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@loudvoidchild

˓𓄹 ࣪˖ daria, '03, she/her. queer media enjoyer and full-time uni student with broken english ˖ ࣪⭑

saw someone refer to not knowing how to keep track of your money as "girl math" ......why are we in this weird era of treating women like idiots but repackaging it to sound cute and quirky. We All Need To Stop

study methods

the second brain method

this method focuses on organizing the information you learn to maximize effectiveness. a common way of doing this is through the CODE method:

capture - be quick and efficient in how you receive the information

organize - organize the information in a way that works for you

distill - break the information down to its key elements

express - apply the information you’ve learned

* there is a ton of information out there about this method. if you struggle with burnout and knowing where to start, i recommend researching this method further to figure out what works for you.

the pomodoro method

the pomodoro method is a time management method. the most common expression of this method is to pick a task, work for 25 minutes on that task, then take a break for 5 minutes. then, repeat. if you’re planning to work all day, you may up the time spent studying. for example, after a while of this, you may work for 30 minutes at a time, then 40, then 45, and so forth. this method is particularly good for when you’re feeling unmotivated or having a hard time focusing. if you’re still not feeling it after a while, you may start to take longer breaks. for example, you may study for 30 minutes, break for 15, and keep going like that.

the 5 minute rule method

this method is good for when you have to do a shorter task, but you’re procrastinating doing it. this method requires you to dedicate only 5 minutes to do your task. after that, you may stop, but chances are, once you’ve started, finishing won’t be as difficult.

the blurting method

this method is particularly good for revision. the blurting method requires you to read over the content you are learning, then put it away and write down everything you know or can remember. then, check the content and revise everything you didn’t write down.

spaced repetition

spaced repetition requires you to spread out your study reviews over the period of a few days. this has been shown to improve memory. rather than studying one thing at a time, then studying something else the next day and so on, review the information right after you’ve learned it, then recall it after a few hours, then a few days, then a few weeks, and so on. if you’re studying something you will need to remember for an extended period of time, this method would be perfect for you!

active recall

this is my absolute favorite method! it’s been shown to improve your studying immensely and so many people have benefited from practicing active recall. active recall involves retrieving information from your brain, usually done through questions. a good way to do this is to explain the concept to yourself, to someone else, or act like you’re doing a presentation on the subject. after you’ve recalled all of the information you know about the subject, go over your material again and be sure you covered everything and explained everything the best way you could. if you didn’t, review everything you did not remember or got wrong, and go again. do this until you get everything. doing this can also be referred to as the feynman technique.

the SQ3r method

survey - skim your text and identify bolded text, headers, images, etc.

question - generate questions about the text based on what you surveyed. what are the key concepts in this text? what is each paragraph about? what information do i need to take away from this text?

read - read through the entire text and answer the questions you created

recite - summarize what you learned in your own words

review - recall the key concepts and answers to your questions

Anonymous asked:

How do I stop hating myself

You're already probably a lil narcissistic (no shade, i am too) because self hate implies deep self absorption and concern over oneself that is overblown. Like you hate yourself because you're not smart, beautiful, funny, sociable, talented, charismatic, whatever, as your ideal. But you KNOW there are people worse than you. Like you know it. It just doesnt matter to you because you need to be more beautiful, smart, charismatic, whatever, than that. So you already have a big ego even though it's fragile and you love kicking it down. Again, no shade. Anyways, you need to realise self pitty is cringe. And since you already give yourself so much importance, you can use that ego combined with the cringe at self pitty to stop engagin in corny repetitive thoughts like "boo i hate myself". Anytime a really negative thought about yourself comes, roll your eyes at yourself, with kindness but annoyance, like you would do to a loved friend that is being stupid. And move on.

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heres a few links from my bookmarks folder full of HTML and CSS resources that i used when first making my neocities website because i want other people to make their own sites as well because its fun :)

how to actually do html and css

web design in 4 minutes - this is the site that really made HTML and CSS click for me, following along as the author describes what’s he’s doing to the webpage and showing how it changes the presentation (you don’t need the book he shills at the end. i did without)

w3schools introduction to html - takes you through the very basics of creating a website, lesson-by-lesson. big goldmine for code to grab and scaffold off of once you have some basic skills

mozilla’s html guide - also a great beginner’s guide by the people who made mozilla, although i didnt use it as much as w3 schools

brackets.io - this is the program i use to write the files i use for my website. lets you do splitscreen to work with two files at once, gives you a breakdown of all the files in your website’s folder, and will let you autofill commonly-used tags and files in the code. supposedly has a live preview function but it doesnt work that well for me when i’m using a second monitor, which i normally do when coding. just save the file and refresh the page instead. 

(side note: i work in a software external to neocities instead of directly in the neocities editor because 1. local files update with a refresh and neocities has to update the cookies AND download all the website info again once you update, and 2. it effectively gives you a mass undo button if you fuck up because you have your files hosted in multiple places (local and online). yes its kinda annoying to have to manually upload all my files especially bc you cant upload whole folders AND you cant move their locations once uploaded but i prefer it to working directly on the site. if you have a neocities pro subscription ($5/month) you can mount your website directly on your machine as opposed to the neocities dashboard, which basically means you dont have to manually upload the code every time you change something – it’ll update automatically)

codepen - if you prefer something browser-based to work in then try codepen, i used it a little bit at the beginning when trying to troubleshoot some code i didn’t quite understand. you need an account to actually save your work and im not sure if it actually lets you upload folders bc i never signed up lol

premade engines/sites/themes/etc etc

neothemes or eggramen or templaterr - if you wanna get a quick start on a neocities site, you CAN use a theme generator/premade theme. if you go this route i would still heavily recommend trying to learn HTML and CSS, and then go into the guts of your own website to try and pick it apart and change it to your liking

zonelets - a static blogging engine that uses HTML, CSS, and javascript. made for use on neocities but theoretically useable elsewhere. takes about 15 minutes to set up (if you use a default theme, but its pretty customizable if you know what you’re doing) and requires you to 1. write blog posts in html and 2. modify some code in a script file every time you want to upload a post, but it will automatically let you browse posts in order once you get everything uploaded

rarebit - a neocities webcomic template — havent used it yet but looks cool, and seems to operate off of the same principles as zonelets. 

