how to really get to know someone:
- look at their handwriting
- read their favourite book and search for pieces of them within the pages
- listen to their music and let it resonate with you
- go to their favourite place
- stay up ‘till 3am and let them spill their heart out to you
- ask them unusual questions that you never even thought would intrigue you
- spend a day with them doing nothing
- look out for the things they subconsciously do when they’re happy
- watch how their smile forms
- go through old photos with them
- use their body wash when you shower at the persons place (truly, you’ll feel it)
- talk to their parents, grandparents or siblings
I love the ones added <3
-Make them laugh and learn their different laughs (my personal fave to share with someone is the sleepy-drunk laugh)
- make art with them, sitting in the silence just drawing or painting, or having deep conversations while making art, both realllyyy connect them
- spent time with their pets (but not too much because they might be jealous) - notice how they squeeze the toothpaste bottle.
- let them tell you their dreams and ask if you can look it up for them, share the results.
- learn their impulse buys/decisions
^^^ ahhh these are so cute!!
- listen to their scratchy voice in the morning
- have deep eye contact with them
- look at their hands
-look at their tears
-look at their face in the morning, smuged with make up, but glowing with the warm smile they wear
-love the imperfect them, with their flaws and uncertainties
-listen to the sound of their humming and try to figure out the tune
-star gaze together
-talk with them about everything and nothing
-touch their heart and feel the beat resonate through you
-take their shirts and try them on, even wear them for the day. it’s like they’re hugging you.
-inhale their unique scent
-try to remember the little things they do when they are concentrating, or nervous
-remember how their voice becomes more thin, or breathy, or husky, when they are anxious
-or maybe just listen to their voice and simply let it burn in your memory
-try to memorize every line and curve of their face
-lay down together and gaze at each other in the eyes. no words should be used. eye contact is enough
-let yourself fall in love with them, because you are the only one to see their true beauty
This has my heart feeling happy ^
I wanna cry
