Another reason why Donald Glover’s ‘Atlanta’ is one of the best shows on television…
this was genius
This scared me so much when I saw this lol
If u dnt get it it aint for u smh 🤦🏾♂️

this was genius
This scared me so much when I saw this lol
If u dnt get it it aint for u smh 🤦🏾♂️
I fucking hate it when I’m scrolling through a good blog thinking “hmm might follow this” and then I see that ridiculous post whitesplaining to black Americans that racism is “different” in Europe and that white people can be victims of racism here.
No. We’re not. White people from Poland and Romania and other countries can be victims of xenophobia. People of colour are victims of racism. And racism in the UK looks much like racism in America - we have police brutality against black people, a disproportionate amount of black people in prison, Islamophobic hate crime, lack of POC representation in our media, a disproportionate amount of POCs living in poverty and all the rest of it.
White people are not victims of racism. We can be victims of xenophobic hate crime, xenophobic discrimination and xenophobic legislation but we will never ever be victims of racism.
And you can sit there and shrug and say “meh same difference” but it fucking matters. It matters because white people are responsible for racism whether we like it or not. We all benefit from white privilege and we’re all complicit to varying degrees. When people blur the lines between racism and xenophobia, it leads to the fallacy that anyone can be a victim of racism, which means nobody is really responsible and nobody has any particular obligation to examine their thoughts and actions.
Xenophobia is dangerous and life threatening and oppressive. We don’t have to mislabel it as racism to understand that. Racism and xenophobia have separate histories and separate causes. It’s not difficult to learn the difference.
the guide to our Blackery.
I feel like re-watching all of these over the next few weeks.
Ok but why is body positivity so focused on telling people that they’re beautiful, rather than telling them that beauty is not the highest achievement for human beings?
OH SHIT THERE IT IS
The books I intend to have my child read one day, and the order in which I’ll have them do it.
Fixed it so that they’re on one post instead of photos in the comments. It’s not really in order now, just a part 1 of books to have them read early on and then revisit together years later to see how their perceptions of the books and subtle nuances they didn’t notice before change. I think that as a parent you can be extremely disengaged from how your child is actually progressing, and I think this is a way that I can see their progress in how they think and see the world.
1. The Internet 2. SZA 3. FKA Twigs 4. Kelela 5. Shay Lia 6. Banks 7. James Blake 8. Kimbra 9. The Internet 10. Raury
11. Alina Baraz 12. Chloe x Halle 13. Zola Jesus 14. CHINAH 15. NAO 16. AURORA 17. MS MR
18. Sampha 19. LOLAWOLF 20. Kilo Kish 21. SBTRKT 22. NONAME <– Soundcloud only I think 23. Blood Orange 24. AlunaGeorge 25. Loyle Carner
26. Mura Masa 27. Honne 27. Anderson .Paak 28. Goldlink 29. Masego 30. Frank Ocean (only because he M.I.A now) 31. James Davis
32. R6volv9r
33. Yuna
34. Sango
36. SABA 37. Kitty Cash 38. Aminé 39. RajiTheOne 40. DVSN 41. Kali Uchis 42. Mick Jenkins 43. Kyle Dion 44. Ravyn Lanae 45. Khalid 46. Moxie Raia 47. WILOUGH (Willow Smith) 48. Jaden Smith 49. Jean Deaux 50. Toro y Moi 51. KYLE 52. How To Dress Well
53. J.I.D
54. Matt Corby 55. James Arthur
56. Daniel Caesar 57. Sonder 58. Dave East 59. A Boogie 60. Taylor Bennet
61. H. E. R
62. KXNG Crooked 63. The Horseshoe Gang
64. Children of Zeus
65. 6lack
66. Hiatus kaiyote 67. Tank and the Bangas 68. FKJ
69. DA$H 70. AtotheVee 71. Maxo Cream
72. Eli Sostre 73. Goody (@itsgoody_) 74. Amir Obe
You can “rewire” your brain to be happy by simply recalling 3 things you’re grateful for every day for 21 days.
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I’m not shocked but honestly I’m so disappointed. I’m a girl who grew up in Kolkata, someone who grew up hearing about Mother Teresa and to be honest I hate the fact that the liberal, white, Western media has held this woman as some sort of paragon of virtue. And she really wasn’t. Here are some things she did:
There are more shady things about her but I’m over this beatification of Mother Teresa. I’m over her, and I’m over this constant fawning. Kolkata isn’t the “city where Mother Teresa lived”. It has it’s own identity and Mother Teresa doesn’t, at least in my opinion, deserve this honour that the Catholic Church is bestowing on her.
Can I please add that time when she called AIDS a “just retribution for improper sexual conduct”.
