𝐣𝐢𝐚'𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐭!

jia % she/her % minor % spreading love, not germs!

note:

- seeking meaningful interactions

- recovery, positivity, body positivity :o)

- everything here is entirely sfw!

- trigger warnings will be tagged accordingly

- responses to letters about heavy triggers (e.g. TW/CW: su*cide, TW/CW: blood) will be written under the cut.

** i am not a licensed mental health professional, and neither am i equipped to give medical advice. please seek further professional help and please do not be afraid to reach out!

p.s. i use 'lovelies', 'dear', 'dearie', 'darling', a lot. please let me know if you're uncomfortable!

important notes:

- hello lovelies, welcome to my little corner of the internet. this is where i talk about positive stuff! there won't be as much politics /drama/discourse here – i intend for this space to be safe, comfortable, and peaceful. however, you are welcome to share your opinions on anything; as long as you keep it respectful! :o) this is also an LGBTQ+ safe space.

- this is a space for everyone. i'll add more when i see fit, but for now, everyone is welcome to interact.

- no nsfw interactions, please. i am very much a minor.

- you're more than welcome to be on anon :o)

- you can find my rules here!

- my genshinblr is @ohmykazuha :o)

tags i use:

• love letters from jia : answering asks, sending comfort letters, etc

• jia talks : jia's interactions in general

• jia's musings : my monologues, soliloquies, etc.

• jia's rules : self explanatory XD

• more will be added as this blog grows.

♥ give yourself the space and the time to heal. people are not entitled to you giving those up just for them, and you should not be giving up your mental health to please them.

🔖 special note!

lovelettersfromjia will be undergoing a transformation!

we'll be embarking on a project called "letters from a stranger", where you get to send in your own advice and positivity and tips and things of that sort. from strangers, to strangers! i hope you will participate in it. thank you for sticking around!

ps. i'll still be doing my regular quotes and stuff! just this on top of it <3

♥︎ if you haven’t heard it today, i’m very proud of you! love, a stranger on the internet.

♥︎ how beautiful it is to be able to feel alive.

♥︎ love harder, appreciate longer, hope stronger.

♥︎ let your mind wander freely, let yourself be enraptured by the world around you. never let your imagination fade, and never lose that sparkle in your eyes.

♥︎ shh, rest.

♥︎ the pain you're going through now is only temporary.

♥︎ never, ever, hold back on your kindness.

♥︎ i hope you know that people care about you.

♥︎ if no one has told you yet... i think your smile is one of the most wonderful things about you.

tomorrow is mental health monday! remember to send some asks in 💕

psa: my ask box is always open if you'd like to talk/rant/cry. if you'd like your ask to be private, please send it off anon, so i can reply to you privately! or if you wish, i can post my response here for your anonymous ask.

♥︎ 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞

love is... reassuring. love is being there for someone, even though you're busy as hell. it is holding the hair of your lover back as they scream and cry, each sob hurting your heart. it is running your fingers through their hair to calm down. it is falling asleep in their arms, your hands intertwined.

love is making time for them. love, love is taking the time out of your busy schedule for them. it is the simplest things – eating lunch by the river, having a picnic, watching the stars in the backyard. love is being present together and appreciating being with each other.

love is waiting for them, and walking with them through life. love is reassuring them through all the trials and tribulations, that they will be there. it is being patient with each other, it is communication, it is respect for each other.

love is unconditional. it is getting my coffee order wrong but i still love you anyway. love is... love is still finding the space in your heart to care for them, even after they have hurt you. it is finding the space within you to forgive them, and embracing the peace that comes after.

love is flexible. it doesn't have to be romantic. it ca be familial and platonic. love is an understanding, an agreement, a fated alignment between two parties. love is knowing boundaries, and keeping within them.

love is caring. it is emphasising. it is crying over someone, because they mean so much to you. it is buying their favourite takeout meal for them after a long day. it is a handwritten card, a bouquet of flowers, a cup of tea. it is staying up till 2am to rest with each other. it is covering your lover with a blanket as they fall asleep on the couch.

love is confusing. but love.. when love gets recognised, it can easily be the most wonderful thing in the world.