The discourse about Gwen not "really" being trans in ATSV is exactly the reason why queer characters and queer stories are in this boring and unsatisfying state they're in right now.
Because it seems to the people complaining about how the movie handled her there are only two ways of doing "representation":
- The character says "hello my name is X and by the way I am trans" and then they wear a trans flag pin or whatever but for the rest of the story this is not relevant in any way
- The character is in a story ABOUT being trans in a way that defines the character entirely and does not give space for them to have any other role in the story and usually takes the shape of tragedy porn or "inspiration"
And even though both of these seem complete opposites of each other they are unsatisfying in the long term. None of them are inherently bad and definitely important stepping stones and developments as our culture moves to more trans inclusivity and acceptance (and similar things could be said about portrayals of other marginalised groups) but in the end neither of these options allows for trans characters be CHARACTERS in ways that are afforded to cis characters in that they get to have stories that are not merely about their gender identity.
(Not that stories about gender identity are bad but I'm sure we all agree that trans people are being done a disservice if the only stories they get to appear in are ABOUT being trans.)
And likewise the explicit "my identity is X but don't worry it's not gonna come up in any way" is basically just a coat of paint and a point on a checklist that leads to sanitised "disney's first openly whatever character" of the week with toy tie ins and tiktok ad campaigns. It's meant to be consumable and ultimately meaningless. Please don't ask for this because you deserve more.
I went into the movie largely unspoilt but I caught some spoilers about Gwen being transgender figuring into its text somehow and I was really worried it was going to take one of these two shapes and either be perfunctory and superficial or heavy handed and distracting.
But in the end it really showed that you don't have to do either of these things but instead can use a character's gender identity to strengthen the impact of a completely different story that is fully unrelated and that's just so good???
Because we have this whole "coming out as spiderman (or -woman)" subplot that Miles and Gwen are going through, but instead of just using this as a cheap "this is just like coming out as transgender if you think about it. as long as you don't think too hard" it is instead used to INFORM Gwen's perspective on things because when she is talking about trusting your parents she is not JUST talking about being spiderwoman. And depending on when you catch on to her being portrayed as trans this might dawn on you earlier or later.
But not only this but then they make the EXPLICIT and GLARING choice to DRENCH her reconciliation scene in the trans colours and unlike so many other "look we have the trans colours this means you're represented!!" ways other movies employ this it actually MEANS something in the scene because it is a moment of acceptance and there is this whole resonance with the idea of being accepted for your real gender by your parents that just makes the whole scene work on a completely different level emotionally.
It's just really good okay?