HOLY SHIT
I have literally never heard any of this about her before and this is horrifying…the fact that she was a misogynist and a bigot just gets glossed over and forgotten and instead everyone who talks about her seems to just talk about her as if she was some kindly old woman who never did a thing wrong…
It’s kind of horrifying to think that I’ve learned more about what people like her or Ghandi were really like than I ever did from history class…where they’re held up as being these great and saintly heroes…
I’ve never heard these things. Is this accurate and where can i get further information?
Ok, so I’ve been seeing a lot of people who want sources. Please don’t be rude- Google is out there please use it, it’s a free service. Either way, here are some other sources you can use to further your knowledge:
RB this so you demons can stop romanticising this woman
how do you know if you're in love???
I honestly asked my friend this same question just hours ago as I was clueless myself but thinking about it now I think it’s when for the first time after what seemed like a dreadful year (or life), you look forward to waking every morning knowing he (let’s use he as it’s me talking) will be there for you. I think it’s just plain seeing him and being happy that’s he’s around. It’s being happy just by hearing his voice. No matter how bad your day is, one message from him would make your entire day. It’s when he makes you want to write long letters and huge poems. It’s not all about “lust”- it’s more of the intimate relationship you have together. It’s when the simplest of things count. It’s when you start to mature and start to plan something with him for the future. It’s when he makes you want to start fixing your life. It’s when he’s always in your head 3 pm or 3 am. It’s when you can’t stop talking or thinking about him. It’s when you just really always miss him even if he’s right beside you. It’s the “I used to like green eyes but now blue eyes are my favorite”. It’s when all love and cheesy stuff just apply for him. It’s when you begin to see nothing but him and you value him like you value yourself. It’s not the “heart pounding, hands sweating” feeling but more of the “I feel home” feeling. It’s more of like talking to yourself- being yourself with someone without worries. It’s when you begin to really trust him with everything and that includes your happiness. It’s when he’s your happiness. It’s when subconsciously you change for the better. It’s when you once again start opening up after a long time. It’s when you are denying it at most cause you are afraid of how strong you feel and last I think while you’re reading this- there’s someone in your head right now and you’re just contemplating whether you’re in love with him or not but hey the fact that he or she is the person (out of billions of people) in your mind while you read this must say a lot.
Between the T.O. HOF shit and Colin Kaepernick, I really am done with the NFL. I won’t ever watch this shit again. How you allow rapists, murderers, abusers, drug addicts and dealers to cook but a nigga stand up for himself and it’s a problem. Roger Goodell can suck my dick. Fuck the NFL.
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I consider Fred Rogers (Mr. Rogers) to be the embodiment of Maya Angelou’s quote: “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”.
keep the things that make you happy to be yourself close to your heart
A feminine Male is not a Gay Male Gay is a sexual preference, not a choice in expression, unless you’re talking about the Gay as in happy. I’m coming out as a straight Male to say that I embrace my femininity, without a misunderstanding of my sexual orientation through perceived societal constructs of how a Man should behave.
Stop stereotyping everything. I like Pink and Heart Emojis. 💕
Shot by @sirius.film Clothing @localheroes
love for all the love❤️
Elvis Presley was out dating 14 year olds n shit and was never accused of being a pedophile but Michael Jackson is still accused til this day of being one when there is actual proof he never touched any children in a sexual way.
Things that make you say hmm 🤔
But we all know why 👋🏾😒
The world and its ways🙄✌🏽️
Elvis Presley making everyone think he invented rock n roll basically stealing from black culture and on top of that he’s a pedophile. YET people still love and adore him and you never see anything bad written about him. Then you got MICHAEL MUTHAFUCKIN JACKSON who broke down racial barriers, changed the game for pop music and music videos, greatest entertainer of all time who put all his heart and soul into his performances, and donated hundreds of millions of dollars to charities, but people see him as a freak, pedophile, say that he hated his race and bleached his skin. Now does that make any damn sense?????
I find it fascinating that people who choose not to have children are generally assumed to feel really strongly about not having children (or even to feel really strongly against children, anyone’s children, in general). I am probably not going to have children, not because I REALLY REALLY HATE the idea of having children, but because I don’t really really love it. Out of all the major decisions I will make in my life, this one is the only irreversible one. I can sell a house, quit a job, divorce a spouse, whatever. I cannot unhave a child. I cannot opt out of being a parent once I become a parent. I can’t even take a step back for the sake of self-care or whatever, or else my child will suffer.
So for me, having children is fuck yes or not at all. The default will be to remain childfree. Having children should be an opt-in decision, not an opt-out one. Until/unless I develop really strong feelings about wanting to have children, I won’t have them, even if that means I never end up having them at all.
As a mother, I really wish more people gave having children this kind of clear contemplation and thought. It’s an irreversible decision. Too many people don’t understand that.
this this this this this.
My gf of 3 years is the queen of “wherever” and “I don’t care” when it comes to this. This little game fixed our problem immediately. It takes the pressure off of her, but still gives her a choice about where to eat.
(this can also work with kids and indecisive friends)
How to hack executive dysfunction
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