to do with me.” Lines like that keep ‘em crawlin for more.

8. Be touchey-feely (without being rapey, obv). Don’t be afraid to place a hand on someone’s arm/shoulder, or give someone a friendly nudge/shove when appropriate.

9. Draw attention to your lips. Wear a bold lip color every now and again, make sure they’re always moisturized and soft. Bite your lip gently or play with your lip absentmindedly when speaking to someone.

10. Develop pet names for people. Just a simple “thanks doll” when someone hands you something you dropped is all it takes to accustom people to it.

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The Second Master List

  •  Have you ever considered dating yourself?
  1. Which would you choose? Being with your soulmate for 1 year and then they  die, or choosing to not meet them at all.
  2. If a prisoner (in jail) wrote a letter to you, Would you write back?
  3. If you could have a twin, Would you?
  4. If you had to give up Your arms or your legs -which would it be?
  5. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
  6. If you had to pick 1 or 2 qualities that you have had since you were a child -what would they be.
  7. If you could see your death Would you want to see it?
  8. If you could lose all your memories and start fresh, would you choose to do it? Say the age you start fresh would be at 15 years old.What about at 20?
  9. Would you rather have an unrequited love for 5 years or feel no love for 5 years?
  10. Would you ever give 5 years of your life To extend the life of a grandparent?
  11. Would you rather have a father that is in jail or not know who your father is?
  12. How many more Failures can you take?
  13. If you could pick a country that most represents you, which would it be?
  14. If you could be on a dating reality TV show -would you?
  15. Would you choose to look in mirrors all day, or never look in a mirror again?
  16. What is the first thing you look at when you look at yourself in the mirror?
  17. If you could never again think one thing what would it be?
  18. If you had to be sick for the rest of your life would you choose something that kills you quickly & painfully, or bearably but slowly
  19. If you could redo your first kiss would you: a) choose to do it and b)
  20. -change the person
  21. -change your age
  22. -change the location
  23. -change your/their skill level
  24. Do you think more people like(d) you now or when you were younger?
  25. If you could change your name what would you change it to?
  26. If you could change your name what would you change it to?
  27. Have you ever been attracted to a friend’s parents?
  28. What would you do if your life was stuck on replay, and you continuously relived one day?
  29. What is something you’ve always wanted to do  but never done because it doesn’t “fit” with what people expect/are used to from you? (now consider doing it!)
  30. If anything could happen to/through your tumblr site what is the one thing you wish would?
  31. How many times have you wanted to ask someone out but haven’t done it because you *weren’t sure if your feelings were strong enough*?
  32. If you are sick and will die in 1 yr, And you found your soulmate (and they know they are as well). Would you:
  33. A)even tell them you are sick, and B) be with them for the year, or break up with them 
  34. What characteristic makes you attractive to the opposite sex/potential partners? (Do one physical and one personality)
  35. If you had to choose between getting married to your soulmate and continuing a super successful career -which would you choose?
  36. Would you rather settle or be alone?
  37. Have you ever questioned Your sexual orientation?
  38. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
  39. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
  40. Would you like to be famous? For what?
  41. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
  42. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
  43. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
  44. Would you (do you) ever save 50% of your income?
  45. What do you think you haven’t found in a potential partner yet? Why?
  46. When something bad happens how do you deal with it?
  47. Talk to someone
  48. Think about it alone (ruminate)
  49. Ignore/suppress and distract yourself
  50. Try to fix it immediately
  51. Would you say yes to being in the body of the opposite gender for 1 year?
