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that's what i'm saying.. what's with the erasure

I've seen a handful of people on here remarking that she became Muslim but like...framing it as a bad thing...

And like. The thing that defines her entire public life is that she unapologetically and uncompromisingly lived her truth. If you respect her tearing up a picture of the Pope but don't respect her being Muslim, then you don't really respect the person she was. You respect the person you wanted her to be.

She was one of us.

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Tweet(?)/story by aljazeeraenglish in #music: Sinead O'Connor's Muslim identity is missing in obituaries, some fans say.

[Photo of Shuhada' Sadaqat, nee Sinead O'Connor, holding a microphone stand steady and waving at her audience with a smile. She's wearing long sleeves and a hijab.]

As musicians, politicians and fans remember Sinead O'Connor, some muslims are disappointed that the Irish singer and lifelong activist's religious identity is not being highlighted in tributes.

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twitter will expose you to types of guys that you thought were extinct

the best part about this map is that everywhere in blue and green completely sucks. They're an economic and cultural drain in the country. It's filled with meth and super cults and contributes nothing. Crazy how shit Prods are.

tumblr will expose you to types of guys that you thought were extinct

PLEASE:

Put your fics under KEEP READING !!!!!!

I am tired of scrolling through a fic in the tags. It will guarantee I won’t read it.

It’s not that hard. You can do it on desktop or mobile.

Those three little dots are the way to do a keep reading line on desktop.

Mobile is even easier!!!! You simply put the information in the parenthesis on a line ( :readmore: )

See????

STOP POSTING FICS WITHOUT A KEEP READING!!!!!!!!

To add in, not only is it respectful of your followers dashes, but you’re more likely to get reblogs as readers will not need to be concerned with smacking the entirety of a 8k post across their own followers dashes. More importantly you are also helping people avoid potentially harmful triggers. And no matter the length, NSFW and explicit content should be under the cut to limit the exposure of non-appropriate works to minors.

Wanting to make people read your fic does not override your responsibility as an author.

Diabetes isnt the 'ate too many sweets disease'. It just fucking is not. It's your body slowly losing an integral function needed to nuture and energize it. Its your pancreas shutting down, its your blood cells rejecting your attempts to feed itself, its not enough insulin to go around. Its you slowly getting colder and weaker, gorging yourself with healthy food and getting next to no benefit, its being so exhausted you cant sleep. Diabetes used to kill, straight-up KILL. So no, I don't think I will be laughing at your diabetes joke.

Do you know why diabetics eat so many sweets? Because we need sugar, and we need sugar FAST. Everyones' bodies rely on sugars for nutrients and energy, and in a non-diabetic body sugars get absorbed at a normal rate using your normal amount of insulin into your normal red blood cells. This happens to healthy carbs, superfood vegetables, and some proteins!

Diabetics dont have that luxury! Without medication, our body is in a constant crisis where we need more sugar and the sugars that break down the fastest are sweets! But then they dont all get absorbed, then the unabsorbed sugar hangs out in our bloodstream then gets flushed out, and then we still need more. All those healthy things break down too slowly for when we're in a crisis, and then we STILL dont absorb all of it! And I'm only talking about type 2, type 1 cant absorb anything at all because they dont have any insulin!

You cannot healthy eat or diet your way out of diabetes. You cannot lose weight out of diabetes. Once you get diabetes, even if you manage your symptoms perfectly you HAVE diabetes. You have a chronic illness. And that means its time to see doctors, get on medications, and practice self care.

And sometimes self care means you eat dessert first while dinner is cooking so you have the energy to finish cooking. Sometimes that means eating many small meals to match your body's absorption rate. Sometimes that means eating at midnight so you have the blood sugar to sleep.

Im just tired of diabetes being seen as a joke or only something you get if you're 'bad'. And diabetics? I love you, talk to a nutritionist about diabetic eating, and don't forget your meds.

Reblog if you have used dude as a non gender specific term.

where I grew up in California not only is “dude” generally non-gender-specific, half of the time it doesn’t even refer to a person at all.

I said it to a faucet today. 

