Just over a year ago, in the last week of academy I had PSE last period. Every week we were given a talk or activity to partake in. That week, our final period, the males and females were split up. Now, you’re probably already wondering why and I assure you that my friends and I all thought the same. We, the females, were first told what the talk was informing us of- how to look after ourselves out and about. We were asked if any of us knew how to change a tyre, then told how to hold our bags, what to do with our drinks in a bar, etc. I admit that I had thought that this talk was going to be a waste of my time, but I take that back and say that I do believe that it could come of some use in the future. I will now pose the question- why was this only directed at the females? surely these ex police women are fully aware that they were being extremely sexist, no? they said multiple times that no man is trustworthy but all women are. “Men are the predators and women are the victims.” this is utter bullshit. yes, perhaps the statistics show that this scenario is more common than others BUT it is idiotic and reckless to not even mention others.

I have just come back to this post, I have now edited it but I still feel as strongly as I did back when I first wrote it. It was wrong for these police officers to act the way they did, my friends and I made a complaint to the teacher that was in charge of organising the talk. Anyone can be a predator, a victim (for lack of a better word, apologies), a voice, or a silent support against sexual assault. It is up to you who you are. Fight. Don’t give in. If someone says or does something that you think is wrong, tell them so they can rectify their mistakes and better themselves.

I would like to apologies in advance if any of this offends anyone, absolutely not my intention.

If the one you love, secretly or not, expresses their love for you in the way you do, you will know you are loved in an instant. Secret love will no longer exist. But we live in a world where there are many different ways of loving, and we claim that we are not being loved just because we have no clue of their ways when it comes to love. You are loved no matter how unloveable you think you are, because you have no idea. You have no absolute idea about their ways with love.

Lukas W. // Different ways of love (via somepiecesofmyheartandsoul)