  52. Have you ever considered “trying out” an eating disorder?
  53. Ask a significant person in the group you are playing this game with, whether they have ever considering breaking up with you (friendship-wise or romantically), when, and why did they not.
  54. What’s the biggest sacrifice You’ve made for the person on your left (or in the room), that they haven’t acknowledged?
  55. Ask your father “How am I most like you, and how does that scare you?”
  56. Are you scared someone in the room will hurt you? Who, and in what way?
  57. If you needed to decide between two people you know, which will die  -would you want to decide, or let a stranger decide?
  58. After a long pursuit You realise someone is as keen
  59. What was your family’s attitude towards affection? How has that impacted you?
  60. Do you wish facebook didn’t exist?
  61. Think of the question you would most like answered, by a person or an all-knowing being or device. Which of the following most closely resembles the answer you’d like to hear?
  62. Without a shadow of a doubt
  63. Never
  64. You are
  65. No i didn’t
  66. I will show you everything
  67. I do
  68. Come with me
  69. Only one
  70. Yes
  71. Always
  72. You will
  73. In the distant future
  74. What do  you like most about having a child of your own? You MUST say something
  75. Is there a profession You’ve always wanted to date? (Doctor. Firefighter, military, vet etc)
  76. Among your group of friends are you one who will generally take care of and help everyone (even if you hate it)? Or are you the one who rationally thinks about it and determines whether the person actually needs help?
  77. Would you rather live in a world where you are never alone or where you are always alone
  78. If your life could be a soundtrack Which movie/tv show’s would you choose?
  79. If you could live a movie which would you choose?
  80. Has this election Made you be more interested or less interested in politics? Think carefully.
  81. Ask the person across from you Who do you think I should be with?
  82. -pick anyone -pick anyone from your friends -pick any celebrity
  83. Be honest: the person asking you these questions -If you could have their life -would you want it?
  84. When was the last time you cried? Why?
  85. Would you rather feel too much or feel nothing at all?
  86. Do you feel you are more attached to your friends, than they are to you?
  87. Which of the seven deadly sins Do you deal with the most?
  88. Within the group of people You are answering questions with, what is something you really regret that you’ve done to someone in the group.
  89. What would the title of your autobiography be?
  90. Do you have songs that you avoid because they make you feel too much? Give one example, and one feeling associated with it.
  91. If you could be an Expert in any field, which would you choose?
  92. If you could be an Expert in any field, which would you choose?
  93. Describe your ex Using one emoji
  94. What aspect do you struggle With the most, when making a new friend? (Ex: Vulnerability, time/history together, learning about them, integrating into your life etc).
  95. Do you have a hard time Integrating your friends into different aspects of your life? ( Ex work friends with family, family friends with school friends).
  96. Big spoon or little spoon? Why?
  97. In what situation do you Feel the loneliest?
  98. What is something you Believe your parents dislike about you?
  99. Do you feel That the way you look right now represents who you are/how you feel?
  100. Choose between being able To make people very happy vs. Never hurting them. Which would you choose?
  101. What made you start Your Tumblr blog?
  102. Have you ever wished For a disorder or disability? (Or considered it)
  103. Choose. Between perpetrator and victim.
  104. Do you feel Like you’ve reached your peak?
  105. How much of your time Do you spend thinking about romance?
  106. Have people pointed out Your biggest insecurity, or have you never talked about it with anyone (positively or negatively)?
  107. Alternate to 101:
  108.  i.  Did you generate your insecurity, or was it something you  developed over time based off of other people’s comments
  109. If you were in a group of best friends; Are you the:
  110. A) ring leader 
  111. B) the groupie
  112. C) the lone wolf
  113. D) the drifter
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Guide to tarot cards & meanings (I)