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A customer once came to me to order a sandwich and said “I want this dude”

Dude is more than a word, it’s an emotion. 

dude is a way of life

Absolutely.

all goofing aside I genuinely don't understand the urge to reimagine Taylor Allison Swift as a secretly queer icon when the pop music scene(TM) is like. literally overflowing with women who actually like women. Gaga and Kesha and Miley and Halsey are right there. Rina Sawayama and Hayley Kiyoko and Rebecca Black and Kehlani and Victoria Monét and Miya Folick if you're willing to get slightly less top 100. Janelle and Demi for them nonbinary takes on liking girls. like what are we doing here. like I'm not even saying you can't enjoy Taylor but why would you hang all your little gay hopes on her.

Isn’t Lady Gaga bisexual?

yes that is indeed why she's on the list of famous women who like women

why have multiple people reblogged this with some horse-assed "um actually most of these people are bi or pan" did I fucking stutter I said they like girls. what is your point. I'm going to kill you.

AMAZING news: the Reproductive Freedom Act in Ohio has now officially been CERTIFIED to be on the ballot in this November's election. It gathered 495,938 signatures from 55 counties across Ohio. Republicans messed around & women & young people will make them find out.

Okay, but Ohioans need to get the fuck to the polls for our special election on August 8th!!! The Republican fucks are trying to change our simple majority necessary for amendments to 60%. The Columbus Dispatch says "Issue 1 is one of the most significant questions Ohio voters will be asked in generations," and that's no exaggeration. Get out there, and vote no. Early voting and absentee ballot requests are still going on, if you are registered to vote!

We gotta vote no on issue 1 in Ohio on August 8th, 2023.

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Republican Secretary of State Frank LaRose admitted last month “[Issue 1] is 100% about keeping a radical, pro-abortion amendment out of our constitution.”

idk man i think that if you can read dozens and dozens of trans men talking about how their support systems abandoned them when they started getting too masculine on T or had top surgery or whatever, and queer spaces started treating them like threats or potential predators, and you find these stories going back to the 90s or even earlier, and you read all of that and come away thinking that there’s nothing wrong with how progressive communities treat men, you are just fundamentally beyond help dude. you don’t see us as people

Just did a google news search on KOSA, and found a ton of identical "pink slime" articles being posted on local TV station sites.

Just to be clear... this is disinformation.

The bill does not explicitly call for uploading your driver's license, that's just the likely outcome.

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It doesn't specify how to verify age, but checking government ID is the fastest and easiest and cheapest way for a company to do it so that's what they'll pick.

I was so confused abt the driving license part before I realized this is USA news… every time I forget you all don’t have government health insurance cards with photo

So…. You need to have a driver’s licence to get your identity confirmed?!!! What about when you vote and they ask photo ID, do you absolutely have to have a passport or a driving licence? Because I can’t think of another form of identification that comes with a photo… unless there is one on your SSN card?

But then… that would make having a driving licence a matter of accessibility for way more than just driving…. Like getting packages in the mail and certain medical prescriptions and stuff… That can’t be right…

It is, indeed, the way we do things here! 🙃

Noticed something a little funky in the world around you and want to figure out what's up? Especially if there might be something you ought to be doing about it? Not sure what information sources to trust these days? If you're in the US, federal agencies like NOAA, USGS, EPA and more collect massive amounts of scientific data every day, much of which is publicly available online - if you know where to look.

A PDF version with clickable links is available for free on my itchio page (quakeandquiver); I'll add a direct link in a reblog.

oh my god. they changed the "hide my blog from search results" setting to "discourage searching of my blog". ie it's no longer possible to stop google & co from indexing your blog.

this feels like the kind of change tumblr should give a heads up about rather than silently make. if you have a blog, google is indexing it now. there is no way to stop google from indexing your blog now. regardless of previous settings, your blog is now being indexed by search engines. you can't turn this off.

i think the only way to know for sure is if @staff confirms one way or the other

It is semantic - they are actually doing what they can.  Which makes sense if you look at the actual setting, they specifically call out that it’s up to search engines to honor the request but they have no way to ensure that they will.  The joys of little to no regulation in meta tag behavior.

When you turn on the setting, it does add the noindex tag, which google should (and used to) honor.  If they aren’t, that’s on google... maybe something on their end changed.

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This is just a copy and not a functional change, it’s working exactly how it’s always worked we just wanted to make it clearer that we can’t guarantee that search engines won’t index something we can only ask them not to.