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Honestly, if CG artists unionising kills the use of CG in films, I don't see a downside.

This post has riled a lot of people. For what it's worth, my point wasn't that technology is bad and Edison was a witch, my point was that any industry that can be killed by unionizing should be.

"ANY INDUSTRY THAT CAN BE KILLED BY UNIONIZING SHOULD BE."

The reason people often "wallow in their misery" is because all of the good things that will help them have been tainted by neglect and abuse.

Going outside regularly is good for you. Being Forced to go outside when you don't want to and being treated like you're stupid for not being super into nature is going to make you not believe that.

Exercise is good for you. Being told all of your feelings are "in your head" and exercise will get rid of any mental issue you have is going to make you not believe that.

Laying off technology is good for you. Being told by a parent that they wish they could break every piece of technology you own is going to make you not believe that.

You can't be mad at people who were force-fed poison and wonder why they aren't "trying to do better"

it took another trans man sharing his blood test results with me for me to realize my doctor was committing malpractice for the past seven years by giving me far too little testosterone

it took many trans masculine people sharing their results with me to confirm it so I knew to try to find a different doctor, and they are now doubling my testosterone

I'm going to make sure to warn as many trans people as I can, as an individual, so that other people were not hurt in the way that I was hurt

this is why it's important to build communities for trans people and include them

To add to this point: It took me three years to realize my doctor committed malpractice by massively overdosing me on testosterone. It took me collapsing on my way to work and not being able to use my legs for them to figure out I was about to have a stroke as a direct result. My blood being as thick as it was meant even with twice daily blood thinners the phlebotomy I needed wasn’t possible with a 16G needle. I had a McDonalds strawberry milkshake running through my veins as apposed to the blood that should have been there and I just wouldn’t bleed. No matter how hard they tried they weren’t able to draw enough blood.

In part due to the autoimmune response that alerted me something was wrong I’ve been in pain everyday since the day before I collapsed. It’s been 5 years.

I had to be taken off testosterone and placed on blockers multiple times to prove that testosterone at healthy levels wasn’t contributing to my symptoms continuing. As an additional “fuck you” we already knew my body doesn’t function well on an estrogen dominant system. I required hospitalization and medication when I had periods when I was off testosterone. As a result of that it was recommended I get a hysterectomy sooner rather than later. Now I’m back on testosterone off blockers with a few less reproductive organs and a shit ton of medical trauma.

I will continue to scream this story from the top of my lungs until people realize the importance not just of testing your levels but understanding what the hell they even mean.

Talk to your friends about your levels have them talk to you about yours. Remind each other when it’s time to get tested. Ensure you and your friends don’t wind up like me.

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for reference:

-between ~300 and 600 ng/dl is the average male testosterone level across men across most age groups (excluding under 18)

-average male red blood cell count is between ~4.5-6 million red blood cells/mcl

-average male hemoglobin is ~13.5-17.5 g/dl

testosterone can cause your body to produce a lot more red blood cells (polycythemia) which can cause the blood thickening ^ not only should your doctor be checking your testosterone levels AT LEAST once a year, but they should also be checking your rbc count and hemoglobin levels. your doctor should also be sharing these results with you so you can make educated decisions about your health. please ask your doctor to see your results if they dont already share them, and if your levels are off, please try to see a new doctor if possible 💚

we are in a media literacy crisis

friendly reminder that characters don't need to be saints to be entertaining. and telling a story does not mean endorsement. art does not need to be all about morally good people.

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IDK if this was meant as hyperbole but it's literally true:

We are genuinely in a crisis of media literacy, with ever fewer genuinely factual resources available in the style and language used by contemporary audiences.

It may sound condescending, but we genuinely need to remind people, or worse, explain to them for the first time that art is not evidence of real world behaviour.

So, thank you, for this reminder. Genuinely.

You're correct:

Art does not need to feature exclusively morally pure characters. Art is not proof of the creator's secret, violent desires.

ETA; Yes, the links are US American; no your country is not immune to propaganda. Be POLITE in asking, and I will help you find the data for your own country as well.

"This woman is chill and attractive and she shares a lot of interests with men. This means that not only is this wish fulfillment but also women like this don't actually exist in real life and if any real woman is behaving like this then she's just faking it."

I wish I could say I was making up this argument but I have actually seen it multiple times, as the unfortunate friends I complain to on discord can verify.

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The Cool Girl monolgue and it's consequences have been a disaster for the human race.

Related: Not a fan of the way so many autistic, queer, and/or gender-nonconforming women get called "pickmes" or accused of having internalized misogyny for expressing that they have felt unwelcome around normie women based on actual experiences of exclusion, alienation, or abuse they have had.

a dimension 20 themed um actually episode where they have all the intrepid heroes on and they have to answer trivia questions about their own campaigns. brennan is trapped in a soundproofed glass box to the side banging on the walls desperately trying to answer questions but is not allowed to participate

All Trans men are men, but not all Trans men aren’t women.

All Trans women are women, but not all Trans women aren’t men.

Gender can be far more complex and less binary for many folks 💗

if you were a teenaged transmasc on tumblr betwixt the years of 2013-2015 your only name options were dave newt or alex thats it. nowadays you open a he/they/its bio and see anything from ebenezer to jpeg. and i think thats beautiful

I demand vampires with parent issues. the parents in question have been dead for 7 centuries but their immortal offspring still bring them up every week in therapy

and no i don't mean their vampiric sire aka the rando who bit them in the woods one night and fucked off. i mean like the 14th cent stonemason who refused to let his kid apprentice with a traveling bard, because that's just not solid steady work, not like this here cathedral we've been building for generations, this is a respectable family business my lad, a blessing fallen right into your lap! and you going on and on about the hurdy-gurdy. traveling minstrel indeed!

the ‘non-men’ label bothers me so much when it comes to talking about nonbinary people being welcome in women’s spaces because like. on one hand, you have someone with green hair, a buzz cut, tits and a high voice, and on the other hand you have someone who has a beard, deep voice, born with a dick and doesn’t plan on doing anything with it, and both of these two people are just as nonbinary as the other one, but we both know which one you’re thinking about when you say ‘non-men’. at this point, non-men just means anyone who passed as female, whether they are or aren’t, and its a stupid label because it’s full of internal contradictions.

This reminds me of these tags I read once that someone genuinely, sincerely wrote while thinking they support queer people

people like this think "queer" means "woman" or "femininity" which is for SURE the same in their mind anyway

Also can we talk about how this throws multigender people under the bus? "Non-men" excludes both people who are seen as men and people who identify as men even if they aren't noticed as men visually (idk if I phrased that well but I hope you get my drift).

My genders are Butch and Man, I am FtM trans, I am also nonbinary lesbian. Trying to define any queer setting/group as for non-men automatically excludes multigender people who identify with the man label, it excludes trans men, it excludes so many queer men!

prev you summed this entire post up in one sentence and i love it

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The Faroe Islands are way better

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Fuck you you live on some tiny rock in the middle of nowhere

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So do you and also your mother is a whore

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What's it like not having independece

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Does anyone care about us

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No

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I'm like not even joking btw

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this but with sweden and Norway

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Sverige är bättre an Norge

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Nei den er ikke

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Vill du kyssa

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Når som helst

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