I’ve been practicing Tarot for 3 years now and I thought I should share my personal notes from my Book of Shadows. These are my feelings about these cards and what I’ve noticed about them in spreads and how they relate to one another. This is part 1 on the Major Arcana and I’ll be posting a part 2 on the Minor Arcana (which are just as important!). Enjoy!

Note on reversals: If you draw a card and it is upside down, that doesn’t usually mean the opposite of the upright meaning. It more so indicates an excess of the qualities of the upright meaning. You’ll see what I mean by that below.

The Major Arcana

  • The Fool: Doesn’t necessarily represent foolishness, but more of an innocence to the ways of the world. Represents the earliest days in spiritual development/almost always a sign of new adventure to begin. Big time of changes. Reversed indicated “look before you leap”.
  • The Magician: A powerful card which tells of a warning of opportunity. Reminder to bring love, finances, morality and emotion together to prepare for a time of change. Reversed indicates a person who may be a perfectionist and may use power negatively.
  • The High Priestess: In a man’s reading, she indicates the woman of his dreams. In a woman’s reading, she is searching for herself in the high priestess. Reversed means logic/fact based decision making, or occasionally sensual pleasures & selfishness.
  • The Empress: Look for material wealth and abundance. Fertility for hopeful parents and creative folks, and a sign of a blissful marriage in more mature folks. Reversed indicates disharmony on the domestic front.
  • The Emperor: Domination of the material world. Authority. Law. Stable. Paternal power. Father figure. May be a highly controlled sexual drive. Reversed means immaturity, unable to leave the nest, loss of control, and passiveness.
  • The Hierophant: Appears as the “Pope” of orthodox teaching, which opposes the Priestess, who teaches secretly and to the initiated to her mysteries. Look for some indicator of a preference to ritual and ceremony, or he can mean a need of approval of others/society. Reversed tells you that it’s time for some unconventional thinking.
  • The Lovers: When the Lovers appear, it traditionally indicates someone who must make a decision to overcome temptation. We have choices, and we often struggle with sacred and profane love. Reversed it means a possibility of poor choices, quarrels, and infidelity. Get in check with rational self.
  • The Chariot: Indicates success and triumph over the forces of nature (ex. illness, natural disaster). Power over those who would cause us harm. When reversed it tells of victory with moral sacrifice, such as lying or cheating.
  • Strength: Triumph/need to triumph over carnal desires and focus on spiritual powers. Goals are in sight. Persevere and the power of your character will shine through. Nature of love has power over evil. Reversed indicates a person who is ruled by material gain and need to seek reassurances from others because of the lack of moral fortitude.
  • The Hermit: One of my personal favorite cards! Know you have a chance to receive wisdom from the divine/spirit world. Also indicates a meeting with a teacher or mentor - someone who can guide you through future endeavors (physical or spiritual). Reversed it indicates a tendency to ignore advice.
  • Wheel of Fortune: Reminds us we are NOT governed by chance or fate, and you have the power to change your future. Expect success due to intelligent decisions; a change for the better. Reversed indicates stagnation, setbacks, roadblocks.
  • Justice: Justice will be done, and balance will rule the day. A balanced person knows how to get rid of baggage and toxic relationships. May also mean a want for higher education. Reversed indicates legal battles/complications. Reminder to use mercy when judging others.
  • The Hanged Man: An evolution from the Fool. He is making a sacrifice, and his sacrifice will produce transformation. Shows us a suspension in time in our life and undiscovered wisdom. When reversed he shows us someone who is resistant to spiritual influences because they are wrapped up in the material.
  • Death: Represents transformation and rebirth, not physical death. Actually indicates new opportunity, even though there may be a period of upheaval or even destruction. But rebirth will follow. Note association with the number 13 here (13th card in the Major Arcana). Reversed this card shows stagnation and refusal to accept change.
  • Temperance: Depicting archangel Michael, this card shows us we must translate our imagination to activity. Also shows someone who uses wit/skill to adapt to new circumstances, or can show someone who needs to participate in team work for success. Look for Fire signs. Reversed it shows imbalance. Either a person who has poor relationships or may be corrupt, or it can show a bi-polar person or someone who has chemical imbalance.
  • The Devil: Opposes Michael in the Temperance card. Look for discontent/depression/emotional stagnation. Also indicates a materialistic person who resists spirituality. The card of addiction and bad decision making. When reversed, it shows overcoming material addiction and toxic choices in trade for spiritual understanding.
  • The Tower: Major life break down/crisis. Often associated with Satan’s downfall. Indicates big changes, conflict, and catastrophe. Look for a person who’s life is about to change. The change can be good as well as bad. Reversed it shows that freedom from detainment of either mind and spirit or physical detainment (ex. leaving an abusive relationship or bad job situation) can be achieved, but at great cost.
  • The Star: Stop. Listen. This is the card of mediation. Take a moment to reflect, and the truth will reveal itself. Shows someone who is attaining spiritual enlightenment, hope, and inspiration. Also indicates that great love will be given and received. When reversed, the Star shows doubt and pessimism, someone who has deep sadness from lack of faith in any aspect of their life, not just spiritual. Also indicates potential mental or physical illness.
  • The Moon: In a spread, look for someone who has or is developing psychic abilities. The Moon calls you to trust your instinct because of deception and hidden messages. Also represents general mental health. Reversed, it is a reminder that practical solutions may be better in your situation. Risks should be avoided, so just ride out the storm.
  • The Sun: The child shows perfect balance between subconscious and conscious mind. He is nearing the end of the Fool’s journey. Almost always a sign of good things to come - mental and physical health, reunions, good marriages. Also indicates completion of studying and learning. When reversed it indicates a cloudy future, a possible job or marriage that is on the line, or someone who is just meandering with no goals.
  • Judgement: The angel Gabriel blows his trumpet, liberating us from earthly limitations. Indicates life lived to its fullest with all the steps taken to advancement or a happy life. Indicates a new ability to blend with greater surroundings. When reversed, it shows a sign of weakness, failure to find happiness, maybe in part to a lack of readiness/motivation. Also indicates loss.
  • The World: Indicates the final stage to the Fool’s journey. Symbolizes completion and triumph in all undertakings. When reversed this card shows an unwillingness to move on/attachment, such as an artist who never feels like their work is finished. 

