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some advice for the signs

aries: slow down, and look at the leaves. really. i know it’s stereotypical, but admire their slow and gradual transition to gorgeous hues of orange and yellow. they’re trying to tell you something.

taurus: you aren’t as alone as you think you are, friend. some of your old friends are thinking about you just as much as you’re thinking about them. don’t be afraid to dial them up.

gemini: people think they know you, but they’re wrong. how can they know you when you don’t even know yourself? don’t listen to them. it’s okay to be confused. it’s okay to be imperfect. take your time. no one else matters you right now.

cancer: it’s about that time, isn’t it? the cold is seeping back into the air and into your skin, no matter how many layers of sweaters you wear. just like you. no matter how much you distract yourself, it’s always going to feel a little chilly inside, because there’s something missing. stop trying to fill it. accept it as a part of you. it’s okay to make a truce with your demons.

10 Ways to Build Forgiveness in a Relationship

Goodbye is not always the answer – and this is true for both old and new relationships. Regardless of the mistakes and uncertainties that you are currently facing as a couple, it’s always worth it to try again as long as you know that both of you are willing to still make it work.

Yes, there are some things that cannot easily be forgiven not only because of the hurt that they have caused but also because of how it already tainted your trust in your partner and in your relationship. If you are stuck in this cycle of constantly failing to forgive no matter how much your partner has changed, this article is for you. Here are some inspiring and motivating ways to build forgiveness in a relationship.

1. Stop reliving the pain and hurt. If you want the wound of a mistake to fully heal, you should stop touching it – because what comes after healing is forgiveness, especially if it was done by someone you truly love. Stop thinking about what happened in the past and how it made you feel – as long as the lessons have been learned, you should do your best to stop reliving the pain and hurt. Move on and everything will follow.

2. Give your partner a second chance. People make mistakes and you, yourself, had your own share of regrets in the past. If you did something hurtful to someone you love like your partner, wouldn’t you want to be given a second chance? Just like how you think you deserve that chance, you should also give the same thought about your partner.

6 Principles for Building a Happy, Healthy Life

1. Allow yourself to love, and to be loved by other people.

2. Know the key things that matter most to you.

3. It`s important to have boundaries and to sometimes say “no``.

4. Self-forgiveness is essential to be free of the past.

5. Often, forgiveness is hard work but it is worth the time and effort.

6. Discover who you are – and live a true, authentic life.

If you don’t feel okay, If you feel sad, Tell me and I’ll hug you tight, I’ll snuggle and cuddle you, Let you fall asleep on my chest, Between these arms that will secure you, And reassure you that everythings okay, and that im here for you, as you are here for me.