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BITE BITE MAIM KILL (UWU)

@lil-tumbles

✰minor✰neurodivergent✰lila/ lila's or ey/em pronouns ✰non binary✰Side blogs: @catra-support-group @my-stupid-advice @myratsareadorable @theangelshavethephonebox and more lol ✰Adopted tumblr children: @kneecap-stealing-gay-rainbow and @does-existance-exist . Tumblr parents: @midnightspectrumagain, @tokitb, and @hellenhighwater ! ✰Abrosexual✰Call me Lila. Or Lil' Groot. Also sometimes go by Thira/Zac/Theo✰ feel free to talk to me anytime! ✰ ✰ ✰ Warning: my account does contain some uncensored swearing and talk of mental health stuff. Sometimes I forget to put tw or tags, so if you're really sensitive to that kind of stuff, you can always ask me to tag but i might forget so consider this before you follow

My art/writing shop is up!!! It's on redbubble and etsy! I will keep adding prints for sale, and you can commision me through my email.

I tend not to use redbubble or Etsy much anymore, instead I made my own website, where I'm currently setting up a shop. You can also message or email me to comission me or order prints.

Spotify: LilaListens

Shop: lil-artsyness on redbubble

Lilartsyness on etsy

Commisions open (art and writing). Mainly fanart/fanfic, but anything else is good too!

I'm currently saving up for a name change when I'm older, and then once that goal is met I'll donate to charities, worthwhile organisations, and people that need help.

Also y'all, adding to this post as a byf: Inclus, tucute, BLM, love is love and you are you, families don't deserve to be separated, neurodivergent #redinstead fuck A$ and ABA. Pedos, transmeds, people who post a lot of proship content, DNI

Also this account may have some light swearing, stuff about the pandemic, d3@th mentions, stuff like that. I'll try and remember to put a tw in the tags but I may forget so if you are really sensitive to that kind of stuff maybe don't follow for your own safety. Stay safe❤️

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“Carious” is a largely forgotten word for something decayed or otherwise a corpse and that makes the word “precarious” really funny when you break it down, like oh you’re in danger so you’re pre-corpse, except that’s not even the etymology of precarious??? Disagree

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“can a robot even have mental illnesses” they are allowed to have whatever they want. don’t be fucking rude

robots can have mental illnesses we can't even conceive of - like shrimp colors

Listen up please

This is incredibly important.

The united States government has been trying to remove the protections of native children mainly via possibly overturning the ICWA (Indian Child Welfare Act)

This will allow white families to continue to take native children from their lands their family and their culture just like they did for centuries before the ICWA was passed.

This is both incredibly important and incredibly personal as my family was permanently harmed because of children being taken away from their families.

So please spread awareness about this and I have a link below that you can go to the first Nations website learn more about this and and write a response that they can use about how we should be saving the ICWA

Listen up please

This is incredibly important.

The united States government has been trying to remove the protections of native children mainly via possibly overturning the ICWA (Indian Child Welfare Act)

This will allow white families to continue to take native children from their lands their family and their culture just like they did for centuries before the ICWA was passed.

This is both incredibly important and incredibly personal as my family was permanently harmed because of children being taken away from their families.

So please spread awareness about this and I have a link below that you can go to the first Nations website learn more about this and and write a response that they can use about how we should be saving the ICWA

the thing is like. i get that it's scary and makes people who do desire to get pregnant uncomfortable when we talk about the brutality and violence of pregnancy and the damage that pregnancy can do to your body

but you deserve to give informed consent to that process.

the lies around pregnancy - that it's inherently safe, that it doesn't do you permanent damage, that it's only extremely rare for people to die of pregnancy complications, etc like

all of these are lies constructed so that more people will get pregnant w/o knowing all that

there needs to be more talk about the impact of miscarriages and how common they are, how different abortion processes are and how accessible they are

but also like. talking about how pregnancy fucks your body up should not be taboo

this is a process that permanently changes most people's bodies, and that's even if the pregnancy doesn't do them like. severe illness or injury

and i just think everybody should have a right to KNOW that

bc to live in a society that intentionally obscures and hides facts about a completely optional and dangerous process does so for a reason, and that reason is based in a very sinister ideology that does not value bodily autonomy or informed consent

the number of people who are pregnant and don't know about what induced labour entails and what post partum bleeding is horrifies me

Here is a story about the depths to which pregnant people are seen as a vessel for a baby, and the importance of finding prenatal care that assumes you are a human and not a baby holder:

When I was pregnant I was in a million forums for pregnant people because (cough adhd hyperfixation) and I had something called SPD (Symphysis pubis dysfunction) (not Sensory Processing Disorder though I also have that) which is where your pubic bones separate early (more or less) because they get all loosey goosey as your body gets ready to crank that baby out.

Except my pubic bone got confused and got misaligned at like 3 months pregnant. I could barely walk. I couldn't roll over in bed. Doing something that required me to shift my weight from one foot to another like opening a door knob was like an excruciatingly painful knife being stabbed into my pubic bone, I can't express how intense and blinding it was.

So I am in one million baby forums like "am I dying what is happening why is there a knife in my pubic bone" and all these people are like "I have that too! my doctor says it's normal and not to worry because it doesn't hurt the baby. I just deal with it by laying in bed for months in excruciating pain and think about how lucky I am to be having a little miracle growing in my body."

So lol nope. I went to my midwife and they are like, "Oh squeeze a can between your knees look up a physical therapy youtube on SPD" and I did that can-squeeze thing and it CURED THE PROBLEM in ONE DAY. I had been SUFFERING, y'all, it felt miraculous.

And I was so full of rage (flames, flames on the side of my face) that people are being told "Oh, it's NORMAL just deal with it" "It doesn't hurt the baby." Like, look, yes it's NORMAL but it's 100% treatable!!! SPD (again, not Sensory processing disorder) affects 1 in 5 pregnant people.

I was lucky to have amazing midwives (need a gender neutral term for that profession, but they see pregnant men and women)(side note highly recommend midwives if you are gender nonconfirming/a man/etc) and I have DOZENS of examples of shit like this.

(Another example is post partum friends being like "oh I am peeing my pants 900x day after giving birth" and my doctor says it's NORMAL so I just dealt with it for decades. My midwives were like "Oh that's normal and also physical therapy cures that in like 2 sessions")