Happy reading loves!

luxxuryxo

Telling you I love you is hard so I:

  • leave you handwritten notes in your books
  • write poems about you behind your photographs
  • lean on your shoulders and secretly run my fingers on your arms
  • whine for your attention and get jealous when you talk to other girls
  • ask you about your day before going to bed
  • ask you to hold me in your arms or spoon me when I’m sad
  • make Valentine boxes for you with all my love
  • cuddle you when you’re sad
  • intertwine our fingers between our seats on our romantic movie dates
  • ask you to go to a library with me and secretly hold your hand under the desk
  • light your cigarette for you (if you even smoke)
  • let you teach me and tutor me on things I don’t know
  • pout at you to get me my favourite stuffies so I can think of you while falling asleep, holding them in my arms
  • ramble about the house we’d build in the future and the beautiful kids we’d adopt
  • massage your shoulders after a tiring day
  • make you lie down on the grass with me and count the stars together
  • lay my head on your chest to listen to your heartbeat
  • learn how to cook for you
  • hesitantly let you carry my heavy bag on my way back from school
  • help you clean your room when I visit yours
  • wake you up with soft butterfly kisses
  • ask you to stay at mine a little longer till dinner
  • secretly worship and admire you as you protect/fight for me
  • wrap my arms around your neck and play with your hair while placing your hand on my waist as we kiss at the sunset
  • learn how to sew your name and embroider on your handkerchief
  • travel and explore my city with you
  • chat with your mom/guardian about you
  • let you braid my hair while I sit on your lap and read you our favourite books
  • listen to our favourite songs together and dance to them with you
  • ask you to hold me close while watching horror movies
  • let you choose what I should wear every day
  • ask you to sing me to sleep or tell me a story before going to sleep
  • draw and colour pictures with you
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Selfcare Sunday Ideas
Slow Morning
  • Wake up before 8 am.
  • Do some Yoga.
  • Meditate.
  • Make your fav breakfast.
Plan
  • Plan your schedule for the week.
  • Set intentions for the week.
  • Check in on your goals.
  • Upate your calendar for the week.
  • Plan meals, grocery shop, meal prep.
Chores
  • Make your beed,
  • Change bedding.
  • Empty dishwasher.
  • Clean bathroom.
  • Clear/wipe surfaces.
  • Sweep/mop floors.
  • Take trash out.
  • Do your laundry.
  • Clean out your purse or backpack.
  • Wash makeup brushes.
  • Organize closet.
Relax
  • Listen to a podcast.
  • Spend the day without social media.
  • Call a loved one.
  • Bake something.
  • Go for a walk.
Selfcare
  • Do your skincare routine.
  • Bubble bath.
  • Wash and condition hair.
  • Use a hair mask.
  • Wash and moisturise face.
  • Use a face mask.
  • Apply body lotion.
  • File and paint nails.
  • Exfoliate your skin.
  • Shave.
Wind Down
  • Have a light dinner.
  • Drink a cup of tea.
  • Light a candle.
  • Read a book or watch a movie.
  • Journaling.
  • Go to sleep early.
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seductive habits

1. slow down. walk slower. eat slower. speak slower. don’t respond to others so quickly. try to avoid rushing. slowing down gives you a relaxing presence.

2. put your needs first. pamper yourself. always make sure your needs are fully met. never rush into anything or make promises you can’t keep. just keep it real.

3. be mysterious. make your presence a gift that not everyone has access to. it is a privilege to be near you.

4. sensual body language. relax your shoulders. lean into your curves. express yourself with sensuality. instead of being aggressive and showy, be calm and natural.

5. connect to your core. learn to belly dance. do yoga and core exercises. work with your sacral chakra.

6. balance softness and firmness. having a dual nature will make you appear more interesting and irresistible. (ex: assert your boundaries with a calm voice).

7. learn you archetype. know thyself. your strengths and weaknesses. your personality. like and dislikes. you don’t need to change yourself, just embrace who you are.

8. build your confidence. master your fears and insecurities. never compare yourself to anyone. you are ‘one of a kind’ and that is powerful.

9. choose the right target. choose someone who is infatuated with you (not the other way around). seduction isn’t about being weak, it’s about using your targets weaknesses to get what you want. and their weakness is you.

10. enjoy the game. be a naughty child again. break the rules. keep it lighthearted and never get too attached.

