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Loving You is Easy: On Love.

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Jenny Slate, twitter | A Self-portrait in Letters, Anne Sexton | Bloom Into You, Sayaka Saeki | Kiss Goodnight, IDKHOW | Rêve d’Été, Shanna Van Maurik | You, Carol Ann Duffy | @\chenchenwrites on twitter | No One Belongs Here More Than You, Miranda July | Emily Dickinson, in a letter to Mary Bowels | What Love Will Do To You, Laufey | Pink Starry Flower Field, Jessica Hamilton | I Had a Dream About You, Richard Siken | Sunstone, Octavio Paz (tr. by Eliot Weinberger) | @/brozyglow on tumblr | Poem of the Mountain, Marina Tsvetaeva | Tranquility, Brian McCarthy | I Am a Grand, Living, Buzzing Thing, Emma Bleker | Sophie, The Altogether | When You Ask Me Where I'm Going, Jasmine Kaur | Virginia Woolf, in a letter to Vita Sackville-West | @/lilith-of-stardust on tumblr

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How Do Angels Have Sex? - Demelza Carlton // Pro-No From Now - Huggy Bear // Amore Rapito, 2015 - Daniele Accossato // Asia Argento // Carlos Darder

Image Description: image 1. Text reading, "1. Angels can have sex."

Image 2. Lyrics reading, "So what contraception's an angel gonna use. When his little halo his little halo. Went and split went and split. His little halo went and split."

Image 3. A sculpture of an angel in a wooden crate. It's almost like kneeling with Its feet tied together, hands together, wings together and mouth taped shut.

Image 4. Text reading, "2. Angels do have sex."

Image 5. a monochrome photo of a shirtless Asia Argento shown from mid chest to waist. She's wearing an unzipped jacket with her hand down her jeans. A large angel tattoo is half sticking out over the waistline of the jeans. She's also wearing a belt with a large buckle and pistols engraved on it.

Image 6. Lyrics reading, "See. Do not penetrate me, oh my angel. Do not penetrate me. Do not penetrate me, oh my angel. For no angel surely would. For no angel surely would. Not one a little more love to grow. Just not one a little more love."

Image 7. Text reading, "Angels have sex with other races."

Image 8. a warm lit photo of luke abby, a blonde haired pale man with a simple angel tattoo on his neck with a hickey on it.

Image 9. A text post by tumblr user OwoChimUwu that reads, "Saw an angel on the suspension bridge desperately trying to copulate with a flickering street lamp. God’s little jokes never run dry." End Description

nothing’s more dangerous than sad girls obsessed with literature and psychology

Fun things they don’t teach you in sex ed.

Talcum powder has asbestos in it. Has for years. Leave it be

This is all FAR more useful education than ‘Having unmarried sex while female makes you a dirty slut’ .

There are a lot of male folks who follow me but don’t know these things. It’s good to know all of this! Just as your partner should want to know about the intricacies of your plumbing, you should care about this.

Spreading this for general health tips.

for trans guys who haven’t transitioned yet and even then

Here’s a thing a lot of people don’t know:

You can be allergic to condoms and you can be allergic to semen.

There are polyurethane condoms if you’re allergic to latex or your partner is. Lots of people claim to have a latex allergy to avoid condoms, so it’s good to have polyurethane condoms on hand in case someone tries that.

If you find yourself getting really red and irritated after sex without a condom and you know it’s not an STD or yeast infection, have your partner orgasm somewhere else on your body and watch for a rash. It’s rare, but it can happen and many people resort to douching or unsafe cleaning instead of addressing the problem. This is fixed with condoms.

You can use corn starch or a version of it like Lady Anti-Monkey Butt (the “lady” version has calamine in it, which is a miracle on irritated skin) on your butt and chub rub but try not to it in your actual labia, any sugars in your self-lubricating bits can contribute to yeast infections.

Don’t use any powder if your skin is broken or bleeding, though. If you nicked yourself with a razor or whatever, wait until there’s an actual scab there.

for trans men:

going on HRT can change the amount and also scent of your discharge and lubrication. sometimes you will get more, like, a lot more! sometimes you won’t. it’s a mystery, but also nothing to really worry over unless things specifically smell bad, which indicates an infection.

also, your clit and vulva change shape, which combined with extra discharge can increase your risk of irritation and, again, yeast or bacterial infection. you should be prepared to try out new underwear until you find something that doesn’t chafe.

If you’re fat or just have chunky thighs, it may be necessary to move to non-cotton undies. I was taught cotton only and did it for years, but now that I am heavier, I don’t get enough airflow to let cotton dry. It absorbs moisture then HOLDS IT AGAINST YOU which can become so uncomfortable. Synthetic fabrics don’t hold moisture, and can be more comfortable.

I know all the advice is synthetics=bad, but if you try cotton and your undies are always clammy and slightly damp, absolutely try synthetics. They genuinely are better for some people. Irritation from the damp isn’t going to be kinder than the synthetics. I have so much less irritation now.

Powder isn’t great if it has talc in it but most brands use cornstarch now. Cornstarch kind is great to use to keep the inner upper thigh dry, and under your boobs. You can use athletic powder made for feet but be careful because the medicated stuff can hit the more sensitive inner skin and then you get an arctic wind blowing across your pussy and not everyone finds it tolerable or funny like me. Failing the athletic powder, baby powder is fine. They sell stuff that doesn’t have that baby powder smell now. I use Burt’s Bees.

We don’t talk enough about health for fat people, we just pathologize it and don’t give a fuck about comfort. You deserve comfort. And your needs can differ from thinner people’s, and that’s okay!

By Welder Wings. x