glightbox - this is the lightbox javascript code i use when i want to display a lot of images on one page. i found this code via clicking “inspect element” on a neocities fanpage that the webmaster drew a lot of fanart for. you should click inspect element on neocities pages that you like so you can understand how they do what you like (you can even look at their css by clicking the style.css link you have to include at the top of your page)

plus a couple masterlists/directories:

girl dinner (big fucking plate of carbs and protein) girl math (complex analysis) girl career (trades and engineering and politics and compsci) girl sports (dirtbikes and football and weightlifting) girl instruments (drums and bass guitar and electric) girl personality (loud and opinionated and annoying and brash)

Ares isn't just violence.

To me, Ares is energy. He's courage and He's determination. He motivates us to push through when we feel like we can't. He is the voice in our head which tells us to keep going. He's strength and He's perseverance, He's warmth and support.

When you fight for what's right, He's standing right there beside you. He pushes us to be the best, to achieve greatness, but He won't let us break. He's the older brother who watches you struggle so you learn and get stronger, but He still loves you and wants the best for you.

He's kind and He's gentle and there's so much to Him that I could never put in words. So don't write Him off because's He's the God of War.

I just love Him. so so so so so much. And I wanted to share that because I think He's pretty neat<3

give fewer fucks. do what you want. make fucking art. be emotive. be bright. explore. try new things. be without shame. have some self-esteem. have courage

warrior nun cancelled. first kill cancelled. paper girls cancelled. one day at a time cancelled. the owl house cancelled. im not okay with this cancelled. legacies cancelled. everything sucks cancelled. the babysitters club cancelled. dare me cancelled. i know what you did last summer cancelled. teenage bounty hunters cancelled. the wilds cancelled.

the attitude held towards sapphic media is clear and honestly just appalling. im so sick of this treatment we deserve better than this.

The Owl House said:

  • Fuck redeeming a terrible human being for the sake of redeeming them/"it's a kids show of course everyone gets redeemed" trope
  • Fuck redeeming an abusive parent
  • Fuck "all magic's gone" trope
  • These characters worked so hard and went through so much of course they're going to get rewarded
  • Found family and birth family
  • Gay rights

I'm going to miss this show so much

Dana’s last ‘fuck you’ to Disney

He/they collector

Genderqueer/bi-gender papa king

TWO girlfriend kisses

Onscreen mlm kiss

Implied aladarius

a happy ending to the bi/enby couple

A happy ending to the aro/ace character

And

Death to the white Christian puritain

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Morning affirmations

  • I radiate love, positivity and good energy; that's why I attract amazing people and great opportunities.
  • I believe in myself and my abilities.
  • I love showing up as the highest and best version of myself, radiating confidence, and always being more than enough.
  • I am well-rested and full of energy; I have everything I need to make today a beautiful and memorable day.
  • I never chase; everything I desire comes to me naturally.
  • Opportunities that align with my desired life are constantly presenting themselves to me.
  • Every day Im getting healthier, prettier, and wealthier.
  • Im constantly surrounded by high vibrations, and everything always works out in my favour.
  • I can accomplish anything; working consistently and staying focused is easy for me, and my results are always perfect.
  • I am grateful for all that I have, and I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be. <3

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and favourite affirmations in the comments! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ・:*₊‧✩

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Thewizardliz sayings to remember and repeat

  • It's about you; you are the main character of your life.
  • Sometimes you need to get uncomfortable to get comfortable.
  • People who get angry at you for putting yourself first are the same people who benefit from you putting yourself last
  • You are allowed to say, "Nah, that's not good enough."
  • Stop wasting energy that you can use to become your best version.
  • Becoming selfish is the best thing I ever did.
  • I can make myself fulfilled, and whatever he gives me is just an extra.
  • Start now with what you have.
  • Enough crying, enough being sad, enough saying "tomorrow".
  • Sometimes you lose people that are not meant to be with the highest version of yourself, and you have to let those people go.
  • You vs. you, honey.
  • Some people just don't deserve you. Not mentally, physically or spiritually.
  • I don't argue with people because most of them are stupid.
  • People don't really care what happened to you or what you went through. They really care about what you can do for them.
  • Only here to impress myself.
  • When a Queen does not like her situation, she plans her exit.
  • Manifesting is a lifestyle.
  • The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself.
  • I started prioritising my own needs and wants; whatever I want goes first. That's it; I do not care anymore.

I could honestly go on forever since Liz has so many great things to say, so let me know in the comments if I should make a part 2! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ・:*₊‧✩

my debut post on this app lol

how to deal with social anxiety and feel comfortable outside

tips for social anxiety that work for me:

• wear comfortable and sensory-friendly clothes. create cute and practical outfits so you will feel happy and confident

• I really like sunglasses because they make me feel safe and invisible

• bring your mini altar, crystals, bible, etc. everywhere you go

• wear anxiety rings, plastic rings, headphones or earplugs

• breathing exercises are very helpful

Best language learning tips & masterlists from other bloggers I’ve come across

(these posts are not my own!)

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Feel free to reblog and add your own lists / masterlists!