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How to make someone feel loved <3

  • Write them a cute letter.
  • Carefully listen to what they are saying and ask genuine questions.
  • Wait for them if you notice them falling behind.
  • Ask them how their day was. <3
  • Show them your favourite songs, films, and books.
  • “I miss you”, “I love you, “I’m thinking about you”.
  • Bake them something. Like the heart jam cookies from Pinterest (should I post the recipe??)
  • Make them a playlist. :)
  • If they get interrupted, ask what they were going to say.
  • Remember their favourite coffee/drink order.
  • Offer them encouragement and support.
  • Surprise them with a small gift, something that made you think of them.
  • Buy them flowers.
  • Send them links to stuff that you think they might like.
  • Let them know how grateful you are to have them in your life. <3

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions and tips in the comments!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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dark feminine habits

1. ᴍᴀꜱᴛᴇʀʙᴀᴛᴇ. give yourself permission to feel pleasure. it release stress from your body.

2. get naked. dance naked. sleep naked. look at you body in the mirror. soak in a bath. moisturize your skin. get a massage.

3. tell people no. if it’s not a hell yes, don’t waste your time. you have free will to do as you please. you are not a slave.

4. have pride in yourself and your achievements. set goals. accept compliments. own your confidence. shine.

5. flirt. it’s fun.

6. do shadow work. at the end of your day, take time to reflect on your mistakes and write down ways to make progress. this helps you understand your fears and guilts. journal. introspection.

7. don’t go along with anything that feels wrong to you. be assertive and don’t be afraid to cut someone off or cause a scene when your boundaries are crossed.

8. work your brain. do puzzles. reads books. learn about seduction. develop a skill. take time to daydream. visually manifest.

9. be daring. wear a sexy outfit or bold makeup look. show cleavage. follow your dreams. break routine. speak your mind. shock the people around you and ignore their judgements.

10. release timidity. stop overly apologizing, stuttering and overthinking. say exactly what you mean. feel exactly how you feel. banish all forms of guilt and shame.

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guide to become your best version ✨

the first step, be clear about what your best version would look like. questions to ask yourself.

  • what would my best version look like?
  • what habits would i have?
  • what would my life be like?
  • what would be my morning and evening routine?
  • what thoughts would i have?
  • what would i focus on?
  • what thoughts and habits should i leave behind?
  • how would i like to feel?

and lastly…

  • what can i start doing to connect with this version of me?

you can also add your own questions if they resonate with you, the important thing about this exercise is that you connect a little bit more with that better version of yourself.

from my experience, it is important to focus and work on these three areas of our life at the same time so that none of these areas are out of balance and we can flow to that version more easily.

it is important because i have realized from my own experience and from other people who send me questions that they only focus on one area, in most cases, the habits, and forget others, then when something happens or we go through a bad moment we feel lost and it seems that everything is "wrong" but if we work on these areas at the same time and we nurture them day by day we will have more control of our emotions and thoughts, then we will not stagnate in "bad times". remember, we can always go through bad times but these always bring us a learning experience.

✨ physical

  • daily movement, create an exercise routine
  • eating healthy food, for the sake and perfect functioning of our body.
  • create a daily routine that will help us reach our goals.
  • healthy habits
  • hobbies that help us connect with our best self.
  • focus on the well-being of our body

✨ mental and emotional

  • read about personal growth, psychology, and topics that will help us to improve our personal best.
  • journaling
  • keep a daily record of our emotions, as well as our habits.
  • focus on what we do want rather than what we don't want
  • detect what our negative thought patterns are and change them for - more positive ones according to how we want to think and feel from now on.
  • affirm positively
  • work on those areas of our life that we need to improve or are damaged

✨ spiritual

  • healing and balancing both your feminine and masculine energies
  • develop your intuition
  • have faith in yourself and in the process of creation (god, universe, energy…)
  • read about spirituality
  • meditate day and night
  • doing energetic cleansing
  • connect with your spiritual side
  • love yourself for who you are now
  • forgive the people who hurt us and forget the past
  • practice gratitude
  • practice compassion and tolerance towards yourself and others
  • connect with nature

this is what i believe brings us closer to becoming our best version, as i am always learning new things about the subject and evolving both personally and spiritually so i will continue to share this in future posts.

as always all questions related to the topic are welcome and if you have any doubts you can also ask.

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fleuvien

need to cop one of these bitches for winter

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girlbloggen

same idk how people had the nerve to hate on these boots ; like they're so cute & comfortable & no you're not badass or unique or whatever if you hate on them